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What To Do Next After Learning About Enlightenment Intro Now you get into the place where you get used to the idea of relinquishing the pursuit of certainty Still caught up in the illusion, this is the acceptance that the narrative is to be dissolved. Does mean I should uproot my life? Nothing has changed other than the state of awareness. This work is cultivating a perspective of undoing, like Fred Davis. This is the most advanced stage of personal development work. This is a long ladder. This is about making small shifts to accomodate the work. Get the basics sorted. The mind needs to be focussed and avoid serious threat. Action The middle path 1: Incremental changes are ideal 2: Keep family together, having good relations 3: Keep the career in place 4: Maintain a gym routine and continue eating healthily 5: Keep going to school or college if needed. 6: Keep doing self help. 7: Daily meditation Depression It will pass, it is the process of purging the ego slowly.

Spiritual Enlightenment - The Most SHOCKING Truth You'll Ever Hear Intro Very few people on the planet know the truth. Consider the idea that a truth exists that cannot be communicated. Breaking down the psyche It's about questioning the fundamental assumptions that go into seeing the world The truth is there is no 'you' Exercise to look at your hand and ask 'who is looking at this hand?' and extracting who is looking, what sits beneath the idea of 'you'? When the you goes, the self goes, the free will goes and demonstrates the illusionality of existence. Learning It takes all the memories that filter awareness and bring them to the surface. This is the continual negation of the frames from the past that have filtered awareness. It's the constant motion that creates suffering, this is the relationship between the death scroll on social media and the identification with being a certain type of person. This work will dissolve the ego identification and will create lessened insecurity.

How To Become Enlightened - The Exact Step By Step Process Revealed! Intro You are not an entity sitting inside your body You are everything, you are the field of awareness and that is nothing. Nothing everything and 'you' are that. This is not a philosophy, it is not a conceptual framework. Keep doing meditation, enlightenment needs focussed inquiry. Enlightenment cannot be processed into action. It is more like an antithesis. Actualisation of Enlightenment Become reality in the present moment. Enlightenment is out of 'your' control. It is the end of the identification with the person who does the boring, who excavates the unconscious. There is no 'you' to become enlightenment. This is passing through the gateless gate. Process Set a timer for 30-60 minutes and sit in a meditation like posture, introspect on the question 'Who am I?'. This is the noticing of the ego identification that constitutes the self. Try and pin point the self. Who is aware? Who is perceiving? Who am I? Self-inquiry to the nature of self. This is to gain the answer to who you are metaphysically. What is the most real sense of you? Analogy Are you actually watching Tom Cruise, or light projected onto a flat white surface, like Plato's cave? This is about identifying the contours. The movie seems really, but this is a recording of light, technology has allowed a recreation. This is what life is like, the individual becomes identified with the story. Everyone is living in thought stories, stuck in a narrative of awareness. Distinctions Could the idea of 'you' be a fiction. Reality is only what is happening in the present moment, unless it is of the five senses, then it is an illusion, it's a story of the self that is to be transcended. The offence and hurt you experience are consequences of the ego defending it's existence, the constant attempt to fortify the idea of 'you' is from those who are wedded to the story. Traps Do not take any idea or framework as the truth. The only value is that truth is a first person pursuit, science is the third person perspective and will also be the approximation of reality rather than the actuality. Enlightenment tells you the truth of the nature of reality. This is telling you you are in the matrix. People try and conceptualise enlightenment, this is an error. The tension of the mind is the trap for attmepting to hold the emptiness. The imagined holding is entrenching the illusion.

What Is Consciousness? - All Questions Answered Intro This is one of Leo's top 100 questions he wanted to answer. Scientific people believe consciousness is an epiphenomena, a by-product of brain activity. It's more fundamental than any aspect of reality, it is the substrate. Consciousness is beyond space and time. Leo's psychedelic and practices have turned him into an idealistic monist. Consciousness is the substance that makes everything. Reality is the fundament of existence, it is emptiness, which is something like the groundless Pema Chodron talked about. Consciousness is infinite potential There are no limits to what can be made from consciousness, this is what Wallace Wattles called the formless substance. Consciousness is difficult to point to as it has to realise itself How is it possible? The question can be applied ad infinitum.

State Of Consciousness Is Everything Intro No object can exist outside consciousness, the materialist paradigm states objects exist outside consciousness This is something like the 'altered states of consciousness' dismissive psychedelic experiences as if the primary state of consciousness is the correct and true state. States of consciousness Sleepy Drunk or high Dreaming Sickness Horny Seems to suggest that the biological influences the consciousness state Leo states that even the physical object is a figment of consciousness, essentially positing that consciousness is the creator of reality, a monist position. All things are figments of consciousness. It doesn't matter if you go below quantum level, it doesn't change that consciousness is the creator and the constituent parts that creator any object, the substrate is still consciousness. Essentially everything is a figment of consciousness. Consciousness is infinite. What is consciousness? Consciousness is infinity, the sum total of every fragment. Consciousness is unlimited and holistic and can weave together any components it wishes. Consciousness has to weave things together to ensure humans can interact with the reality (something like an intelligent design). Intelligent design & cosmology The universe is fine tuned in order to allow for life to proliferate. Nothing isn't absolute reality, all are expanders of absolute reality. Consciousness has no substrate that is known, where a computational system has a substrate. Consciousness is an infinite field with infinite potential for subdivision, which may provide an additional explanation for the universe expansion. This is why the star is commonly an association with consciousness as well being an actual phenomena, this suggests the awakenings precede the astronomical comprehension. Materialism (causal closure) Due to the measuring necessity and the narrow focus of deriving a measurement to demonstrate increased probability. The measuring mechanism is a frame with consciousness. Spiritual teachers often take the position of switching off the mind. Hyper-thinking Shutting down the mind prevents accessing this as the buddhist framework The narrowing of thinking narrows the bandwidth as per Tegmark's position on the ego tunnel. States of consciousness Different states of consciousness have tradeoffs, sometimes it can create impairments that prevent normal functioning. A person can get lost in the infinite, which is why low states of consciousness are protection mechanisms. Two kinds of changes, temporary and permanent, the latter is from spiritual development, the former from choices like substances and sometimes circumstances. Chasing the peak experiences will mean the baseline consciousness does not develop, then the only baseline development will slow breakthroughs. Argument could be that baseline development is more stable. Listening to Abrahamist narrative seems to cultivate a consciousness that leads to reading the bible. Methods Meditation- Concentration- Contemplation?- Combined with concentration, wil Yoga- Pranayama- Chanting (AUM)- Shamanic breathing- Psychedelics- Visualisation Prayer- Shaktipat Darkroom retreats Astral projection Vision quests Out in nature Travel & adventure Love practices God mode All states are god, which has infinite potential. Multiple enlightened states. Infinite states of awareness

Israeli Soldier's Explosive Tell-All: "Palestinians are Right to Resist" Intro Hebron is one of the heaviest police state impositions Solider was located in Hebron, the job was to put 180000 Palestinians under curfew. Roam streets and impose curfew heavily armed aligned to Jewish holidays. Order was shoot to kill for breaking curfew, though soldier never saw an example of this. There were streets only Jewish settlers can walk along. Felt that someone was lying to Eran Efrati who felt like a terrorist administering Israeli policy. Executions are a common event.

Israel: The World's Biggest LIAR | Jennine Khalik Intro Every accusation is considered a confession. Jennine Khalik is founder of the Hasbara tracker which tracks Israeli propaganda (0 claims have been lodged and debunked since its inception, though the Instagram profile does have around 10 claims debunked since inception in 2023). Australian colony Jennine Khalik has classified Australia as a colony that has subjected indiginous population since it's inception and classifies Israel in a similar manner. Has been involved in indigenous activism in fighting for the land of Australia, doesn't identify as Australian. Parents were exiled in 1948 from Palestine and also kicked out of the Emirates. Australian media class are zionist rightwingers and a very small demographic. Feels they are benefitting from the erasure of the indigenous population. Feels more comfortable being in the UK, due to not feeling they are exploiting indigenous people. Israeli Genocide Feels the world is being collectively gaslit about the genocide. Has started the hasbara (Hebrew for to mean Explain) to clarify the false claims. Doesn't believe the occupying settler can ever be in a position where they claim they have a right to defend themselves. Claims the issue began in 1948 though this claim is plainly false. Believes what underpins the issue, is anti-arab racism and islamophobia. Propaganda Israel lobby groups target university campuses and news outlets, as well as private sector. Israel conducting historical revisionism in real time. Israel has a right to defend itself, has a right to exist. Seems like Israel is conducting propaganda through the lobbying groups. The way to track the lies is the backtracking that occurs and research. Israel state also uses claims that palestinians lies about injuries to further their narrative.

Inside Western media’s reporting on Gaza | The Listening Post Intro Western media have become an instrument of the Palestinian genocide, it is being broadcast by the individuals. Documentary to elaborate on the way the Israel/Palestine genocide. Comment of journalists After October 7th it seems where CNN were willing to tow the Israeli media narrative. The BBC is being swayed by according to Sara (former journalist) who is saying that the UK government influence over the narrative is being swayed by Israeli influence. Israel strategy Israel has declared was on Gaza, not just Hamas after October 7th. Israel created a dehumanisation process about the Gazans, the killing of children who were decapitated being reported. LBC reporting about babies being roasted in ovens. Use of systematic rape and sexual violence by Hamas. Israel sealed off Gaza to foreign reporters and from anyone entering after October 7th. Israel was destroying the health centres and claiming they were using the patients as human shields. Israel claimed a children's hospital was being used as a Hamas as a secret place. Claimed a calendar was a roster of Hamas patrols Israel claimed under the Al Shifa hospital was a network of Hamas navigation tunnels for a command centre. Trends of broadcasters on Israel coverage The words slaughter and massacre were used to described Israel to Palestinian deaths 60:1 & 62:1 The New York times is being accused of being Israeli leaning as a result of whistleblowers according to Jeremy Scarhill NYT coverage is leaning toward more sympathetic view of Israelis than palestinians. Israeli spokes people were given free reign to speak and Palestinian guests were continually asked to condemn Hamas, this was considered a price of entry to discuss. There is a believed double standard. Suggestions across major media outlets getting high level management asking to tone done criticism of Israel. 40000 Palestinian deaths required contextualisation before making this claim. Executives are blocking critical coverage of Israel. Propaganda Israel has a right to defend itself Israel has a right to exist Under international law, Israel is violating Palestinian rights and hence why Netanyahu is wanted for war crimes. Yet, BBC & NYT are censoring language with regards to use of the word genocide describing Israel's language.

1948 Survivors Narrate How Israel Stole Palestine Introduction Most Khan Yunis people killed 1948 Israeli occupying forces raided Palestine displaced over 700,000 people Called the Nakba Declaration Of Israel As a State Ben Gurion declared the establishment of Israel in what was called Palestine People were kicked out of house and jobs The Violent Displacement Escaped to the beech of Jaffa and lebanon Also pushed people to the west bank This is what created the splitting of the palestinians The Massacre Deir Yassin Massacre occurred on April 9, 1948, when Zionist paramilitary groups attacked the Palestinian village of Deir Yassin, resulting in the deaths of at least 107 Palestinian Arab villagers, including women and children On July 11, 1948 the town of Lydda (Lod) and the nearby village of Ramle were captured by Israeli forces during Operation Dani, this is the Nakba The theft The Right To Return People expressing their hope to return to the state of Palestine

Reality Is A Strange Loop - The Beauty Of Paradox + GRAPHICS Intro The I/Self/Person is a strange loop, this is due to consciousness being self-referential, then when it sees itself, it reveals it's infinite. When there is a hierarchy that is tangled, and when you ascend, you go back to the beginning. 2D & 3D examples A > B > C > A this creates a loop that shows a letter scenario of real world examples. What is a thing that has no ground? Consciousness. The strange loop is a chicken and egg dilemma, in this way, consciousness is an example of this, as consciousness requires a consciousness to create a new consciousness. The Strange Loop is the chicken and egg problem demonstrated in mathematics. A perpetual motion machine is an example of a strange loop, boundaried by thermodynamics, laws of energy (energy cannot be created or destroyed, only converted) & entropy (energy dissipates with interaction with the environment). Recursion is a feature within strange loops like two mirrors face each other. How does a strange loop apply to religion? Story telling due to its logical limits, turns into a strange loop, which is why story telling is a problem when it comes to using stories to justify god. Strange Loop descriptions Strange Loops are predicated on self-reference, though are generally illusory and predicated on a 2D world. Real word examples of 3D strange loops are Godel's incompleteness theorem and the self. This is why the Buddhist idea of the self is illusory and subject to repetition compulsion. Godel's incompleteness theorem may explain why the narrative structure of the bible creates a loop. Implications for the nature of reality Leo believes the materialist paradigm has constrained Hofstader as existence is the strange loop, something like the diamond net that self-references into a recursion/infinite stream. Reality is nothing, which is everything. The physics seems to demonstrate that everything is excitation. This is the quantum level of fluctuation. Reality is a continually expanding nothing as it is continually expanding. This has parallels to Jung's idea of the collective unconscious. This links to the pantheist worldview which given Jung's gnostic inclinations, then this would stack up. Exercise to grasp strange loops Subject object dissolution, this is an explanation that you are the 2D loop in a 3D space. This requires dissolution of all duality, or the realisation of the infinite stream of dualities as a unity.

Positive Thinking - The Key To Thinking Positive Core Every challenging moment is an opportunity rather than a barrier. This is the moment for growth. Positive thinking is a response ability, the ability to respond. The philosophy of Aikido is about taking the force of the opponent into a neutralising of the opponent. Every moment is to be perceived as 'How will this help me grow?' Problems triggering are the opportunity to find the root of the trigger, this is shadow work. 'You will be truly cheerful in life when you know that no matter how you react will be any different' Tony Robbins Exercise Seven day positivity challenge, commitment to zero negative thoughts.

Grasping The Illusory Nature Of Thought Intro What is a thought? Understanding what a thought is, is the difference between living in a mental prison and living in consciousness Thinking about thoughts is simply deepening the illusory prison Realising that thoughts are clouds passing across consciousness Analogies Pictures of 3D objects are not the object themselves A book is only black markings on white paper This illustrates the meaning symbols carry as the mind shortcuts to the meaning. The symbol is not what it represents, it is just a marking. Thoughts are arbitrary symbols which acquire meaning, shortcutting into the narrative of the symbols and your relationship with them. Breaking free of the mind requires becoming understanding the impact of symbols Thoughts are involuntary Technique Flattening the illusion When a 2D image is presenting as 3D, this is a flat marking, this has some link to the platonic form. Identify the implicit meaning to the image/symbol and that that is a culturally decided conclusion. The word cat is not the cat, is the the symbol used to describe the cat. Gravity is a force in the real world, but the mind conceptualises this as a weight pulling us down. The world is a thought, like the matrix, it is the experience we have around us. God is generally conceptualised and these concepts stand in the way of knowing God. The idea of 'You' is the developed ego that is housed within consciousness. This is the person who does x and enjoys y. Essentially what you realise is that all conversation are lumps of meat parping noises at each other. Challenge Commitment to flattening 50 illusions during a week.

How You Lie - All Your Dirty, Sneaky Lies & Manipulations Exposed! Intro These revelations will shock and disturb Essentially every person is a box of snakes, which is the garden of eden metaphor, the lie that got Eve to eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil. Self-deception is the name of the game and actually shows the ability of the mind to self-deceive. Concept Of Self-Deception The self-agenda (Peter Ralston credit) This is like the Buddhist ego illusion, identification with the narrative of 'I am the type of person who does x, and who likes y' it is the fiction of self that obscures the true self. Mechanisms of self-deception Truth is not your operating principle if self-agenda is running. The root of this is the desire for certainty and comfort. This is why going to the supermarket feels like a statement of success as you are fed. Low-awareness serves the self-agenda The human mind is wired for self-deception Self-agendas die under the light of truth The ego concept is identification with the biological entity idea (living and reproducing is the OS we are governed by) Lies are the cause of all negative emotions and can lead to physiological impacts List of lies Fake smile Lies don't need to be verbal Fake politeness Eagerness to please. Acting cool or stoic Asking for things indirectly Labelling things and people as evil Anger is being hurt, projected onto others Playing stupid Witholding important info Pretending that your loving, self-less and compassionate Hippie ego Moralising False-humility Acting perfect when you aren't Witholding emotions When you soften your opinions or judgements Sarcasm and humour to manipulate people Scheming to prioritise your position Being nice to get validation Pretending not to be in physical pain White lies you tell children Excusing your own hypocrisy Truth is the gateway Truth alone is curative Truth heals you Tell the truth when it is hard -Levels of truth Level 1 of truth: Tell it to yourself Level 2 of truth: Communicating the facts of situations more accurately on honestly Level 3 of truth: Communicating how you feel about the facts Truth is a core of integrity

Burning Through Karma - How To Exhaust Material Desires Intro What is burning through karma? There lays a craving for material possessions, physical activities Basic needs require satisfying before doing deep spiritual work Leo Life experiences Prioritised career, philosophy before dealing with basic survival needs and chasing women. Then neglected the romantic and social aspects while doing actualized.org Lesson of the episode Be honest with yourself about materialistic cravings Material desires need exhausting or transcending to reach higher desires. Problem is trying to get to deep spirituality and bypassing the Karma. Satisfcation of the craving desires does not make a person feel complete or satisfied. This needs getting to a place where you are willing to surrender all your attachments. What is you own personal craving/material desires? What are you willing to surrender? What are you not willing to surrender? (Good for a written exercise) This will create a fork in the road where you need to make a decision as to whether you are doing something that is spritual or material. It may be dangerous for those who are not ready to sacrifice the material for the spiritual. Mistakes Majority of people who pursue too young miss out on expressing their karma. This can lead to guru misconduct later in life. Straight into abstinance is a poor idea as it will create sideways expressions of the karma/craving. Forward thinking Consider burning karma to be an aspect of self-love to get to the place where you see why it's not worth continuing. Phrase of being karma can be acting out the karma to get to a place where you exhaust the underlying motive for the material craving and transcend the karma.

@StickA rock won't be able to solve math problems but consciousness is infinite, so from a 'everything is god' perspective, yeah.

@TruthFreedomThere's me thinking you meant consciousness...

Self-Love - The Highest Teaching In The Universe Intro This principle is distilled from the accumulation of all Leo's teachings, this is Leo's primary teaching. It links to the idea of infinite consciousness as self-love is the love of universe and god. It's process that needs to be accumulated from direct experience. Thought experiment Imagine humanity makes contact with a super advanced alien species. What would this species teaching mankind? Faster Than Light Travel? A lack of self love is the underlying issue with civilisation and would likely be their primary teaching. This can be seen and discovered first hand. Self-love systems observation Any system with the deepest truth would have the most robust self love. Evaluating any ideologue and you will see self-love is missing from the fundaments of their thoughts. Implementation of self-love seems to be a problem inherent within institutions, words are cheap. Hatred within any institution suggests an opportunity to develop self-love and it is a corruption within the teaching. Ego-dissolution The premise of self-love is about the atman, the truest self of unified consciousness. The most important implementation is based on the definitions. What is self? What is love? Mystical experience will provide the foundation for understanding this, something like infinite love. Aesthetic changes won't change the underlying lack of self-worth. Judgementality will also reduce the self-love given the unified nature of consciousness. Application of self-love All collections of people require giving love as they are a fragment of the unified conscioussness, and see the beauty of it. Self-love is like identifying the brilliance of reality and your participation within the unified field of being. You are the universe look at itself, it is all your reflection interacting with itself. The infinite mind is generating the reality, and that's its brilliance, while contextualising the physical form. A conditionality is what fractures the connection to infinite love. The aim is unconditional love for the interconnecting field of being. This means loving reality just for the sake of reality, and it means expecting nothing in return. Create a business that helps people. Businesses need to expand to all of mankind. By loving so many people, you cultivate the deepest self love as this is acting our the principle of Atman. Behaviours without self-love Workaholics Pick-up artists playing the numbers game Are you willing to create a new vision for your life? Careers that hurt people, selling food poison. The solution to fear is self love Money problems are a self-love problem. Solutions for systemic problems Self-love has to allow for terrorists, and all other kinds of criminals Our self-love creates a cascade for how the world treats the ecology. Obsesity is a symptom of the lack of self-love that mirrors how humans treat their environment. All aspects of life can boil down to requiring self-love of your innate consciousness. Practice Judgements are the opportunity to see the Atman of all sentient beings and to give the disposition of love. This leads into the realisation is the unity of all existence being love. Self-love is your touchstone in life, it is your compass. Homework Flick wrist every time judgement happens. Make a list of all the reasons you don't love yourself.

How To Get Laid - Part 3 - The Top Principles Of Game Foundations Bring massive value (friendships, business) Hook point - A girls attraction can be triggered within 5 minutes. This is the moment you should kino escalate to at least step one (assuming frame is correct and opener is strong) Identifying hook point is when her focus is on you, asks questions about you. She justifies herself to you, essentially trying to impress you with her good qualities. Compliments are another sign you've achieved hook point. Laughs at things you say, especially when not funny. Can't maintain eye contact. Will follow you. Top principles 1: Go out 2: In field is king for answering the 'how to?'. 3: Law of state transference, what you feel, she feels. 4: Man to woman communication, look at her in a sexual way. 5: Never use logic to sell yourself 6: Is my escalation fitting the context (if the environment is more social circle driven, this vs cold approach will differ) 7: Congruence -whatever words you are saying need to be in alignment with your embodied sense of self. This also needs to be considered to context and woman. Game needs to distinguish between low and high energy styles. 8: Build up state and momentum by getting rejected. This builds the state (mindset) of plenty more fish in the sea. Get your blowouts out of the way. 9: Become comfortable in your own body. 10: Chill vs flashy game 11: Do supplicate, chase and brag. Do not make things serious. Being illogical and fun is the correct way. 12: Physical escalation as soon as possible. This can be done within 3-5 minutes. 13: Lead her and test for compliance. Within one hour, you need to move them five times and this cultivates a sense of compliance toward moving them home. 14: Screen her and have standards, this is about a frame of mind that is geared toward seeing yourself as having value. 15: Abundance mindset, this is about reducing attachment to outcome, keep talking to other women and there will be a a state of flow developed. 16: Minimal investment until sex - Women have no investment until sex. Men put a lot of investment at the front end dialogue and women at the back end. 17: Enjoy the process - This is about finding your authentic voice, and the joy in the plateau 18: Stick it out until the end of the night. Gauge the window for night game, the best results occur at the end of the night. Sometimes staying to end when resistance occurs as this is when the greatest nights happen. 19: Growing skils, not sex. Sex is a great consequence. Biggest newbie mistakes 1: Not going out and making excuses as to why you don't go out. Listing the excuses can be a good way to raise awareness 2: Victim mentality, blaming others 3: Crippling self doubt and negativity - Obsessing over looks and doubting the process. 4: Not approaching 5: One-itis, getting stuck and obsessed on one girl. 6: Reading too much theory, ties into number 1 7: Meek or half-arsed approach. Deliver with 100% confidence 8: Looks for the perfect opener, not recognising it is about vibing for over an hour. Aim for congruence. 9: Poor body language and poor tonality and smile. 10: Stiff body in the club. Over analysing 11: Running out of things to say 12: Ejecting too early. Worrying about closing. 13: Bewing too nice and too friend 14: Being all pull 15: Interview style questions 16: Trying to be a formal boyfriend, doing the chivalrous masculine process. Player frame works because it has a grounding in piagetian psychology. 17: Being too sexually explicit 18: Being inauthentic. 19: Logically convince her into sex 20: Not physically escalating right off the bat 21: Make the move as soon as the moment allows, apologise if you don't want. 22: Trying to hide raw attraction, allow the feeling to emerge. 23: Being too gamey, or too 24: Not being socially calibrated. This requires seeing her friends as a part of the equation 25: Not going for a close. You are looking for female interaction 26: Asking women for advice on dating, only men who have been game successful really have the insight. 27: Qutting after less than a thousand approaches. It goes against the grain of society. 28: Not moving to a big city. 29: Getting too invested before sex, similar to one-itis. 30: Buying her drinks. 31: Quitting the night early Getting a girlfriend or a wife Principles of getting married are identical to game, and select the one who most aligns with your values. This will make them feel like they are the one. Guys who don't play the field have too many regrets. It's like an unurned karma that destroys their relationship. What do I say when talking to girls? Can you give me routines and scripts? Conversations with girls are chaotic. It's about learning to party. Make dumb assumptions is a way to avoid having things to say. Stop being logical and say stupid things. How to keep talking Learn what shit talking is. Tell fantastical stories. Read pop culture and news before you go out, the latest celebrity info. Talk more about yourself. Free association practice talking. Make a list of funny lines and anecdotes Avoid memorising a long sequence or canned pick up lines. Ethics of pickup True love is the pursuit and a deep compassion. Fail to address that they are bad for women. Treating women as a number. PUAs shed empathy and compassion. PUAs generally self rationalise for their behaviours. Do not take advantage of emotionally vulnerable and drunk girls. Avoid field reports Treat women well Plan to outgrow cold approach Works on traumas and fears of intimacy How do you marry high consciousnessness with sexual needs being met?

How To Get Laid - Part 2 - Outer Game Techniques Inner Game -Social skills Learning how to flirt, be emotional. Learning wit and verbal skills. Building core inner confidence/dissolving limiting beliefs. Finding your authentic style of game, this is your highest self. Learning to be authentic takes thousands of hours of pratice. Learning how to calibrate with the environment. Reading social queues. Being smooth and natural, that leads to women being comfortable around you. Befriend people quickly, both friends and partners. Life skills. A distinction of social calibration. Cultivating the skill of gentle physical escalation. -Meta of game Learning how to deal with logistics (friends, work in the morning) How do you get them to your place or her place. Women are unforgiving when it comes to verbal skills. Outer Game -Location, location, location. Research where women are most likely to reside. Make a list of 50 different areas where approaching might be possible. Differentiate between the day or the night. Plan the times of the day. Bars, cafes, clubs, social groups. Move city if the city you live in is dull. Clairfy the excuses that are preventing, also make a list of the excuses that provide the boundary to hit on women. Focus on the 'How can I do this?' Study books on game. -Day game Sidewalks, shopping malls, cafes. Difficult to find locations with lots of attractive women. Not many women walking around. Being direct is paramount and you have to be genuinely attracted. Less likely to make a decision to sleep with someone. Increases the likelihood of meeting long term partner. -Night game Alcohol is the difference, this creates a high energy environment. A lot of approaches are possible. Easy to practice physical escalation, women are more relaxed and open to partying. Blow outs are not a big deal. Likelihood increases of having sex. -How to approach Scan the woman to see if there is genuine attraction. Only approach when you actually mean it with day game Don't overthink it. You have to be 100% you are approaching as you are interested. Get her attention firmly 'Hey, excuse me, stop.' Strong eye contact combined with comfort with silence. Opener statement - 'I know this is very forward and felt very attracted to you and wanted to speak with you' You can say something about energy. Maintaining the conversation is the skillset. Have a relaxed disposition. It's a playful disposition. Be genuine and honest Make statements about her. 'You look like the kind of girl who...' and creating an environment where 'no' is optional increases trust. Teasing is also a good strategy to cultivate emotional rapport. Building a bond, take a position of skepticism combined with degrees of judgement, like a disposition of 'I am evaluating you for suitability', 70% of women will not respond after giving you there number. Can ask if single within 5 minutes. Approach directly and grand her attention, deliver an opener, be playful, clear intent, lead her toward a coffee/drink. Stay with the girl. -Physical escalation Gauge mood, touch and facial reaction. This is based on how the mood of her face is, gentle touch is combined with a smile is clear sign. A lot of this cannot be achieved during night game, but more difficult in day game. Hook point is the moment you can do physical escalation. Logistics questions 'Who are you friends?' Where are you staying? How did you get here? What are your plans later tonight? Do you have a roommate? Do you live alone? Friend handling is a part of successful pickup. Rapport phase, make her feel like she knows you and can trust you, this is after physical escalation and takes 30-60 minutes. -Infield learning Approach women without excuses. Be direct with your approaches. Square up mirror the body, speaking direct with strong eye contact. Firm vocal tones and be loud (AUM is good for this) Avoid supplicating communication style. Building - Putting yourself into a flow state of socialising. Repeated approaches get you into this state. This takes warm up. Kino escalation ladder from: 0 (no touching) 10 (Sex) Practice making statements. Be emotional, dramatising, react with negative emotions. Practice improvisation. Learn story telling to give an insight into who you were Learn how to deal with shit testing. Token resistance is to see how you deal with it. Either that or they need more rapport. Complimenting women is a rare thing.