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With this view being opinionated cant be criticised.

Don't get it.

It’s a lot of speculation of course. But I agree that the tone is offputing at times. Something just is a bit off but it’s hard to really outbid into words sometimes.

The way you frame it in this text, I would say we are even on the same page. Nothing can said against it, it is bullet proof logic in its frame. the premises is just something I would say is sometimes maybe to absolut. the Covid vaccine safed millions of lives. Does it mean it’s the best to take for every age group? What about long term affects? What about using „lies“ to push them into the masses? When does a lie justify the the result, etc etc. As long as you are still open to have a fair look on these aspects as well, I can’t say anything. From what I have seen here in the forum regarding that topic and the others I have mentioned. I have not seen that. Of course I don’t know you, so I can’t tell how nuonced you really are. Since you are very strong intellectually it’s also one of the more common traps for these archetypes, to fall into. Thanks for the exchange

Thanks for answering. I was actually thinking about that, too. And I would say that it’s absolutely correct to do it in certain topics. Where I sense something „off“ is when you start to use the same authority in topics that are just very big in facets. Like politics for example. If somebody claims he know what to do and how to rule and bla bla bla. Its more real that there are so many factors and things we don’t know and can’t control, so that we can only do our best but nobody can claim to „know it all“. That’s the vibe I get from you in certain topics.

Hey guys, First of all I am very grateful for all Leo has done. It has helped me immense. I really like that he maps „the way“ so smooth. There is just something that feels a little off when I sometimes see comments here in the forum. And probably also sometimes an undertone in his videos. For a very wise person, I would start seeing them to become less opinionated. Maybe more opinionated when it comes to morales etc. To me it seems like there are a lot of topics where we can’t have a 100% certainty, and that’s okey. But I find Leo to be very strong sided in a lot of these topics were we just don’t know or are still learning. some examples: -Leo’s view on IQ and IQ tests and its possible relevance -no fap -whole covid vaccination process -His general vibes expecially with the „epistemology“ It seems like intelligence is a very detrimental factor to a persons life especially when it’s more in the lower side. For Leo IQ test are just a bunch of crap. He seems to redeculize the idea of no fap and does not go really deep in explanation. Just saying you nbeed to control it like any other drug. With the whole covid vaccine debate he refers to the study that points out that it’s safer to be vaxxed and catch it then the other way around. That’s it, topic closed.Even if that’s true, there is no talk about how immoral group pressure was strategically used. How it would persevere spreading but later we know it did not etc etc. It surprises me to see that he does not look at some topics from different perspectives, instead he starts to get rather absolut. To me that doesn’t seem right for a rather wise person to act like. I know Leo is also just a human, too. interested in your views on this.

wow very very insightful. It might be the answer I have been looking for ! I was afraid I might lose something when not listening to the ego/masculine drive but now I see how it can be used. I had a similar experience with saying my truth. Usually anger comes up and tells me my truth. But I do not need to communicate it in an angry way. So the vision ( anger shouts) and the action where not the same but afterwards I still feel pretty aligned... Maybe thats the same thing you are pointing at

Very helpful!! Thank you very much. So we keep the visions going in our heads but use the same energy not exactly for what the visions wants ( the ego wants to be seen and get the attention of course etc ) but more to build stuff ?

Yeah but gaining self worth from the outside doesn't sound like the best idea, like a common trap

For me that would mean that I would try to climbe the social letter, be more dominant, want attention form the outside, seen as the cool guy, get the nice car , get the attractive woman,. And I know that this is not only what I want since I am also looking for meaning and purpose. But Then it feels like these two energys contradict each other

Don't really get what you are trying to say here

Hey guys, I notice more and more that I am cut off from my own power in a way. Fear of maybe being to much, to dominant is holding me back which leads to the opposite, feeling less confident and feeling like I see my self as less. The Problem I have: I have a big energy inside me that wants to be the hero, wants to dominate, wants to win, wants to push etc. Its not there cause of trauma or something it feels more like a natural instinct I have. But I am also very reflective, wanting to act from values, wanting to meet people at a human level and doing something thats meaningful to me. I often hear that there is a more mature from of this masculine energy, but I can't really believe that. It seems like lots of men have these visions of being the hero, lots just have them buried and others are not really 100% honest with themselves. It annoys me because I dont know how to use this energy inside of me really, its always getting blocked off because I dont want to act from ego so much etc.. Maybe some of the guys here can help me ?

Hello, As I can see so far there are basically three things that helps with stuck emotions: 1) working with belives and understanding what's going on -> Results in a feeling of freedom from old belive (cognitive therapy with psychologist) 2) Radically leaving ones comfort zone and facing scary situations in life -> resulting in freedom because more trust and courage 3) Emotional releases -> resulting in an overwhelming energetic feeling which frees one from his stuck emotions Does anybody know when which strategy is the best and for what scenario? I See a lot of new age "spiritual men" getting stuck in introspection searching for triggers, getting more and more into a feminine frame, instead of actually getting strong and feeling capable in life. Being on his own mission etc. Maybe some of the other men have some experiences. So far opening up to all this emotional work feels unnatural to me. Thanks !

I mean I identify as a man and I see that as having a healthy ego foe example. Maybe letting bo and developing both is needed ?