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This is fascinating to me, because I’ve always wondered what goes through people’s mind or really wondered why people become addicted or how this happens. Your story is really interesting to me. my dad suffered with serious alcoholism when I was a child. He couldn’t acknowledge it was a problem for a very long time. i have a habit of saying what’s on my mind. In result as a teenager I told my dad they were an alcoholic because of how heavy and often they drank only to be met with hostility and anger. My dad is extremely old school and did end up cold turkeying it. (WHICH CAN KILL YOU) They had a gastric bypass and so they become drunk easier they don’t drink as much, but even then. I’ve heard him say that he could feel his body/mind saying “ooooh don’t you remember that you love this?” Meaning loving the feeling alcohol gives him. addiction is like a ghost and i can’t help but worry for him i don’t hold any resentment towards him. i just hope he heals from whatever is haunting him

I hope kids will learn their rights as an individual you shouldn’t be forced to practice a religion but unfortunately America doesn’t see children as individuals or people. they see children as lesser or servants, etc. you’re not suppose to back talk, you’re not supposed to say you don’t want to. to me this is gross and I feel bad for the kids. school should be a safe place. And it’s increasingly becoming more of a hostile place. with school shootings and then alongside shoving the Bible down children’s throats. :// I doubt this is going to benefit them. And depression and anxiety in children might even sky rocket. Not to mention suicide from lgbtqia. I know not all teachers are the same however. my teacher for an example was a very safe place to be queer, and I was able to forget about the problems that was going on at home. And just be a kid. it wasn’t until high school did I encounter a teacher like her, but if the teachers can’t be a good example I’m praying that the kids have good friends to lean and depend on. community is everything.

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Interesting video gave pretty good advice though I am a bit worried for this user’s sister and getting married within four months of knowing their partner. We’ve known each other for about ten ish months. Marriage might be a bit to early in our cards currently. who knows I say we just wing it and keep steady

Life is like a box of milk chocolates. And I am lactose intolerant.

They are all pieces of junk, like the food

Keep at it. Effort is the Siamese twin of success.

I don’t care about the gender of who’s using the bathroom just keep it clean.

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🩰 spider ballerina consciousness if you will … Peter looks like a spider dancing away 0:22

Whatever the boobies got going on w the swinging tell em to keep it over there :3 xoxoxo disrespectfully beans <3

Interesting thank you!

I say to feel everything authentically which might sound like a punch to the gut but grief is often times ls just love knocking the door as a memory. don’t hesitate to reach out you are loved wishing your friend peace

Sorry if this is a personal question if you feel uncomfortable with me asking this question but what was Russia’s whole problem with Syria and why is Russia attacking Ukraine now? I’ve heard a lot of discussion about it. And now that North Korea has sent troops to Russia what are your thoughts about what’s happening ?

My dad was this kind of person I do not suggest drinking alcohol for social anxiety it’s quite literally adding gasoline to your current fire alcoholism will kill you

Is life worth living is a very broad question I think everyone has to answer that question by themselves though to me it just sounds like you don’t really know what brings you happiness I kinda get what brings me happiness, but before then I was very sad and depressed it’s not to say I don’t deal with those emotions anymore, but it helps knowing for instance in a really dark period of my life I was hospitalized because of suicidal ideation/tendencies I ended up making a friend and we played uno I’ve been obsessed with it since and find it a source of comfort and it genuinely makes me happy I had a pretty good winning streak until joy @Yimpabegan playing the game as well :)) joy is telling me about emojis I can add on lol shh please don’t buy into the false idea that everyone has it together, because we don’t and I find comfort that I’m going through hardship with others (shout out to my editor @Yimpa) yes it sucks, but hey at least I have a clutch my honest advice is find more laughter, look at free events, and comedy clubs and if you can make a friend or even acquaintance good on you don’t expect perfection just work on progression another little quote I’ve found that has brought me comfort is rejection is just redirection good luck we’re rooting for you

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I don’t agree, because life will try to find each and every way to show to you. Also it’s evident. Your heart beats, your lungs, basically every human function. Just as how nature is alive. Regardless of it being grass, water, fire, wind, etc. We are alive. Regardless if we acknowledge it or not.

War. Often times means profit off the poor. It’s their dead sons and daughters fighting a fight for land. And their motives. On each side. I wish it would end. Not to mention the side effect of the constant dropping of bombs furthering climate change. Imagine living on this big blue planet and thinking you have more of a right to live on it than others. Selfishness is a disease.

Watch their actions. people can say they choose you, but ultimately words fail. And their motives are shown through actions. It’s also important to learn about their true nature before hand, and to understand how it makes them who they are. Showing up for you unexpectedly is a good sign. It’s not mandatory, but someone who loves you would. Consideration is key.

Love is a feeling of mutual understanding it’s not all bound to ego or how good they make you feel. To love someone is to say “okay” to challenges you normally wouldn’t. It also doesn’t necessarily mean you have to accept them either. That’s more of each partner’s choice. The difference is you are actively choosing, communicating, and rotating the table. You grow together. I think it’s important to see if the room is fruitful before baring any fruit. Meaning it’s important to look at the location before planting a tree. So these are questions that are necessary to ask, but ultimately no one is perfect. And I think personally people are usually stuck on this whole idealism of a “perfect man” or a “perfect woman” that’s not love. It’s a superficial idea of what it is. Shit happens, constantly. Regardless of it being due to your own fault, or the universe causing something out of the blue happening. Sometimes someone will come to help you, majority of the time you are left on your own. So it’s important choosing someone who would choose you, even in an unfavorable situation.

I don't understand how it equates to/with cheating

Not derailing. I’m engaging the topic. Explain how I’m derailing.