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@Annoynymous The kriya that I'm talking about which is designed by sadhguru to live a perfect life, a techneque that's been in yogic culture and transformed generations of people, a techneque that sadhguru has spent 21years to create can only be learned through initiation, there's no other way, you need to attend Inner Engineering program for transmission to happen. You'll never get the results I'm talking about from book yoga. The most horrible thing that can happen from book yoga is that you will miss the possibility of moving into totally different dimension of life. People brag oh i got some tiny benefits. But they missed a completly different dimension within them. After that the possibility or reaching those areas is closed. That's the most terrible damage that can happen from book yoga. "If you don't attempt those things, the possible is still open, you went there and you missed it, then the possibility is sort of closed" #Sadhguru

One way is to be intoxicated. For example when you're stoned on weed. Even in stressful situations because you're intoxicated you feel like nothing matters and you feel peaceful. Shambhavi mahamudra kriya is a yogic tool offered by sadhguru to create chemistry of blissfulness. Or in other words be intoxicated all the time everyday. You can literally take blood sample and see the results of kriya. People who do shambhavi for few years report psychedelic like experiences. I mean it literally produces chemicals in your system. It's not a joke. So yea... You see. Your mind is very unreliable, right know you feel okey, you feel peaceful. But next moment something comes and says hey this happened and bamm you feel like shit just in 1sec everything can turn around because that's how mind is. But with kriya is different. Your energies, your chemistry doesn't change so fast. Once you activate your energies properly, once you create a blissful chemistry within you. It stays like a drug for a long time. Bad things are happening, good things are happening, nothing is happening, it doesn't matter, you're still blissed out.

Lol. You're just a victim of marketing. Do you feel bad because you never been skydiving ? I bet it feels amazing, but the desire to do it is absant.. This is just marketing basicly.

First thought: wow. It's beautiful when someone is outgrowing social conditioning Advise: no idea It feels like something is afraid of the new space that you're moving towards. It's almost like something is trying to escape, to sabotage this freedom. It's a tremendous strenght and space to be alone and be okey with it. You can feel it just by reading your posts "Your need for acceptance can make you invisible in this world." Insane quote by Jim Carry. It's interesting to see the inner turmoil that you're going through. Wonder which way you'll turn out Maybe the only thing worth remembering is - don't make descisions out of fear. If you want a boyfriend, is it out of joy or fear and anxiety of never getting another chance for the rest of your life? If you want children, is it because it's immense love and fulfliment or is it social conditioning, compulsion, bad image, fear of looking different, fear of missing out, fear of uncertenty etc.. "So many of us chose our path out of fear disguised as practicallity" Jim Carry. What a powerful video about how strong can social conditioning be.

The same way you talk to all people.

So basicly you want to create joy and happyness in the world. that's authentic if it's not done just boost your ego and why do you want to help people? Why not the trees?.the air? The animals? I think it's because you want recognition, respect and status. I think these things are playing a role here..if it's true then your desire is not authentic. You just want to play a hero That's why this question is still relevent. Would you want to create beauty in the world if you lived alone? Would you care about the environment if you were the only one on the planet? Or imagine if you had to work really hard to help people and they just spit on your face. Would you still be satisfied? Or do you want to be appreciated? Because authentic desire to help others is such that all you care is to do good for others. You help someone in need, he spits you in a face but you're still happy that you were able to do a good act. That would be authentic. that's powerful way of living. Only sages can do this mostly. Have you seen futurama by any chance? It's geniuse episode about helping others vs playing a hero Just skip to 16.30 it's fucking geniuse.......

I feel having children is hugely overrated due to marketing force. People are just brainwashed from hollywood movies that having children is something devine. It could be nice I'm not against it. But it's a stupid low consciousness desire. it's more of a compulsion then a conscious will for most people. Sadhguru on should all women have children? "This is rubbish, this is social nonsense" #sadhguru https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dIU3YtA7GEk&t=11s

Like i just showed you. just try and see where it takes you, what your life would be like if you were absolutely alone, if there were nobody to compare yourself with, what would you truly long for? would you still care about being a psychologist? Do you genuenly care about how human brains work? It could be true. Some people are really interested how human behavior is happening and why. Some just go there because they dont know what else to do. Some goes there who knows why many reasons you see... If on an island youd still be trying to figure it out how the human behavior is happenin then its authentic.

That's authentic desire what would you do if you could do whatever you want and money was not an issue? That''s also an answer to what is your authentic desire.

Go to Peter Ralston or Mantak Chia

Well the thing that did absolute wonders to me was shambhavi mahamudra kriya..but to learn it you need to be initiated which means you need to attend the program.. Same with all the Yoga practices that I do needs to be transmited in a certain way. If you want something that you could start today sadhguru offers a simple Isha Kriya practice designed for wellbeing, mental balance and peace. If it resonates with you, you can experiment and see.

Hatha Yoga, kriya yoga, but only if it's authentic, not book yoga, Tai Chi and all that martial arts stuff. I think vippassana also works. I don't have much experience with it. But in theory it should work. And the people who I saw that practice vippassana been very equanimous and stable. There could be more that I'm not aware of. At some point even being mindful of your emotions will bring this stability when you reach a state where you can clearly see that your thoughts and emotions are not you. Then you're free from all anxiety and suffering. But this takes time. Years of practice.

There are no techneques to do what you want to do. Either you are able to pearce it through or not. It depends on your level of consciousness. Each person is unique, each person needs a different approach, they have different resistence, different receptivity, different inteligence, different everything. Only by being absolutely aware and sensitive of everything you'll can manage your way thought someone's mind. There's no other way. No techneque to do that. Only your awareness

Don't do that "i got this" business Being more mindful of your emotions doesn't necessarily mean you have control over your emotions. Doesn't necessarily mean you have a balanced mind, doesn't necessarily mean you're stable. It just means that you're aware that you're not stable First step is you become aware that you're not stable, second step you do the necessary practices to bring stability into your system.

Imagine yourself living on an island alone. Would you still care about your grades? You live on an island and you look at the stars and you want to know more about the astrology, mathematics. But you live on an island and you want better grades... That's not authentic Basicly all the desires that are coming from wanting to achieve status is not authentic. When I imagine myself living on an island alone I would like to explore the area, i would still be interested in self descovery and truth. That's authentic desire. But desires like I want to make 100push ups are not authentic. You would not care about this if you lived alone on an island. You want to do 100 push ups because it's relevent to somebody else. Because you want to be better then somebody else. If you would've sayed. I want to be smarter and be more knowledgeable about something i'd say it's authentic. But because you sayed i want to have better grades..... That's useless desire that has no real significence thus, not authentic.

Meditation is a cure for everything Psychedelics do not enchance mental capabilities. It only destroys the mind and its potential. What kind of meditation do you do? You need to do mindfulness meditation. Observe your thoughts and feelings type of meditation. Or self-enquiry, it also includes deep self-reflection which increases ones awareness in a great manner. That's first step. Most important actually. Then there are other two.

You have a bad connection with your emotions. Or in other words you need to raise your awareness with mindfulness meditation. Then your mental clarity will improve. You will understand your feelings and situations much better thus youll have more to say about it. That's step towards what you seek. Then you need to bring coherence between your left and right brains with yoga or kriya. That's second step. This will improve how effectively you use the data in your brains. Then you need to break free from all the blocks in your mind.. it's major cause of social anxiety and overthinking stuff. For this there are methods also to do it. That's step three. With these 3steps you could talk like a sage. Just see sadhguru talks. Nonstop for hours he can talk without any preparation. Just like a fountain.

It's nothing. Forget about it. Just you amusing yourself. Watch first 2min. It's perfect for you.

Your issue is not self-esteem but iferiority complex. You need to work on your values. What is important to you? To be better then others? If everyone looked the same way you'd feel just fine. Am I wrong?

he sounded pretty serious to me. Here at least

I did and the only valuable thing i got from there was that she introduced me to meditation and she made me realize i have no awareness of my emotions.

99% chance that you'd just end up in a mental asylum all broken and incapeable of dealing with anything in the world. Like a lifeless vegetable lying on your bed. Addicted to all sorts of chemicals.

You remind me of my older sister. She's very irritating at times and hard to be with. She's been feeling very heavy this last year and she started using some weed to feel a little better and relax. I don't know if she used anything stronger but one day I met her and she was totally empty with glassy eyes and she was talking nonsense all the time I thought she's finished Then she sayed she wants me to introduce her to spirituality or some meditation because she knows that Im practicing Yoga everyday so I told her okey go to the Sadhguru's Inner Engineering program. Honestly, I had zero expectations that she's going to do that but somehow she became interested more and more and because she trusted me she sayed okey what a heck. And when I asked her after the program, okey how was your experience, did you like it, did you not like it? she sayed she didn't think it was possible to feel this good without any drugs in life. then she went on sharing how amazing her experience was. Now she's talking her boyfriend to do the same program because she wants him to experience this also So my point is. What you're going through probably 97% of the people are going through right now. And there are verious methods and techneques to solve that. It's just depends on how strongly you want to come out of it. ?

1. Mystic 2. Sage 3. Saint 4. Guru 5. Bhuddha 6. Yogi That's how this list should look like

You're too quick to judge. Why don't you stay open and consider a possibility that their actions are beyond your current understanding? That maybe there are legit reasons for charging money? If something doesn't agree with your logic you immediatly think okey they are wrong and you dissmiss them. This is a sure way to stay ignorant all your life. Sage's actions could be totally incomprehensible to you. Their thinking is beyond your petty understanding of life. Krishna a totally enlightened being went on killing people in a war. A normal person could never understand why. That doesn't mean there are no legit reasons of doing so. Here's a video explaining why they charge for their programs.