How To Get Laid - Part 1 - The Foundations Of Success With Women
Cold approaches
Going to cities where you have no social presence can be one of the ideal methods to practice and gain results.
Distinctions between day & night game, choose the strategy that best serves your needs and lifestyle choices.
Can achieve a sexual body count of every other night.
This can be done without any requirement to live and have a social circle.
Get a girlfriend and you can back.
Highest aesthetic standard is lower from cold approach.
Social stigma
Social engineering involved in the pick up community. This is the core of the social circle method and could be construed with a lack of authenticity.
What role does hyperagmy play in the social rejection of pickup?
If men are not taught how to do pick up with responsibility, it will undermine the integrity of the men.
Leo claim's strawman is about exploiting social psychology while using silly pick-up lines.
Personal development
The foundations of pick up require development of the base hierarchy of needs before pursuing pick up.
Working on limiting beliefs is the ideal foundation to pick up.
Will esssentially create the kind of men who join incel groups if they don't develop a healthy method to pursue women.
Foundations of pick up are turning yourself into a high value man, that most women would find attractive.
Suggestions of creeps doing pickup. However, guys who have no game are creepy according to Leo. This is about creating strategies of ability.
Good in bed, good sense of humour, physically well put together. Fashion, money,
Essentially to develop better masculinity.
Social circle
Social circle is more geared toward extraverts and creating dinner parties and such. This is the socialite method for pickup and requires a lot of work. Always stuck.
Social circle method of pick up requires a lot of maintenance.
This requires business enterprise development and is contingent as this is a status game which women are attracted to status.
Party creation can be the way to meet a lot of people and build a party network.
This makes you the leader of the party and you will inevitably get laid.
Getting laid through work can be dangerous or limited. This can create a situation where you are stepping on peoples' toes.
Also can be ways that create networking jobs.
Alternative strategies
-Life purpose pick up strategy
High risk, high reward and can also require more discernment due to the implications.
-Money
Buy prostitutes and escorts, become a millionaire and buy the girlfriend experience.
-Online game
Using dating apps will be for aesthetic appeal and will always prioritise that. This is lazy game and will never get decent results.
Top reasons why guys don't get laid
1: Not being social enough
2: Not going out, staying home on the internet - Need to change their lifestyle.
3: Not approaching women
4: No flirting skills, too logical, not romantic enough
5: Don't understand what attracts women
6: Deep victim complex and limiting beliefs.
7: Not willing to work hard to grow yourself.
Mindsets, limiting beliefs & Motives
Activities to improve limiting beliefs.
Being deeply loving, being able to commit, being a leader.
Love is the goal
Remove victim complex
Improve self esteem
Remove limiting beliefs
Don't believe it is possible or you don't deserve it.
Mechanisms of attraction/inner game
Asymetry as to what men and women are attracted to.
Men are visual
Women are emotional.
Women are attracted to masculine energy which can be cultivated.
-Evolutionary underpinning of male vs female attraction
1: Women are nurturing the home and child. Poor at protecting and such.
2: Men are out in the world bringing home the bacon. Being a good provider and leader.
Character dispositions of attractiveness: Masculine energy, strengths, confidence, charisma, charm, wit, fun, adventure, romance and emotional stimulation.
Strong personality and passion.
High value, status, social approval are other dispositions of being attractive.
Detached and a sense of life purpose, which is more important than the girl.
Well groomed, clean, fit and smell nice.
Self-deprecation is attractive to women.
Game is about being smooth character and having a social calibration that benefits her.
Top limiting beliefs
1: Not attractive enough.
2: Scientific beliefs which studied attraction lead to conclusion that reinforces not being attractive enough.
3: Girls only want the extroverted alpha male.
4: Girls want muscular men.
5: Attractive girls requires wealth.
6: Too much of a need, geek, introvert.
7: Pick up is a scam.
8: It's a numbers game, there's no skill.
9: Only unattractive girls will be interested.
10: It's not fair, it's easy for girls.
11: It's unfair how hard I have to work.
12: Feminists and SJWs are emasculating men, and it's their fault I don't get laid.
13: The MeToo# movement has destroyed pickup/game.
14: Girls are sluts, liars, cheaters and gold-diggers.
15: Too few good girls out there.
16: But I tried and failed (insuffiecient approaches).
17: No place to meet girls in my area.
18: Too late to start (okay 20s, 30s and even early 40s, might need some thinking through).
Repels women
1: Neediness, desperation and attachment to her.
2: Being too nice
3: Fear, insecurity, meekness, shyness
4: When men are sexually vulgar, this turns women off.
5: Women are repelled being desired only for sex.
6: When women are objectified, it is repelling.
7: Trying to impress women repels them.
8: Fakeness or being too gamey/unnatural approaches.
9: Bragging about yourself.
10: Boring, logical talk or serious talk. Being business like.
11: Forcing a woman to lead.
12: Being ungroomed, sloppy, bad smell.
13: Creepiness.
14: The insecurity about not being attractive enough is repellant to women.
Preparation/practice
1: Visualise yourself attracting attractive women
2: Study game.
3: Go out every week.
4: Work on limiting beliefs until destroyed.
5: Take a mindset of tenacity.
6: Believe you can do it.
Commitment
The commitment has to be, talk to 30 new girls every week.
Stop bingewatching TV shows, video games, anti-female mindsets.
