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I believe validation is the wrong word here, when in a bleak emotional winter, it is connection we need, not validation. and there are so many ways to get connection besides external ways/from others. Craving social validation is the ego/self image needing to be confirmed and reinforced by others.

You are talking about flow state?

yeah, but the idea that we are 'dependent' on social validation is wrong, i believe.

I still don't get life purpose. since my life has always been a series of medium-term projects (6 months to 2 years) that either solve a problem, or my curiosity drifted me there. these projects are all over the place, from university to business to dating to hobbies. i learned so many skills and never specialized in any domain. now I'm a freelancer, not because of life purpose, but i maxed out university so i quit and freelancing seemed to be the next challenging project that excites me and I'm curious about. when i think of the future, i don't see myself doing something specific, but rather engaging in projects that fit that context of my life. my motivation has always been growth and creativity, so do I need life purpose?

the synthesis of causality, self help, practicality, human behaviour, nature of mind and thoughts, will power.... makes it already unique. it gives all of that context instead of them being separate things.

yeah, it can be the bridge between neurotic thinking and systems thinking. it can also decrease internal drama which is a huge factor for unnecessary suffering.

So it's a system of influences influencing influences in a complex weird loopy maybe infinite way?

The illusory of free will part needs some more nuance and details. how are these statements true at the same time?: so does agency exist according to this framework or not? if so, what type of agency?

okay lemme flex a bit. English, Amazigh (north african native language), French, Arabic, moroccan darija (even though darija can be considered arabic but since most arabs don't understand it i count it as one)

This new Mrbeast video showcases so many characteristics of survival. What he did is basically he went to random store and told strangers shopping the last one to leave Wins 250k$. For example, It showcases how survival manifests in groups vs individually. at first everyone started claiming territories, resources and gathering in groups. When there were so many people and groups, all sorts of evil shit was happening in order to make other's experience worse in order to leave soon. the Us vs them behaviors started to appear, but as soon as they were down to only 8 or 6 people, all the rivalry ended and survival took another shape, they all became softer and social with each other. (this is explained in game theory where in a small scale game, acting selfish and evil gets you isolated, but if you cooperate and build trust, you'll have a high chance of survival. but that doesn't apply to massive scales. that's why wars happen). Most of that happened unconsciously, which makes you contemplate how much unconscious survival we still have in us.

the only valid answer lol

It is what it is. Life is a game you can play, win, figure out, and enjoy. Same events can be interpreted in so many ways based on one's lens, attitude, understanding and perspective. Life has no meaning. There will be always more tits than there are dicks.

seriously though, thank you. i wish i have a friend like you jeeeeeesus

I was fishing since i was a kid, i fucking love it. but recently when i think about the fact that i hook a fish from its mouth, drag it, and then release it back just for sport is kinda questionable. but i will still go fishing though, but i will just eat all the fish i catch and not release them, (I don't know if there's a difference but it sounds better) , i just want to know what you think.

I guess it's selective attention, but that's only my guess.

thank you. I made it in one evening rushing through it because i was just traveling. that installation got removed days later, this time if i go there I'm gonna make a better one and fix it somehow (it's far away from dense residential are so no one is bothered)

So the non existence of anything is something ?

Last summer we stumbled upon this rock: So i got an idea, and made this: Here's the final result: It was the most hilarious art installation i made lol

can i have some?

That's what she said....best mommy ever

yeah from people that know and tried and experienced Tbh I'm curious as hell, most big questions i have are answered, it's the psychedelic's answer I've been waiting for.

I'm asking about the "Hold Off On Psychedelics If You're Young" blog post. I'm 23 and curious if trying a psychedelic once or twice to just experience ego death is okay or it will still effect me ? I've never tried psychedelics.