Salvijus

You can't create peace unless you're in peace yourself. Using frustration as a basis for action is not love but ego judgement and hard cope at play.

Frustration is desire to kill not to heal tho.

And frustration/condemnation is not one of them.

Frustration comes with inability to accept something. Love is acceptance. These two are the opposite.

You mean the example with rape? So you care in order to help. Fine. But even then frustration is not necessary, you can do it out of love and care.

What do you care if they do a million times more?

If you love the person, would you not forgive them their wrongdoings? And if your forgiveness is true, where is the room for frustration?

The only fair judgment is love and compassion, not condemnation. And frustration indicates the latter.

How can you be mad at someone that you feel empathy for? These two are opposite to each other. Once you feel empathy for someone, you feel love and compassion for them, not judgement and frustration.

You need to put it on your signature, haha.

Haha, lol. Empathy is compassion, not frustration. You need to look deeper.

I understand that a healthy relationship may require certain boundaries and commitments. But I'm saying why do you care if other people are not following those things? Because it bothers only you it seems.

Let the relationship crumble. What does it matter.

Because it doesn't matter what people do.

We are in the same situation right now. But for some reason only you feel deeply disturbed by all this.

Doesn't bother me at all. It's something personal to you. The real problem is within you, not outside.

Even if you finally crack the code and fully understand the psychology of why women did what they did, what will you do with it? Are you just looking for reasons to judge them? I liked the full comment more 😄

"It feels good when everyone likes you" That would be my guess. Sugarcoat is probably right aswell.

Lol. Smart but creepy

I love this quote about arrogance I heard long ago. There are three types of arrogance. 1. Thinking I'm better than others 2. Thinking I'm worse than others 3. Thinking I'm equal to others. Good luck understanding the last two, haha.

Congrats. The system will adjust by itself in a few days or weeks.

Close mindedness is a lack of honesty. And lack of honesty is arrogance. I'm gonna say close mindedness and arrogance are the same thing. There is no close mindedness without arrogance. And there is no arrogance without close mindedness. Both close mindedness and arrogance stem from the same source - lack of honesty. Interesting question tho.

This type of relationship only works if the husband relates to the wife as what she truly is - an incarnation of God in a feminine form and feels eternally grateful for everything that she does for him. Otherwise it's a recipe for slavery and abuse.

Ego is but a belief in seperation which does not exist. To see others as something less than God's unique expression is to abuse them on a basis of a lie. The option to live in accordance with truth is available to everyone even on earth