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You did wrote an explanation they gave you. You are right, what they did to you was abusive, too! Thats why I wrote that they dont belong in your life. On the other hand look at your own behaviour. Did you try to control them?
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Some feedback (purely subjective) -Dont show your insta name during the whole video. Its distracting. -I want to know how I should train but you are talking about mitochondria. Then you go on to recommend further media on mitochondria that Im not interested in the first place. -Maybe talk about the right exercise in the beginning and then continue with the 3 systems and so on. -Use graphics. There are so many technical terms and so many systems. Its really good to have some drawings for better understanding. (e.g. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zyyBwIW5UNw). -That goes with the above: Use less technical terms. They do make you look intelligent but also many people will find it hard to trust you when you use too many. Try simpler terms if you want to reach a broader audience. If you do use one make sure to explain it with simple words first. (In an entertaining way would be best). -Be more authentic, bring some personality into it. -Stand up instead of sitting down.
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Self-Love and Body Awareness Also look into self-acceptance. After all its about learning that you are ok the way you are. You dont need validation from others. And you dont have to prove anything to anyone. This is the work we all do here. Feel how it is when you are not in control. Imagine a situation going completely against how you wanted it to be. Then simply welcome how this feels for you. Accept the feeling. Ask yourself if you want to let go of that feeling. Then when you can, let it go. Make it a habit to let go of things.
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The underlying fear is oftentimes that what we want to say wont live up to the standards of the other person (validation), to our own standards (perfectionism) or that we could be attacked for what we say (risk our safety). We then show these symptoms: validation = being needy perfectionism = need for control safety = being inhibited/shy Becoming aware of this can be strong on his own. If you want to do more. Realize that you can never get control, protection or validation. The world doesnt owe it to you. And you dont need it. Whatever applies to you, feel the fear as much as possible. Sit somewhere quite and for example if you are needy, imagine a situation where someone is really dismissive towards you. Someone you want to like you who is now going to tell you to fuck off and calling you names, makes fun of you or just gives you a cold shoulder. Whatever elicits the strongest feeling inside you. Feel where it is in your body. Then accept that feeling fully. Welcome the feeling. Let it grow even more for a few minutes. Until you feel ready to let that feeling go, if you want to. See how you are feeling then. Repeat. This is also called the Sedona Method, its really effective for releasing emotions.
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How do you feel before you are smoking weed?
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I skipped through it. In the end he says self help can be good but not to walk into the traps he walked into. Can you summarize them here?
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Stopping communication can be very harmful. Not even just in the long term, but also short term. Like when you are with someone and they stop listening to you. Anyone who does this to you doesnt really belong in your life. But that is not the main issue here. The main issue as I see it, is that you have something inside of you that is triggered when people dont behave the way you want them to. Being controlling over people is abusive and will make people with a healthy self-esteem want to distance themselves from you. People who are controlling usually have a need for protection/safety in their life. My advice for you would be to look inside, feel where this need for protection is coming from. What are you afraid of? Let that fear come. Its just a feeling. Listen to it and accept it. Then the fear will go away. When you let go of the need to feel protected you will be better aligned with reality. Reality isnt safe and it wont protect you. No matter how hard you try. If you can accept that, life will flow easier. And when people harm you, you will be prepared to deal with it.
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I dont understand the issue. Do you need some kind of motivation? You take action now, the result might could have been 20-50% better if corona didnt happen. Still you are making progress. Its all in your head. You are the one who is responsible. Start building your infrastructure. If you are concerned that because working on your business you will loose time on modern warfare. You might want to rethink what you really want. No judgement, you can play all day. But then play and enjoy and dont think about starting a business.
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Dont think about it too much. Meeting girls is an expression of yourself. To spread love and be authentic. You can do that in other ways too. The ego might get involved. You can deal with the thought of that happening now or you can deal with it when it comes up. Just be aware.
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What drives the cell to keep from becoming boring and dead? What is its motivation?
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Its not that success makes you unhappy. Leo says that unhappy people become successful. They are unhappy with the current situation -> They become gods of manipulating reality in order to change the situation -> They successfully change the situation -> The new situation doesnt change how they are feeling inside. Then they become confused because all their life they thought happiness lies at the end of the tunnel. When in reality happiness has nothing to do with the thing they were aiming for. Always remember that and you wont fall into the trap of thinking happiness is found externally.
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The time is now* *If its legal in your country
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Its hard to make communication while being in a non-dual state. You will likely be silent most of the time. And confuse the shit out of people. If you mean to be more authentic to your true desires and values. Then you can actually expect people to like, love and respect you more than before. Some will of course hate you. But those people will become less and less in your world as they will just disappear. Sharing you opinions truthfully is a form of giving value in a relationship.
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I find it hard to believe that there is nothing on your mind. Most of the time we have some sorts of filters in place that prevent us from coming up with something. If we dont have these blocks or filters, conversations flows naturally. As you are in a state where you dont need anything (e.g. that they like you). When your mind is really blank, try to find something interesting about them. Expand your love towards them. This will make it more likely that you want to connect or have a fun conversation.
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Yeah thats good. Take your time to really research if what you think you want to do is really how you thought it will be. At least to some extend you can find that out by looking on the internet or better talk to people who do exactly that. But then when you have decided on something that feels good to you (even when you are not 100% sure), stick with it for some years.
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The article is about proposals for possible climate-interventions from 2010. No one says that they have been implemented already. Now you could argue that they had been implemented in secret. But why? In the U.S. it would lead to less corn growth. And last I checked the president wasn't too keen on climate-interventions.
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You mean you take ritalin non-prescribed? From what Ive read its not worth it for most people to only take it to increase focus. As it has negative side-effects which are bad for focus in general. How is your experience?
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1. Look on your dating habits. What are you looking for in women. The same "If you only date bad boys, dont be surprised if they are acting like bad boys" applies to men as well. The girls you are looking for maybe hang around in yoga class or libraries - not in night clubs or on the beach. 2. Dating is like everything in nature - fucking brutal. Its obvious for girls as they see the difference clear as night and day when they compare for example sporty girls with make-up to overweight girls without. For guys its less obvious but its the hard truth. Nature doesnt play around when it comes to survival. Dont make it about you and dont play the "victim" card. Leave the dating field for now if you want to work on yourself first. Thats ok.
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Ahh, so if I understand correctly you just find them too long? I get that yes. Sometimes it feels like this to me as well. And especially when you are a busy person you might dont have time to watch the entire video. Personally, I like the long ones because I can listen to them in the car or whenever I have time and the repetition is good to really get some points hammered in. Maybe a mentorship class with less repetition and higher information density would be good. For people who have already fully internalized the foundational teachings. Some forum members also release summaries of Leos videos here. Just look around.
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universe replied to Spiral Wizard's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Dont get into resistance with this feeling. What you resist persists. When you feel that craving for validation or praise from others. Or maybe that negative feeling when you dont get the validation you wanted. Instead take a deep breath. Breath into the emotion. Approve of it. Do that on a daily basis. At least for 2 minutes. Why is this need there? Its an illusion. Dont bother with the why too much. Do this ritual as a prophylaxis for your emotional health. -
The start there. If you want to connect with people its important to first connect with yourself. Do you know your values? Are you in touch with your emotions? Here is a good channel for dating advice https://www.youtube.com/user/TheFearlessManTV Confidence comes naturally when fear is overcome. Releasing emotions is one of the most direct ways for dealing with fear (which means accepting and letting go of fear). Others are relaxation and awareness.
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What would you rather see his new videos be about? Also I disagree, in the last 2-3 years some of my most favourite videos were made (Self-Love for example). But I see where you're coming from.
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universe replied to Hotaka's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Instead of asking "Who am I?" ask "Am I the mind?" "Am I the perceptual field?" and so on. Basically whatever "The Mind" tells you you are when you ask that question. Go Sherlock Holmes on that. "So you say I am the thought. Ok. Is that really the case? Which thought exactly?" After you are asking, check how you are feeling on whatever comes back. -
Never drank coffee in my life AMA Y'all look like addicts to me lol
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Enjoy your life. Dont think about this too much. Look for a vision for yourself and work towards it. Do anything you can to get it. You most likely wont find your "long-time" vision anytime soon but you can start to grow your intuition. And build up your work ethic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1yA9KbPzQ0
