Shin

Can you give me an example of what you were gonna do about it ?

I was a doomer !

Good So now do the real inner work

Maybe the only reason you chase girls and sex is to prove something to yourself and others. Apparently it's never enough.

Yeah well I'm going to do it n the morning from now on I don't want to have to count when I can go to sleep I'm not a grandma yet

Until you're accustomed to it and it's super easy

I'm actually sending a sms to a girl I met 1 year ago ...

@billiesimon See, it's also hurting her. Don't use the excuse that she sees you as a loser and won't care, that is most likely not the case ...

Yes I did, very effective, that's why I'm not doing it

No. Women don't see the nice guys as loser, unless those guys are really nasty and sneaky with them (which they will notice). They see you as genuine friend and really care, but yeah they are not attracted. t's not because they are not attracted that suddenly you become a loser and useless though. Some girls thinks like that, but that's definitely not the majority.

You need to take care of that scarcity mindset which creates neediness followed by suffering when you realize you are unnattractive to most of the opposite sex. You're suffering because subconsciously you think she should be attracted to you, or because you deserve or need love/sex/girls. Probably all the above. The only way out of this is taking care of the root cause, so embodying masculinity but also your feminine side genuinely. The masculine because otherwise you will not be confident, and the feminine because otherwise you will stay an emotionless robot afraid of your emotions. The Way Of The Superior Men by David Deida/Models by Mark Manson, Leo's videos about relationship attraction and The Power of Now from Eckhart Tolle, you read all of this non mechanically and take intelligent step using them ?

You're never gonna grow if you don't face what hurts you. If you don't grow you're not gonna attract the kind of girl you would really want to be with ?

Good opportunity to work on your attachment level and transcend it.

If you don't see her as a friend but just a girlfriend, it shows you don't really care about her, so why would you want her as your girlfriend ?

You don't know anything for sure, so don't believe your thoughts about that. Ask her out on a date, and precise that it's not a friend kind of date. If she says no, just stay friend and seek another girlfriend.

That would still be me without Leo Ok that's me right fucking now But I made some huge effort today so shhhhh

That's a lot of "I" Have you done your Survival homework little devil ?

True, but if you take Buddha, it was extremely precise and neutral of religious beliefs

I always think your avatar is a stormtropper. That has to be said

I don't want to spam the forum by creating a post just for this so What is the thing about sleeping just after working out ? Is it good or should I wait 3/4 hours after a workout to go to sleep ? I see conflicting opinions on websites/forums about that Thank you very much

It's the illusion of safety

Gonna get real weird real fast. Fasten your seatbelt

"My relative experience is more true than your relative experience !"

I didn't expect it to be so easy. Meditating all day (till now), was a breeze. Except the first hour, you just totally let go and stay peaceful as fuck. I probably should do this every free day I have from now on It's not like there is anything more important to do. 6 hours to do the rest of my habits and having some fun is way enough anyway. If I find my balls I might even do self-inquiry for half of the day, but they are still missing for now Maybe Kriya Yoga as replacement if I still insist to be a little girl, I still didn't try it @Inliytened1