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You will stop trying to get a meaning out of life and you will stop feeling empty.

But he probably needs to see it for himself. The trick is to be conscious while doing it.

Sexual mastery, in the sense of being able to be in complete control both of your body and mind is really not an option if you want to have amazing sex and/or a healthy relationship (I will explain later on what that means exactly). It's just so blablantly obvious that the only way to not see or accept this is being either addicted/extremely deluded or ignorant (but that's ok, I mean we all are on so many subjects ). So there is two points on which that it is important to have sexual mastery. The first is that you can't have amazing sex without it, not possible. This is the case because sex is mostly composed of teasing , you can't do proper teasing as a man if you are a slave to your sexual urges, Whether it is physical, which means your body moves almost by itself, by compulsions without you being able to stop it, Or mental, which means you are so aroused that you become unconscious and are totally lost, a slave to your mind and raw emotions, that is more subtler, but your woman will feels that you are lost, and she won't like it. Those two overlaps and reinforce each other of course. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that letting yourself go is a wrong thing to do as a man in bed. What I mean, is that your girl will feel if you either let yourself go, or if you are just a slave to your impulses. This is a critical distinction, because in the first case she will 100% trust you, in the later she can't, you're an animal without consciousness ... Sex is all about the girl trusting you and letting herself go completely for you, The same for the man of course, but when he chose to, after foreplay and the intercourse teasing phase, And even after that he can still go back to control mod if it's needed, because even if he totally let go, he can still chose to be fully conscious by intuition. The second reason is that a woman can't respect you otherwise It's about the girl trusting and respecting you more generally in the relationship. Basically, if she can feel that you can't help yourself by always having sex, even when you shouldn't for some practical reasons, whether it's for her or you, then she will not trust you. You need to understand that what makes a woman really wet for you, what she needs to feel of you to respect and trust you as her man, Is you being able to handle anything that comes to you, and not budge at all, because you are the one who decides what happens or not, not anyone or anything else. You need to be able to refuse her whatever she wants if that doesn't make sense to you, she might not appreciate the decisions you make, but she will respect them. This is not that obvious as it seems, because it's more about your mental state than anything else, she will know if you lie or not, are overdoing it or are genuine. So this includes way more than just being able to refuse to have sex with her, even though it's a crystal clear sign that she won't be able to control you. And again, don't try to do that if it's not genuine, she will know if you struggle internally or not, don't play mindgame with a woman, you're gonna lose trust me Another thing, your woman will always test you, because her greatest pleasure in the relationship (and that should be obvious by now) is to feel that you're the man, the rock, the anchor that she decides to be with. The more she likes/loves you, the more she will test you. Don't ever expect her to stop testing you. The only reason to say to her to stop, is if it becomes toxic and starts to go into the contract of your relationship exclusivity. If she doesn't, then break up, because that woman is just a mess and will only rip your heart appart in the end. Bottom line Do Nofap and consciousness/shadow work and read about masculine/feminine psychology (David Deidas books are great for that). If you want amazing sex and a healthy relationship You don't have a choice.

It's both you and not you. The same way as in a dream everything is made of your consciousness, but that consciousness pervades everything in the dream. Saying that nothing exist and that God is alone, is the same as saying that everything exist and God is everything.

That's an incomplete realization. There is more to go. Don't expect all teachers to have gone all the way.

If that was true, you wouldn't care. What you know conceptually is NOT the Truth. It's just words in your head.

It is dumb if you are dumb ? Marriage or commitment to a single partner can be extremely fulfilling, beautiful and greatly speed your spiritual growth. You have to be conscious and purified enough for that first, then find someone who has the same mindset/path. Most people aren't conscious enough, enter relationship to gain something and be happy, don't study masculine/feminity polarity or how to show your love (which is different for each person) So of course it can't work.

Or having anal with you. I was for sure caught up in that one

One meal a day saturday challenge suceeded ?

Especially about the past and future, that's only relevant to remember something practical or to plan something. Oh boy there is no way to stop it, it's totally automatic, you can't do anything ?

So I'm basically «doing» self-inquiry non stop for 1 year. I WAS FOOLED !

Yeah drop that, that actually makes it harder. You can be horny as hell and still be totally in control, without struggling or supressing anyting.

Definitely not something Leo care to embody those days. He's been arrogant for the past months, but now he's literally saying "Shut the fuck, if you don't agree with me I'll ban you". He is becoming the exact thing he said we should avoid with his cult leader video. May not be a cult now, but it surely will become one if he doesn't slow down and chill the fuck up.

Ok, maybe I'm not completely fucked up about that then.

What if you never feel love (towards everyone and everything). As in no memory of it whatsoever, even when you were a child ?

Just be careful if you're not emotionally stable those days. If you get too close, you may get crazy or deeply depressed for some time.

The only thing that is required is being genuinely interested to free yourself, or to know the Truth for Truth sake. Psychedelics are one powerful tool though, but if you're not seeking genuinely, and seek a way to escape life/responsabilities, or acquire a «saint» state Then the only thing that will happen is you chasing more fancy experiences and get distracted for years/decades. Enlightenment is not a state, it's right here right now.

It's not about man or woman, but about masculinity and femininity. That's different.

Lady parts is the only thing that matters After Enlightenment and Love of course

Just get rid of all those cryptic stuff It's all THERE YOU SILLY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We live in a stage orange world, it's expected for a vast majority of people to only seek short term solutions

Just retrieved it from an old redguard king and gave it to Sheogorath. Then he told me to use his staff to transform his servants into sheeps.