How to be wise

@itachi uchiha Which is better, getting your country supported by Orange/Green or Blue/Orange?

You have a strange definition of intelligence.

Most women I know are more interested in ‘feeling’ than in ‘truth’. If you ever debated your girlfriend, you’ll know this. Logic flies out the window for them.

We can’t stay in Blue forever.

@Someone here As God said to Neale, “Religion is not good for you. Leave organised religion and enter spirituality.” Organised religion must die if society is to evolve.

@Leo Gura Just keep in mind that if you get a girlfriend from the nightclub, she will be somebody that likes going to nightclubs since she was there before you met. That means she will continue going to the nightclub even after you two are together. Now you have two options: Go to the nightclub with her every time, where you don’t like going to, or have her go by herself. She will be hit on by guys continuously, so you better hope she is the type of girl that will reject all of them.

@Hulk There is no future.

Did you want sibo, or to be bald?

Of course there are more important factors. But all things being equal, every man would prefer if their girl didn’t fuck another guy. I think it’s pretty obvious. Try telling your current boyfriend how you and your ex fucked each other. Of course he won’t like it.

Maybe I don’t, but relationship experts do. Everything I said is exactly what they teach in their books and courses.

Nobody can read women intuitively, except for a psychic. Almost all relationship coaches and professionals agree on this: Once a cheater, always a cheater. If you know she cheated in the past, it’s best to look for a better prospect rather than spend your whole life sleeping with one eye open. The most important thing to a man is loyalty, commitment and monogamy. You can’t just let your guard down. This applies to all men, not just the op.

Long distance relationships are always going to be difficult. My advice is to keep things casual and date other girls until you settle in a fixed place. You simply don’t know that. Disloyal women do not give different vibes from loyal ones. If you ever find out that she cheated in the past, you must discard her as a relationship potential. Do not accept any excuses. People don’t change their values in life. You must remember this. She could be a good ‘friends with benefits’ though.

@Aiden grannen A 17 year old shouldn’t be messing with drugs.

Cockblocking is what rival men do to stop you. Clam slamming is what her girlfriends do to stop you.

@Leo Gura How often are you banging girls from nightclubs? Once a month?

Seafood and organ meat, alongside most powders have high levels of heavy metals. But if we can get rid of these heavy metals with chelation, why avoid these foods? All we need to do is take a urine test every six months, and when the levels of heavy metals reaches a sufficiently high level, we use chelation until they are back to zero. Surely this is a much more efficient strategy than just cutting out so many nutrient-dense foods permanently.

There have been quite a few suicides in this forum. Rather worrying.

@Miguel1 It’s on the blog.

Dismissive/Avoidant

Las Vegas is 650K.

Practically speaking, you need to make them so. If a woman cheats, you know for a fact that she doesn’t value loyalty and commitment. As soon as she is unhappy in her relationship, instead of communicating with her partner to fix it, she looks for other guys to make her happy. It’s literally impossible to have a long term relationship with such a woman. No guy can keep his girlfriend happy 24/7. We all get busy, get caught up in our life purpose, and the relationship goes through a dry phase where you’re not making the girl happy. If she doesn’t value commitment and loyalty, she’s not going to bother trying to fix the relationship. Instead she will go to night clubs and make out with guys to get the attention she’s missing from you. This is why most relationship coaches say that nightclubs are the worst places to look for a girl to date. It’s full of unloyal and insecure women who are simply looking for attention. Is that really the type of girl you are looking to build a deep relationship with?

I’ve watched many relationship coaches talk about this. If a woman values loyalty and commitment, and has integrity, she will never cheat. If a woman lacks any of these, she wouldn’t mind fucking guys behind your back. They warn that as soon as you know that a girl has cheated, you must discard her. Women either value loyalty or they don’t. If she made out with you behind her husband’s back, nothing would stop her from doing the same to you when you are in a relationship. You don’t have to ‘game’ them. Simply approach them, talk for a couple of minutes, then ask her out. If she is attracted to you and single, there’s no reason for her to refuse. Women will know whether or not they’re attracted to you as soon as they see you. You don’t have to ‘talk them into attraction’.

If she made out with you whilst she was married, it says a lot about her integrity, or lack thereof. Wouldn’t it be smarter to go to places where you’re more likely to meet girls with similar values, like a meditation retreat, or a satsang, and try your luck there. You’re far more likely to meet a girl with similar goals/values. People who like the same things tend to like each other.

@Leo Gura You said previously that you’re looking for a deep relationship. Are you really going to find a girl with similar goals/values as you in a nightclub?