Ramasta9

We need spaces where we all feel safe to be ourselves, that's what brings the child out in its fullness. That's where the healing takes place and magic of the little golden one shines Its about support not protection. A helping hand ~

I wanted to express and share some words around love, that is screaming beneath each and everyone of the comments on this forum, that behind every little letter or word, there is a call and need for more love, for kindness, for gentleness, for compassion, and often we get caught up in the psychic drama and become entangled in the storm, that we can get so easily side-tracked from the more important and subtle things in life, that behind it all, every action and reaction, praise or insult, argument or agreement, is ultimately a mistranslated attempt to really say: I love you, I see you, I hear you, I feel you, I acknowledge and appreciate you, and I am here for you, as your brother and sister. This is what the forum needs, what the world needs, more love, more connection, more wholesomeness. There is a little child in each and everyone of us, that child needs love and support and good friends, and when it has all of that, it feels safe to rise again ! Can you drop your guard down, unbuckle your armour, put your ego aside, and realize we are all One Supreme Entity playing this separation game? At least lets play with more love and make it more creative and fun, we don't need more hate, more hurt, more pain or suffering. We need to remember that the Truth we seek is the Love we already are... That what appears as an other is a mere reflection of Self. You don't destroy the mirror if you don't like what you see, you change yourself and the reflection changes, does it not? So lets do our best to be that example, and remind one another. Lets remember to allow the HEART to lead our lives not our minds. Lets remember to Feel more and think less, give more and take less, and be kind, loving, playful and do your best. You may not get it perfect every time or day, but at least you live, make mistakes, practice and always find another way. Lokah Samastah Sukhino Bhavantu - May All Beings Everywhere Be Happy And Free ~

Hey, If i am being honest, its a bit alien for me. I don't really make plans or think about the future, i live very intuitively, moment to moment. I occasionally get a spark to go somewhere and do something and follow up. I do have some ideas of an "ideal future", but i don't really cling to such ideas as much anymore, rather i focus on my basic needs and whats around me and trust the flow of life as it naturally unfolds. I find this way of living always leads me exactly where i need to be, even though sometimes it may not always be what we think is ideal or needed. I feel i was heartbroken too many times having high hopes and expectations, so I let all that stuff go and learned to find peace in simply being and living in accordance to my true nature. Not sure if this answered your question properly, or if i understood correctly either, but thanks for asking

Presence my friend, its all about being presence and being fully engaged in life. Don't forget the Buddha > middle way is the lived human life fully.

Greetings All 🖖 I wanted to share this post in response to reoccurring patterns I see on this forum and others alike, especially around topics like enlightenment, truth, spirituality ect... What inspired me to make this topic is the constant stream of posts of newly acquired knowledge that often isn't truly embodied by the people sharing it. This is a type of mental awakening that convinces the ego that its "figured it out" and must share immediately. In reality, its the ego clashing with the greater truth its glimpsing, struggling to integrate it, and instead of sitting with it and harnessing its fullness, there's an uncontrollable urge to broadcasting it outward, a subtle form of escapism, that actually redirects and suppresses facing and embodying the truth in a grounded sense. This becomes clear in the interactions and back-and-forth exchanges on these forums. Someone claims they "figured it out", then goes to argue with anyone who challenges them, insisting their true or way is the only way. This, in itself, is the distortion at play. If you were truly anchored in truth, nothing would shake you or trigger an intense need to defend it, and there wouldn't be such a strong urge to convince others you found the truth, because the truth doesn't require us to keep it alive, only illusion does. Someone truly grounded and embodied in their truth often will often make posts that are profound and move people, rather than multiple posts that ignite chaos and confusion in the comments. That very chaos reveals the lack of groundedness and stability in ones own truth, actions and words, and overall misalignment in oneself. As someone who has been on the spiritual path for a long time, I've spent many years observing things that others often miss, and that when we share things excessively, our progress, realizations, glimpses, or visions, especially on an online platform with a wide-audience, we often run into challenges and tend to bite off more than we can chew. Over-sharing can almost neutralize the progress itself, preventing it from achieving any tangible results. I've noticed this in my life on quite a few occasions, when i realize something, if i share it too soon, it never lands too well, and a challenge comes up to see if I can hold it down. The reason I make this is because I see many who are preaching and boasting an ~enlightened energy~ like they have it all figured out, then shortly after someone says something that bursts their bubble and challenges their realizations or ideas and it becomes a huge argument and back and forth that goes for days or weeks on end, its really not a good look to the outer community and those who are just waking up and seeking guidance on these platforms. Imagine someone who is just staring out and needs some guidance, comes onto this forum and sees the mess people are getting into, they may reject the spiritual path or path of truth and enlightenment altogether. What we send out comes back to us to see if we are truly what we say we are. The ripple effect ~ Many of the words used by some members on this forum are lack substance and depth, and are often contradictory, and although there is truth there, they don't land too well because they come from mental space and not a integrated space, Its not in the bodies and bones yet, it has yet to settle in the soul. Knowledge becomes wisdom only when its lived and embodied, and that wisdom is what glows upon the aura that then radiates through the eyes and expression that people can feel, because if you want your words to truly help people and truly land into the hearts of others, it is better savour the experiences you are having for yourself, resist over-sharing impulses, follow your intuition, not your mind. Ask yourself: What is this urge to share this realization? learn to feel... We want to feel your words not just read them, that's what reveals growth and change, that's what makes an impact on people's lives, when what you say and how you live (words & actions) are in alignment, and the truth has fully landed in you.Instead you could gather that energy to create and share something extraordinary, maybe even write a book one day. You could write something that changes someones life one day. Many of us tend to do this early in our awakening process, which can prevent one from developing enough focus and energy to actually create something for themselves for long-term support, and many tend to fall into this trap and don't end up doing much in terms of real growth and expansion and being of greater service to the world than wasting countless hours sharing words online that don't really get anywhere significant or can provide any form of foundational support for the energy expressed. It is wiser to focus on more creative ways to express the truth you feel, rather than always attempting to explain or discuss it online, actually learn to sit with it until it integrates in your cells, and turn it into art and music for example, that's true alchemy and integration of truth. This is why silence, solitude and inner-stillness is often an advised practice on the spiritual path, it allows the time and space to solidify your realizations into being, to build up your focus into what you truly want to create in this world and your life. When I see people who have been recently given the "spark", I feel a need out of love to support them while the energy is still fresh, otherwise it may turn sour if not properly guided, as it does for many. Not that I need to be the guru or teacher, its just like a seeing your own child, or brother, or sister who could use a helping hand... seeing the Oneness, been there done that, experience > wisdom. This is what the master or guru and friend is there for, not to appear better or more advanced, just someone who can nudge you back to balance and guide you while you are being reborn and seeing the world anew. Who has already made many mistakes in life, who is adding the finishing touches, while you have only jumped into a new territory altogether. Who has already planted and created an entire garden, while you are still learning to properly plant a seed, and who has failed more times than you have even attempted, done a lot of the hard work and paved the way. This may be triggering, but its truthful. In the end, all of these words really mean nothing when actions speak a louder truth. That's what I am attempting to point out and what ends up draining the seekers more than they realize. I am simply passing on similar wisdom many great souls passed onto others. Refrain from sharing your progress and realizations too soon or excessively, beware of seeds of doubt planted upon others, rather show them your results instead when you have already mastered your craft, keep close to God/Self with your realizations, and God/Source shall refine them in an unique way that sets the foundation for your life. The deeper the roots of a tree develop, the farther its shoots can reach, the greater the strength and stability in its being, and the greater the fruits of wisdom it can produce. Then no matter how many storms come, it remains unshaken. Humanity today needs depth, wisdom, grounding, embodiment and first-hand life experience, not something we picked up thru a book, online or glimpsed thru substances without actually putting it into a grounded practice, that then births that energy as the very being you are. Because I could say something that's ripe in me and change your life, but if its not ripe, the same words will have little to no effect. That's all for now, hope this makes sense 🙏

That's very clearly of you take care

Neither and both A paradoxical question calls for a paradoxical answer. Hehe but in all honesty it depends how deeply attuned one is to their inner masculine & feminine. Doesn't always matter if you are male or female. These are primordial energies.

And when you not think, there you are

I feel she is more misunderstood than anything. People are quick to judge and call names when they don't understand or feel threatened by someones ways or intensity. Maybe if they lived in her shoes and what she went through, then maybe Everyone expects spiritual perfectionism. Yet they themselves ain't no Jesus lol

Hahaha but in a funny way, she also has a similar intellectual side, maybe more emotionally-twisted and more intense than Leo. Thanks for the good laugh lmao

Yeah this is normal / natural, and actually has more to do with your vibration and receptivity = sensitivity. You need less and you'll probably get more out of it. Because its about attunement and alignment not overwhelm or overload. My partner was the same, 2g for her was like 4g for me. I've been able to enter the same deep states with less too. Its all about your frequency and energetic sensitivity at the end of the day. If you are already highly attune, less is more.

"One of the most satisfying things I discovered was taking huge, deep breaths. Inhaling life and fueling the body’s needs and wants. I did it over and over and over. This material of existence, all around us, was available and free to be mined. You just needed to breathe in." That's a start Now he needs some cactus or Iboga

I think its wise to be open to the possibility that there may be somethings we simply don't understand yet, nor have had the direct life-experience to give us a different perspective on what's truly possible in this life. I for one have gone many days without physical nourishment and felt something else entirely. The deeper you grasp the quantum nature of reality, the more such things become, not only possible, but nothing too far from surprising. For some of us living without food is impossible because we grew up with a different lifestyle, environment and program, for others not so much.

I find Leo and Teal very similar in some way i cant quite put my finger on, almost identical in a weird way, but also very different in other ways. I think if you were to lock them up in a room it would either turn into a slaughter house or BDSM sex dungeon.

@Jannes Trust me if she really likes you its going to be very hard to get rid of her. Dick size is one of the least important things. Of course there are those immature girls who don't know what they say, want or need half of the time and just running an old programmed instilled in their minds by society, but you don't want that anyway, or do you

@Natasha Tori Maru I am more interested in the dude if he can take honest feedback in bed and not shrivel into mincey balls baby ego mode. ^^^ why can't people be brutally honesty anymore, I find almost nothing more attractive. Its the highest intimacy !

i've been wanting to create this topic for some time now and haven't really found the window of opportunity to deliver it until now. So bare with me. The topic is around why text‑only communication fundamentally distorts certain types of exchanges, especially those involving presence, consciousness, or energetic nuance. I share this because I have noticed how many exchanges i have with people online, or exchanges people have online in general, often end up in misunderstandings, projections and ego-driven arguments, and a big part of this is because there is no solid ground or physical medium through which the expressions can be fully expressed or released, rather everything gets squeezed through a mental filter, which is incomplete, and what this does energetically is that it doesn't allow full expression or needed exchange, and lacks emotional, somatic and relational layers that allow two people to truly meet. When we communicate in person, we receive the full signal: tone, presence, body language, micro-expressions and overall energy signatures of one another. This multilayered exchange is essential for understanding where someone is actually coming from and allows conversations to come full circle. In my experience, I find 90% of online conflict completely dissolves when the same two people sit down together by the fire enjoying a cuppa. I personally have experienced many clashes with people online that when i requested we continue this in person, it was resolved in 5 minutes or less. Suddenly we can feel each other... the defensiveness drops, the misunderstandings evaporate, and what was once an argument becomes a human moment. At the end of the day we are vibrational beings. Our energy fields interact even before our words do, and online text strips that layer away, and without it, people are left to (fill in the blanks) with their own projections. That's why online clashes feel so distorted, because the actual energetic exchange is missing, and the connection never fully lands, after all, its an artificial medium, there's only so much that can be transmitted through. So whats missing in text and online chats? Lets explore this a little deeper. * Tone & Cadence: softness, intensity, sincerity, breath, pauses, timing, rhythm... which reveals the overall state of consciousness, not just the ideas. * Body Language: posture, eye contact, gestures, micro-expression... that transmit truthfulness, coherence, confidence, vulnerability and emotional regulation. * Energetic Field: sensing someones presence, the depth of groundedness, openness or contraction, clarity or confusion, thus you can feel if someone is centered or scattered - online text hides all of this. * Emotional Resonance: You can feel and hear a persons heart through their voice, text reduces everything to ideas, not presence. Some of these topics like: awareness, embodiment, alignment, intuition, truthfulness ect... cannot be communicated purely through information, rather they are properly transmitted through being. Text is like an information-medium, where Presence is a consciousness-medium. Non-dual or metaphysical insight is not just conceptual, its a shift in felt experience. When people talk about these things in text, the entire felt dimension is amputated. This is why online spiritual arguments become so neurotic and disconnected, everyone is arguing about states they aren't feeling each other in. What are some illusions text-only communication creates? * Fake Clarity: Writing can sound "clean" or "wise" even if the person is not embodied. * Ego Inflation: Text rewards intellectual sharpness, not actual presence. * Misinterpretation: Without tone, almost anything can be read as: anger, arrogance, defensiveness and sarcasm, and thus people tend to fill emotional gaps with their own projections. And we also experience Dehumanization and forget there is a nervous system behind the words... So such deeper topics are not about content, they are about consciousness, and text flattens consciousness into words, and removes presence, nuance, embodiment, vulnerability, sincerity and energetic transmissions, and those are exactly the ingredients needed for these conversations. Because spiritual, non-dual, or metaphysical insights require felt resonance, not just word manipulation. You can feel if someone is speaking from ego or from depth. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- An idea i had would be to add voice or video commands to the forums. This will help bridge-the-gap so we can relate more deeply and accurately with one another. This would naturally bring out authentic expression, make it impossible to hide behind carefully edited text, and encourage everyone to truly stand in their own truth and presence. Conversations would carry tone, emotion, and energy, helping members connect on a much deeper level than text alone allows. Maybe something we can work on in the future? Why this works? Well if you think about it, voice carries tone, eyes carry presence, warmth and coldness or confidence and shakiness are felt/sensed, pauses reflect contemplation, emotions are witnessed more directly. Suddenly subtlety returns, misunderstandings drop, people naturally respect each other more, the "vibration" of the message is felt, and as defensiveness dissolves, arguments turn into valuable conversations. Otherwise we could have meet-ups / circles / gatherings in different countries or zones, this could be very effective in building a stronger support group. And to those playing the AI Police lately, this took a lot of time and energy to write so please go away, if you cant handle such a post, its not my problem. I trust this will spark something upon the forums, peace be with you.

What are you truly seeking? Maybe you are going about it the wrong way? Have you ever considered maybe its time to try something else and take a break? Usually when things are not working in the way you want them to work is because there is something there trying to show you: Hey ! (this is not working for you right now), its out of alignment with what you may need. The mind will endlessly chase and seek the next high or peak experience, but its never nourished, only inflated more, leaving you miserable and more empty over time, maybe its time now to apply and live those trips and integrate them, give your nervous system a break and relax a little, try take a different turn in life, see how that goes for a while, you might discover something else entirely, hope this helps my friend

What you can try is sleep on the ground or firmer surface, for true relaxation the (skeletal system) needs to hold the body up, so muscles, brain, organs can truly relax and drop, try at first on a yoga matt, maybe with a layer or two of blankets, or invest in thin 10cm Japanese style futon. If you are on the tech a lot, especially in the evenings, best invest in some high quality blue-blocking glasses which made a big difference for me. Exercise daily, not too hard, and not to failure, but exercise to success, it has to be enjoyed. I also find going outside and putting my feet on the soil/grass and or sitting and doing some deep breathing 5 - 10 minutes before bed helps a lot. This will help discharge a lot of the electricity we pick up in modern environments. I also turn off all electronics, wifi, noises, lights and keep my room as dark but also as cool fresh air coming in always keeping windows slightly open or as much as you need. I would also try stop eating around 6 - 7 pm the latest, and sleep on an empty stomach, and maybe a herbal tea that helps with sleep, like chamomile, lavender, valerian, skullcap, passionflower ect... Eat lots of fruits and veggies, try get at least 2 - 3 liters of spring or living water in a day, get at least 30 minutes of sunshine a day, full body exposure if you can, all these things should help. Its often the same advice for almost every issue modern humans struggles with. Most city dwellers are basically living inside a man-made motherboard, our nervous system is not designed for this shit. So don't beat yourself up, take it easy, slow down, do less, rest and relax more, be at ease and peace.

Embracing my feminine side was one of the greatest things I ever done in my life. Its very rare to come across males deeply in tune with their feminine. And my father as a military man, so growing up and being my natural self was extremely challenging and deeply suppressed until many years later. Finding the balance between feminine and masculine within is what its all about, that's where enlightenment stands in its fullness. Most men need to awaken the divine feminine within them, and most women need to awaken the divine masculine.

There is no "fixed" how much, everyone is unique and different, and lifestyle, diet, environment play big roles here. In my experience the more you eat, the more stressed and out of alignment you are, and especially if your living in a toxic or draining environment and lifestyle that's not serving you, the more sleep you need. I sleep anywhere from 4 - 8 hours depending on those ^ factors. The best i ever felt in my life i was averaging 2 - 4 hours of sleep a day, mostly living in my tent, hiking, eating berries and meditating ect... I was so nourished by the environment and minimalist lifestyle, bathing in healing forests, i would recharge in a fraction of the time. In the city and more stressful environments I need more sleep, maybe 6 - 8hours, and when i eat less, its less, when i fast its even less. Many things come into play, listen to your body and intuition.

Not always a bad sign, we require less sleep because the body is turning off its largest engine that uses the most energy, digestion. Dry fasting is not about purely raising your vibration, if you do it for that then its not the correct approach. Your vibration is already high, its just clouded with layers and layers of build-up. 2 - 3 days is mostly the physical layers. When i eat less i sleep less, this is very evident. When i feel fully nourished and high on life i sometimes don't sleep much at all.

The real question is, why are you afraid to date a real woman? Why are you being so impatient and needy to get your ins? High conscious women are not usually found in the usual dating places, they are found in more wholesome environments. You are exhausted because you are out of alignment with what you truly need my friend. That's my take at least.