Shin

Yeah that would be great

You can also feel your body, especially if you have recurrent pain somewhere. Most effective way though is to be aware of your crazy, uninspiring, negative thoughts patterns. If you didn't have thoughts patterns, there would be no problem to be aware all the time.

"I'm a bit less deluded than my highly deluded friend" Like that change everything Right ...

What you're talking about, again, rarely applies in life todays, there is always enough money to earn if you are humble enough to work at whatever basic job there is an offer on. Survival is not about having enough money to feed yourself anymore (in most modern countries). So this doesn't even applies.

An evolved man wouldn't have a competition mindset

That's life and death situation, you're not facing this 99.99999% of the time you're alive. Unless you live in a country that is red/low blue stage on the spiral, it may not even happen once.

Maybe the point is to trick them into becoming an amazing holistical human being instead of an autistic alpha male

Good Then go get rejected, and feel deeply the emotions that comes out of it. Then meditate a lot on it. Then do it again.

Leo WTF Where is your video on dirty talk ?

If it is true (I can't know for sure ofc), then you mind will do everything not to look at it. So be very cautious has to what your thoughts tells you, they are mostly playing tricks on you.

She was not angry. You project that on her because you know deep down what she's saying is true, it's unconscious scapegoating. Yeah, you don't like it, because you know that ex girlfriend is right, but you don't want to accept it, so it makes you mad From what you've said, how you write, how you react to posts, I can tell that the chance of you being a controlling asshole is pretty high

That's an ideal, but you can be pretty high on the spectrum of all those points, if not hit all of them totally. It's extremely challenging and emotionally disturbing to go through, but that's the cost to true freedom and peace. There is probably not a lot of guys like that (more than you think though), but that's mainly because our society is all about superficiality, which of course means superficial masculinity.

I wrote that from what I feel nowadays, but I read that book 2 years ago yes

Do it then

You don't have to be concerned about how actualized you are, everyone goes to its own pace. This ofrum is merely an external aid in case you need to learn something or get support (even though sometimes we can be huge dicks). There is no better of or higher of, you're already amazing as you are

What is to be a man ?

That tells me she has touched something right though

But maybe you can still prefer exclusivity as a genuine preference.

I just can't be tired of it ...

There is no me, there is only I ! Who is there to say me ?! No one ! There is only I !

That's a really long time to leave

You need to be highly intuitive and see beyond the words. Being "smart" as it usually is portrayed isn't gonna help if you cling to the concepts instead of using them to see what they are pointing to. Being "smart" can be your worst ennemy here as Ajasatya pointing out Because that mean your intellect can bullshit itself to an infinite degree

One time ?