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Brutal honesty would've sounded like this. "Nooo ? this goes against my understanding i can't digest such ideas, noooooūoo!"

It's called giving and receiving in christianity. The more you give, the greater the stream of love flows through you.

One would need to learn to enter the flow of love by oneself first. Then learning to abide there while relating to others moment to moment is whole other level. It's a serious spiritual practice. The amount of self-awareness needed to pull this off is not a joke. Having an erection while talking to women is not enough to become a Christ lol.

Well i just wanted to share how to tap into that energy of appreciation. And explain how sexual energy and arousal energy is a big source of energy that can be transformed into pure love and appreciation if rised upwards with enough awareness. Theory is good. But this is an actual practical method i shared tought in tantra and how to become Christ.

Oooh. Profound

There's no real answer to this. You can’t turn any person into your lounge chair. Life doesn't work like that. Best you can do is trancend all attachments to relationships and people. That way reality won't hurt you that much. And you'll be able to enjoy the presence of each person much more in your life, and wish them well when they leave.

@CARDOZZO there's a tip that probably that book of yours doesn't mention. When you see a woman, probably the first thing that will arise will be arousal. If you're aware of that energy and allow yourself to be overtaken by it completely. It will transform into appreciation and love. Which is not lustfull, but simply appreciative. Then act from that place. Speak from that place, gaze from that place and you'll be a walking Christ. Or whatever it is that your book callls it. "Perfect lover" You can do the same flowers then.

You might as well read a book on how to become enlightened Christ with unconditional love. Bc you're speaking about the same thing probably unknowingly

Say goodbye to your masculinity haha. No no, just joking...keep up your practice?

Nice. I actually resonate with this to my own surprise. "A man who loves women has no desire to take anything from, yet would share everything" Profound. I would add love without attanchment. Not only women will fall for you, but all people men, women, children, old people everyone will want to be in your presence. Bc it radiates acceptence, upliftment, joy. But... it all sounds good in theory. But do you actually know how to get there?

"Loving women with all your heart" what does that even mean? You know some saints in india would bow down to every woman and touch their feet in gratitude and worship them/regard them/treat them as a goddess. Ramakrishna Paramahansa used to do that i heard. Come to think of it that's not such a bad practice.

Haha, yea i know what you mean : )

If everyone was included, love would prevail and love does not toxify. It uplifts, inspires and creates harmony and beautiful things. The root of all toxicity is ego, the opposite of love. And in fact. Making people work for approval is already toxic.

But why would you hold back your love? The moment you disapprove of someone, you're the one who is seperated from the feast.

Nothing is a hindrance to your acceptance.

See... awareness is always there perfect. But your discernment between what is awareness and what is mind stuff can be cultivated and refined to a higher and higher levels. As this discernment increases, ability to penetrate the deeper layers of ego increases. As you clean the ego, the Self shines ever more brightly

Hmmmmm.. there's some truth to it. But it's more complex and nuanced then this. At least i think we all can agree that there is stuff we are not concious of. And there is potential in us to become concious of that stuff.

That is when you will find the fullfilment you always were looking for but in silly ways that won't get u anyhere

God is not going to support your desires that come from ego and suffering. He is only going to become active when you chose love

@at_anchor God is waiting for you to say yes to him. It's not that hard. A smigen of willingness to make a new choise is all takes:)

Nobody wants to be push around, everyone longs to be included

A sage rules by embracing not by conquering. Thus, people don't feel supressed but uplifted

With a bit of grace and support from god it's possible. But you have to make yourself available to it first. And it happens when you turn to your most authentic desire. A desire that does not come from sadness and sorrow, but a desire that opens your body wide open and fills you with rays of hope, trust, aliveness, radience, inspiration, sense of connectidness and grace. By saying yes to that desire, you say yes to god. And when you say yes to god, god cannot fail you, because you are his offspring that he forever loves and takes care of.

Look deeper. There is a deeper desire deep down that you're not fully aware of.