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@Fruehlingserwachen if i could swim with the dolphins. the soft and gentle dolphins

@bazera Yeah, they should know about each other. It would prob be best to have a main wife, and then other girlfriends on the side. There are plenty of women out there who are ok with that. But its all about frame. She'd have to know who you are and what you're about. If you're monogamous initially then try to open it after to see other women, it will backfire badly. The proper frame and context has to be from the start before you get serious time investment. And in terms of managing , i'd just say see each girl once a week. Typically though you should always let her be the one to future pace. as in "where is this going?, what are we?" etc. then you can lay it out as best as you can while aiming to be considerate for her emotional state as well. Because at the same time you don't want to blatantly make them feel used. There are different types of relationships, all defined by the level of time investment. For example , a fuckbuddy is someone you meet once a week just for sex, you dont go out on dates (besides the initial meet if necessary), and you could have other girls to "date" where you might do other things with them outside the bedroom. And then you have serious time investment with a woman that you live with essentially (same thing as marriage minus the contract). as a side note: I watched a video the other day that explained very well that when you ask a guy "what do you have to do to make women attracted to you?" its referring to how to get them to want to have sex with you. where as if that same exact question was asked to a woman "what makes you attracted to a man?" its referring to what makes the best husband/provider. Women do not tell you upfront what makes them want to fuck a guy, they tell you what will make the best husband/father/provider. And those two things are completely opposite. The guys they want to fuck fast versus make him wait comes down to how controllable he is and how many other options he has. Not morality. The more options you have as a man the more indifferent you naturally are, making them want to do sex faster because he can go off with someone else, where the less options you have, the more compliant you are to her demands ,etc. pressing the make him wait button. But of course there is a spectrum, some women have rules before they have sex with a guy, so it really depends, but typically thats how it goes. More compliance = make him wait, less compliance = give him sex. Women are not sexually attracted to a man's morality whatsoever . they will not get horny because you are "a good person". But they are attracted to that for a husband/provider

@Breakingthewall Exactly. Regardless of how awake someone is, its no excuse to throw away life because its just a temporary experience. In fact I'd argue the more things you do, the more things you accomplish /create/ build/ experience, while simultaneously being awakened to the god in you, the better. A big trap would be to do all these things and not be awakened, confusing material success for true achievement. So in a way, its actually both thats needed , the material side , and the awakened side, and using them in conjunction. It's basically like, have/do/be all the things you want as a human but realize you are also god for eternity at the same time. That way you can enjoy the the dream to its fullest, not necessarily "attaching" to all the things but having/doing them for the sake of the experience itself and enjoying them

@VeganAwake yeah. but essentially doing all of those things and taking care of them makes the survival machine better and your reality here better. For example, you will fundamentally feel better about yourself if you exercise. In the end it doesnt matter, but while youre here experiencing this you make it better by maxing out survival in all areas. A persons life will always feel lack if they dont work on or towards something, could be anything. Creating and building is what humans do. could be a skill, could be a lifestyle change, could be to be better in some way, to share something with others, to have certain experiences, etc. etc. etc. So because its all fleeting in the end doesn't mean to be nihilistic, use it for the experience to do what you want to do in life.

People that never take the stickers off hats and think they are being cool by keeping the stickers on for that very reason

People who wear grills or get diamond implants in their teeth

Flavored oxygen bars

Paying to eat dinner in complete darkness. Paying 1,000 dollars to eat steak wrapped in gold foil

@Leo Gura It really is. Part of me is envious of those who idealize that

Pouring champagne on your rolex in the club and videoing it for social media. thinking that that is cool. Rolexes and "luxury" champagnes in general. Nightclub and night life hierarchies (whos at the table, who cuts the line xyz). The onlookers pedestalize and feel inferior, the women chimps flock to the big bad alpha chimp at the table. Thinking any of this is cool in any way is conformity. Also to add to that, the way some go about showcasing status. certain behaviors. very conforming. Like pouring champagne on your rolex and sharing on the internet. If you want to get laid, invite a girl to your vip table and pour a whole bottle of champagne on your rolex in right front of her face and say "I'm better than all these fucking peasants!"

@OBEler good question. they just come out of nowhere. like they have their own light, and when its bright enough i can see them. some of them get so bright its insane to watch. others are very very dim almost faint. most are of normal brightness then fade their light. some will literally flash at me blinking. some dont even appear as orbs but ill see big pop sparks in the sky in random spots. and when i wave to it it will spark at me again. and not to mention the beams i've seen (dont know if they are related exactly but probably considering i've seen a still orb turn into a beam .) imagine standing outside in complete darkness and out of nowhere a bright golden beam of light flying right over your head (not super high up) and vanishing then seeing a spark right where it vanished. other times a bluish silvery beam flying right over my head in literal perfect parallel square in line with my head while staring up right above me. as for the video, i usually never take my phone outside with me because i honestly dont have any reason to record since its a daily normalcy for me. but at some point maybe i will. so i think they are probably always up there even when not making themselves visible. Maybe they hang out in the etheric plane? (the vibrational frequency between the physical world and the astral dimension where the mind transitions to during sleep). when you project out of your body you are typically in the etheric dimension where you can see your body on the bed, like a ghost in the world. sometimes astral stuff can bleed through though which is the next shift up. so maybe they inhabit the next frequency up from the "physical world" (not really physical but ygm) and can transition between them like us and everything else (since everything is multi dimensional). perhaps they are just more native to those other frequencies... no idea though. just a thought. they can be pretty random interactions too when im not expecting it. I woke up the other day at like 4 am from whatever i was doing in the astral dimension and then went outside to go for a drive and as im walking to my car in the driveway im just thinking like holy shit this world is just hallucinatory just like wherever i just was, and then boom a giant beam of light just zooms right by and i laughed. they play around with me too, sometimes when one flashes at me ill literally start skipping around laughing and more will just start showing up and flashing at me and some beams. its kind of hilarious actually lol. actually since im on the topic of dimensions i'd like to point out that the mind actually splits into fragments when you sleep and multiple realities are experienced simultaneously. so you can have multiple "dreams" going on at the same time but most people typically bring back the memory of one when they re transition back into this "dream" here. but its all god at the end of the day just doing its thing of hallucinating infinite pockets of reality. we are essentially just the same things as these orbs/beams/ other beings manifesting in different forms

@Wilhelm44 not really. at least nothing i can feel. its mostly visual interaction

well said. just remember "stopcock"

@Nick_98 Thats a trap friend. You don't "fall into delusion" from actualized teachings. It's actually in reverse. You already live in delusion by hallucinating being a human. Once you become conscious that YOU created actualized.org yourself. That you literally created everything yourself, including yourself. The dream is you. You are all of it. Pretending you are not. Reflections/figments of consciousness for eternity. direct experience. should shed some light. Remember, survival will do everything it can to subtly trap you to keep you "sane". The insanity you might feel from losing your grip, is literally what happens when you unravel how you are doing all of it yourself. But thats backwards because you are already insane by playing human and all the things a human needs to adopt in order to survive. Just in your own unique way. You are just unraveling it. Survival is sneaky and locks you in. this type of work is like a key that unlocks the truth in you hidden beneath the layers of survival, language, rationalizations, etc. But of course to continue being a human being, you need some ground to keep yourself a stable functioning human in this social machine to survive, so be careful/mindful and keep yourself in check. But just understand what the mind has been doing.

If Jesus was a jewish rabbi, then how come so many people that follow faith in christ are antisemitic? is that an example of cherry picking certain things from a religion and ignoring others to suit themselves?

Wouldn't mapping out examples of conformity in this forum post also be conforming? everybody listing off examples of conformity to conform to being non conformist. Just don't want to fall into the trap of thinking you're non conformist while also "conforming" to being non conformist. What about actualized in general? isn't that conformity to mind development of seeing human traps in general, but wouldn't that be a paradox? considering doing this work is also conforming to breaking out of typical conformist nature. A cat can't conform because it doesn't have concept of human language. I think human language itself is one of the biggest traps of all, because just trying to reason and form understanding, so then it can be used to rationalize and conform to the idea of being awakened. You get to a point where language essentially collapses because it can't define past what a human mind is capable of understanding and explaining in human language. And that's essentially what happens when you try to define god. you hit a ceiling and human language doesn't work anymore. only direct understanding/experience of infinite consciousness. you're only defining what you can understand and reason with in language. But if the goal of this work is to ascend beyond normal human consciousness, then shouldn't you ascend beyond language? Because if you don't it keeps you in the loop of human rationalization and creating understanding. We are just little pockets of God trying to explain to ourselves in language to form a ground to experience reality and understand it. But whatever ground you form is just imaginary and self created. Obviously you can't get away from language after all if you're god being a human...

How long do you guys think it will take for the middle east to move from Red/Blue (and some purple) , into Orange? The propagation of Blue's religious dogma and the fear/lack of resources causing Red due to war, etc. and Blue's dogma will of course need to cease control I wonder if its possible in the next 50 years... I guess you could consider UAE/Dubai as toxic orange, except its cloaked in Blue and backed by dogma in the government/dictatorship there But I'm really referring to Iran, Israel, Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria, etc. Many parts of Africa as well, which is very red/purple, but for the sake of this post we can mostly discuss the Blue/red/purple side of the middle east countries. Seems its just been in a giant feedback loop of blue dominating and creating groups of red/purple due to the conformity because of fear and violence and need to control, lack of resources . People justifying "God's will" to selfishly act out their need to dominate and cherry pick whatever serves their survival the most. Since everything over there is about land, oil, and religious conformity. I wonder what its going to take for not just most of the population, but also the governments of these countries to reach higher developmental stages. We are all aware of the up rising in Iran thats pushed back against red/blue, ending in much violence. But I'm wondering about the government in control, not just the population. When are the people/regime in control there going to cease their blue/red ways and ascend? And as for Israel, same thing. I'd say 80-90% blue, 10-20% orange there. Zionism isn't helping, we all know that. So as for the clashes against islam/zionism and all the subsets of these big religions, whats it gonna take for people to realize their self deception and take off the lens of conformity? How developed does it need to get? When can/will the governments subside their need to project their views onto the other? when will they subside their need for more land? Even in America, I cringe when I see religious people reveling in their blind conformity and self deception. Have any of these people even here in a predominantly toxic orange society even questioned their own mind? or is their identity just so intertwined with these man made beliefs that they are too scared for their mind to die? What's it going to take for people to wake up? Obviously here, there is no threat of death if you don't conform to religious ideals, just castigation from your posse/group/family. We can also talk about America, or really anywhere in the world and their state of development, because thinking about all of them, not just the middle east can shed light on the contrasts amongst them all. We can also discuss the blind conformity echo chambers across social media of developmental stages. Which it appears as social media is predominately Orange, with blueish hive minds and specks of red throughout. (Red in this case being like fighting and whatnot). I really want to understand the psychology behind the minds of people that bash others for content, whether its our side/vs theirs, including news media. All ideas are welcome, this topic has been on my mind lately and I'd like to hear others views. Share whatever you feel.

@Alysssa 100% there is. i have personal direct forms of communication . from 2025 sept-jan 2026 iwas seeing orbs, beams, streaks of light, crafts, all sorts of stuff near daily. even followed me to a remote location in a different state then back home again. And when i say personal. i mean like standing outside mentally calling out for something to come by and show itself and seeing a huge beam of light flying directly line with my head straight above me. looking like it came out of a different dimension, into this one, and then right back out again. stuff like that... lol. there are so many other forms of god out there, but im not surprised honestly, its insane im even typing this to you right now and that my surroundings are even existing . 99% of people take all this for granted , its a magical dream world, just like the ones you have when you go to sleep , just of a different vibrational frequency.

@Lazarus93 beautiful explanation. i also have been on dxm a few times. not pure, but thru CCC's. felt like a dream. (within a dream if you catch my drift lol

@Yimpa loool yess!!

imagination to infinity

ideally you should let her bring up the exclusivity/relationship definition talk. women are typically the ones who want to latch on to a mans life , not a man "latching" onto the woman if that makes sense. when a man does that verbally, it communicates neediness. so instead of verbalizing it just spend more time together, the actions speak louder than the words. The more cool you are with outcome independence and letting them go, the more they typically want to stay. All you really have to focus on is having a good time in the present moment with her. You don't have to future pace and verbalize the stance. Just focus on the now. Also since you have other women, you're already doing what you should be. Men are not typically biologically wired for monogamy. we are wired to spread. Women have limited eggs so its the polar opposite for them. but thats all biologically speaking. societal programming can outweigh that in many /most people. I would just stay keep doing what you're doing and seeing a few women consistently. the ones that want higher levels of time investment will let you know. and then you can decide how to play it out after that.

breaking addictions require starving the mind of that thing. It will fight you until it doesn't. Until your brain changes and then you stop thinking about it. The more you entertain the thought about the thing/the feeling of it, the more prone you are to doing it. Some addictions become physical dependencies, but within all of that is still the mind guiding you to do it. If you can go 30 days without it, you're out of the hole but still susceptible to falling back in. Once you've been addicted to something, you are always susceptible to being addicted to it again and again and again. You're always one choice away from falling back in. So really, you have to train yourself to find contentment without it. Once you go 30 days, your mind starts to loosen its grip on the thing, but there will be times when it will still try to pull you in. But if you let the feeling pass without acting on it, then you gain control. Gotta find something else as an alternative to fill up your thoughts. There's 3 types of pain with addictions. 1 is staying addicted and that thing brings you pain by controlling some aspect of your mind, the other is the pain of regret of who you could have chosen to be without it. the3rd pain is breaking the actual addiction until your identity rewires itself. Addiction itself is avoidance of pain or discomfort used as an escape or a form of regulation/cope. So ask yourself, what am i missing in my life that i'm using this thing for to cope? Once you know what that is, then you go through the other pain to get it solved.

sega dreamcast, atari, original nintendo, neo geo pocket, gameboy, game cube. You could literally just go to google and type in 90s/2000s consoles. but if its ps2 era you want, then the other rivals at the time were original xbox, and game cube

It's a shame how unconscious all these people are of their self deceptions. Just blatantly using Christianity to serve themselves. It's sad.