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I think you are making a lot of excuses for him. Loosing weight is accomplished via your diet. You dont need a gym. Ah I see ok. Ideally you want him to get off the games. At least when you have time to talk to him or do activities together. Maybe he just plays games because there is nothing else going on in his life. Its best if he is in a position where he prefers your company over playing games. By being loving and compassionate towards him, he could see how he gets what he wants (be loved) better from you than from games. I wouldnt recommend him the Sedona Method. Instead you learn how to use it and do the exercises with him. Maybe he becomes interested in self-help books but I wouldnt count on it. Thats why I recommend you pick whatever you are good at and coach him directly. But thats your call.

Definitely find your own place to live! What did you do during your trips?

You dont need a gym. Just get some resistance bands and focus on time under tension (TUT). You'll need some time to figure everything out either way. Gym will give you the motivation to make a long workout when you are already there. Because there is nothing else to do than to workout. Also trainers and equipment at your disposal. Could also be beneficial to go with a friend. Workout at home will give you more motivation to start because you dont need to overcome the hassle of getting to the gym. If you dont want to become a bodybuilder you can go a long way with body weight exercises and some resistance bands. You save some minutes of your day if you workout from home. It doesnt really matter. Just find something and stick to it. I do both.

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Dont show him Leos videos, just dont. Change doesnt happen as easily like that. Think about yourself. How long did it take you to implement these concepts discussed here. And how far are you actually with them? You are living with him so you really have a strong grip on him and the possibility to help him. Now first, him responding with suicide if you dont give him what he wants. Could be that he is suicidal, but to me it sounds much more likely that he is being abusive towards you. Just realize this. Now, how you can help him: Love. This is really important. Seems like he is missing a fuckton of it. Just be loving towards him in the next weeks and dont do anything else. If he crosses some boundaries explain how that makes you feel and that its not acceptable but overall be as loving as possible. DO NOT try to change him in any way. Like telling him what he could do (take a bath, get a job, get a haircut, going outside). Just accept and love him for what he is. Lead by example. Whatever you want him to do (habits, motivation, emotional control or whatever), instead of mentioning it to him. Just do these thing yourself. This is huge. After you've done this (1&2) for a while he might be looking for help. If he does this, you strike. Choose one way to help him/coach him and go for it. Strive for weekly/daily sessions. You can do whatever your best at. Maybe teaching self-help 101, going into metaphysics, doing psychedelics or start some sport. These are all good. But what I would really suggest is Sedona Method and some visualisation.

Seems like you are doing great. What about psychedelics?

Thats a very general question. Look at what it is that you want to achieve and then see how well you are doing now.

Look out for people who sell you "techniques" or "tricks" to get girls. That doesnt work. Instead find channels that teach you practices and help you to turn inwards to do the juicy inner work. Here is a good start https://www.youtube.com/user/TheFearlessManTV

No its no ones fault! Watch Leos video on emotions. Its about perspective. Now you think "Oh she doesnt like me, my life is ruined" (kinda) instead what would you feel like if you thought "Cool, now that I know she isnt into me I can spend my time dating other girls and will find my dream girl". Also maybe she is still into you but wasnt ready for a kiss yet. You dont need to leave if something becomes uncomfortable. Just step back, relax. Try again later and see what happens.

Seems needy, if he wanted to date you he shouldve told more about himself or at least bring chocolate candy haha. What can we tell you? We werent there. So what was the vibe you were getting from him?

You break up for 1hour? How old are you? And how do you feel about her, do you love her? How do you see the relationship as a whole? Its very personal. Some people like drama. If you are like that, go for it. But it will be very stressfull. Basically what the constant on and off thing will do is it creates so much highs and lows that you will become addicted to it. To a point where normal "healthy" relationships will become hard to deal with. Because they dont compare emotional whise. They wont have that roller coaster like feel, with all the ups and downs. So just be mindful of this and stay cautious. This drama from her is also very feminine and if you are a man who can deal with it you could have an amazing relationship. Maybe not healthy but exciting and romantical haha. @Leo Gura I also like fit girls

Basically Nr.1 Be interested in people LoA or whatever but you need to develop this skill because there are literally gadozens of interesting people right in front of you but you must train yourself to see them. Dont put them into boxes and think you already know everything about a person too quickly. Helps -Be funny. No one likes to be around someone who takes everything too seriously. -Ask them about their core values instead of boring logistical questions.

How in your direct experience does past and future exist?

They are there when you are ready for them. Plenty of them.

Are you sure there are two seperate "I"s? I dont know what mahasamadhi is other from what Leo said in the video. But from my understanding it means getting rid of the illusion of what you call the small "I".

How? There is only now.

Her audience would most likely be very open to whatever she has to say about you. Because over time she earned their trust, rapport and respect. I thought media is controlling the masses not the other way around Huh didnt know about the early interview. I dont watch Oprah but thats interesting. I think I like her.

Being popular is different from having a spot on prime time. I know I first read power of now like 10 years ago and at that time I really wished it would find its way into more hands. What would you say if your teachings got a promotion through Oprah? Maybe you are thinking Eckhart Tolle is in the same category as soda, tobacco and big pharma products. For me its a billion times closer to your teachings than any of that.

Seems like there is a huge change going on here. Big media teaching us high consciousness. This was literally unheared of christmas 2017

Not that I notice any huge difference it could also be he used longer focal length before. And the light is also softer now. All things which influence the way the jaw will look like.

I think that is a question everyone has to answer for themselves. Its very personal and depends on your personality. You can go inwards, self-actualize and start living the life of your highest imagination regardless of who you surround yourself with. Because in the end, everything is internal. At the same time it doesnt mean that Id advice the girl who is being abused by her husband to stay with him. Or someone who is being held hostage against their will to not free himself when the opportunity arises. I know these are rather extreme examples lol. Just stay true to yourself. The way people treat us and the people we make friends with reflect our internal world. When you change so will your environment. This is a natural way for things to go. So there is not really a need to do anything about it. This could be different for someone who is a "people pleaser" who does things for people he really doesnt want to do. Again changing himself and becoming more authentic would be the answer. By just telling people "no" they will then go away on their own and find other people to exploit. But if you are constantly drained by your friends and not able to do the inner work that is needed, then yes you might be better off cutting them out of your life first.

Yes I agree with that statement. With the condition that it must happen in the now. Because now is the only thing that exists. You can have thoughts about ancient roman time and the thoughts are real right now. But can you directly experience ancient roman time? Can you directly experience that you in fact pressed play? So with only the memory of it happening you would be quite unscientific to use that as a proof for something to exist. You can for sure go ahead and invent all kinds of technology to help you, video, audio, transcription. But if you look at your notes now, only the notes are real themselves. Easy to fake. I could give you a note right now which says "Universe gave Someone here 2000$" with exact time and date. The note is real and exists. But whatever its referring to doesnt exist. Even the word "existence" is only a symbol we use to talk about it right now. The real deal can not be communicated.

There is no such thing as a "movie". Its just pixels on a screen, dancing around. "it happens but its not real" Define what you mean by real If something happened and its not anymore in the now then it becomes a memory What is a memory? Its a thought Thoughts can come in various shapes. I can think about something that happened in the past, or I can think about a dragon flying in the sky. The content of a thought can never be real Any memory is a highly fragmented piece that tries to reassemble reality but reality is just way way more juicier than thought. If reality were like coca cola, thoughts are only cheap off-brand products. On the other hand, the experience or sensation of having a thought in the now. That is real You see how its hard for anything that happened to be real?

@Someone here I dont see the contradiction. Everything that happens in a movie isnt real but we can still talk about the film and analyze its concepts, characters and beauty. The same is true for ancient roman times or yesterday.

Depends. Its very efficient time and cost wise. But with a lot of subjects its really generalized and lacks nuance. I mean when you go to the library and easily find 10 books on the matter, each with 100s of pages and then check the wiki article you will see how they can only touch on a subject very briefly and shallow.