egoeimai

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  1. She protected you from her own following misery. She wanted you to stay away in order not to share her sadness ...her own rejection from the other boy.

    You should know that this was very good for you.

    Although..i think that if u like a girl and you see her sexually/erotically, you should stay away from her business/past/troubles with other people. Maybe she thought you were this guy that could do anything to help her with her own troubles and then she would get attached to you. Maybe she wouldnt like to be attached to anyone. And this is the natural way to live. You should do the same.

    Forget about the nice things she has. 

    Meditation is good.well done and keep it up.

    I think that there is lack of self confidence again. I have wrote it in another posts in this forum. Know that you re an individual that has his own world which contains happiness and u dont have to drag happiness from others in order to live paracitically. Excuse my english. I do my best. Anyway. Do your best to find joy within you. There is nothing in this person that can make you so happy If you dont find happiness in yourself. People cant makes us happy. Healthy relationships are like this. A happy person meets a happy person and they share their happiness and journey. Find your way to be happy. Its important.


  2. On Sunday, May 15, 2016 at 6:41 PM, Kimasxi said:

    I do the same. What intrigues me is that I tend to imagine a perfect scenario and then FOR SOME REASON I rewind it a bit and change how it ends into a negative outcome. I do it when I think about interactions with someone I fancy. I don't know why I change the outcome into negative. Any ideas? 
    Does it mean I subconsciously want the negative outcome?

    Fear of rejection.


  3. If you love yourself you can learn what is beneficial and what is harmful to you.

    You can avoid the harmful. People who love people do the same. You can show uour love about yourself by doing the best you can,avoiding the bad habits,embrace your own greatness.