AION

That is true. If you want to date a non desperate girl who undoubtedly has good genetics, social standing and good character, you need to be the prize. Because there are so many men who want to get in her pants and sacrifice everything to be with her. Yes she knows she is the prize but to be able to get her as the man you need to flip the script and sub communicate to her that she is not the prize but you are the prize. This is key: some things you never tell a women, like telling her you are the prize. You never tell her explicitly but implicitly. You need to demonstrate it and sub communicate it. Very feminine women don’t have trouble with this. Because it is on their nature to lean on a strong tree. Only masculine females have trouble with this and that is ok too. These women know they are not the top notch of females so they develop other strategies to cope but usually they end up with partners with whom they are dissatisfied and they just put up with.

Humans are like apes. There is the pride of the group. And all female apes are drawn to him. That is how we are biologically programmed. Like Owen Cook says: humans have created the monogamy culture so weak beta men can procreate but that culture is slowly eroding and we are slowly returning to our biological reality. Man is made in the image of god, not women. And he has to take his place in the universe. Letting women take the lead in a relationship almost always leads to disaster because very few women have an integrated animus. A women in lead is out of her feminine and deeply unhappy and desperate to keep the relationship going because of her kids or no better option.

As I predicted it and said many times https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cz9y4exj822o.amp

Self can’t be measured like measuring your dick but how I probe it is through the amount of defensiveness. For example if you something and that person becomes defensive you will know you are dealing with that person’s identification/self-ishness.

I can see use cases for this. Just using a little bit to have an edge in muscle development doesn't seem that harmful. It is not something I would do. I have already enough muscle but some guys can't develop muscles to save their lives.

I don’t think a paradigm shift in science from secular to non secular would cause a major catalyst since science pertains to the material world.

I already asked ChatGPT

Huh So I get men’s deal about fascination of beauty. What is women’s deal? You are kind of contradicting yourself.

Women can be captivated about mystery too. If they figure a guy out it is usually over unless she really loves him. All those romantic novels and shit. Guys ain’t reading that. We aren’t usually fascinated about her work or hobby’s lmao. I’m also not the typical guy I guess. Last week I met a girl through a hobby and I’m more fascinated about her beauty and what it says about me.

@Princess Arabia I was talking about the male POV so we are on the same page.

It is in your nature.

His game is optimized for Las Vegas. That city is a bubble of its own. I know a guy who came from there to Europe where I live and he told me he was getting laid in the US all the time but he couldn’t get laid in Europe once. That guy had the best game I have ever seen but he was tooting the wrong horn. I have seen the girls responses to him. And he poor guy stayed 6 months here. US has a very casual hook up culture which other places don’t have in the same way.

My main point was to drop the mental gymnastics what women want. I’ve studied men in the night club and what makes them successful and this was my conclusion: dropping mental gymnastics and just being a man (which means leading, playing, etc). What every girl wants is a different so in that sense it is a mystery, something to find out and be fascinated about through direct exp and not through mental gymnastics from a safe distance. A lot of guys see girls as an enigma they can’t solve. With that attitude she is not going to work with you.

What guys don’t get is you don’t need to do anything to deserve sex and affection. Attraction is pre verbal and just being a man is enough. But the thing is you need to build this masculine presence and need to be somewhat fit and stylish. All that mental gymnastics about what women want doesn’t work; these limiting beliefs are why you don’t get any. What women want is a mystery and you should be in peace with that. The book of not knowing taught me how to get out of my head and just ~ be. It is so simple and so difficult. Just being is the ultimate pussy magnet. And I know it sounds insane and it really works.

Night game is not for reproduction. At night girls just want to have fun and they select guys on swagger, charisma and funniness. They don’t select on whether or not he can be a provider.

Frame control is important with everything. In the professional and personal spheres. I believe depression and stuff is just not being able to hold frame and letting life rag doll you. Incels are usually depressed too which is not a coincidence.

There is nothing left to return to 🫢

Hmm. You can see through my eyes right now? What am I doing?

Extreme left is like extreme right. They are pig headed. It is like talking to those people who try to sell their religion on the street.

It won’t be worse than WW2

Saying AI is the end of humanity is like saying the invention of cars is the end of horses, or the invention of computers the end of certain jobs. Yes, it is partially true but humans will need to adapt like they always did or die trying. A lot won’t be able to comply with change. That is true. Spirituality will be so key for this generation to be able to let go of old paradigms and accept new paradigms. Most people think spirituality is lovey-dovey. No. Spirituality is warfare.

Women compete with each other too in terms of looks and their other ways of doing that. For what?

Top 20% of men are the prize and they know it. Women chase them. But the other 80% of men have to chase to get some.

So I recently got a diagnosis saying I’m on the autism spectrum and I’m going to be brutally honest here .. I don’t buy it. I’m not writing this to offend anyone who identifies as autistic or finds their diagnosis helpful or grounding. I’m writing this because I need to speak my truth, and maybe some of you have had similar experiences and can relate. Let’s start with the basics. They say I’m “on the spectrum,” but I genuinely don’t recognize myself in the typical descriptions of autism. I don’t have fixations. I don’t rock back and forth, I don’t get overwhelmed by lights and sounds, I don’t have rigid routines that I melt down if broken. In fact, I thrive in chaos. I’m highly adaptive. I’m quick on my feet. And the idea that I lack empathy , the stereotype people so often associate with autism , is outright absurd in my case. If anything, I feel too much. I pick up on things others don’t. I can walk into a room and feel what people are feeling. I’ve had moments where people have literally asked me, “How did you know I was thinking that?” I’ve always assumed that was my mirror neurons working on overdrive. I intuitively read faces, tones, micro-expressions. I sense the unspoken dynamics in conversations. I’ve had to tone that ability down because it makes people uncomfortable when you see through them that easily. That doesn’t sound like a deficit in social cognition that sounds like hypersocial awareness. The only thing I do relate to is getting stuck in my head. I analyze a lot. I can overthink and sometimes get lost in my own inner world. But I see that more as part of being intensely introspective, intelligent, maybe even creative, not as a disorder. I’ve always thought deeply. I reflect on life, people, systems, ideas. That doesn’t feel pathological to me, it feels human. If anything, it feels like a gift. So here’s what I think is really going on: I’m neurodivergent, sure but not in the boxed-up, medicalized, DSM-style way they want to label people. I think differently, I move differently through life, I question things deeply. I don’t fit into the standard molds, and for a lot of therapists or psychologists, that’s just too much. They can’t figure me out, so they fall back on the autism label because it’s easier than admitting their framework doesn’t fit someone like me. It’s a way to cope with their own limitations. And that’s the part that actually pisses me off. There’s a lot of talk these days about how nuanced and diverse neurodivergence is, but in practice, many professionals still treat these labels like cookie cutters. If you don’t behave in a way that fits their standardized expectations of “mental health,” suddenly you’re disordered. If you question authority or don’t conform to their communication style, boom, now you’re “autistic.” It’s a catch-all for anyone who makes them feel out of depth. What’s worse is that this kind of labeling is often used to invalidate people’s perceptions of themselves. If I say I feel deeply for others, I’m told I must be misinterpreting or masking. If I explain that I have a nuanced understanding of social dynamics, they tell me I must be intellectualizing it, not actually feeling it. It’s like they’ve already decided the story, and anything that contradicts it gets reinterpreted as “a symptom.” I’m tired of it. I’m tired of therapists with a narrow skillset projecting their own confusion back onto me as if I’m broken. I’m tired of being told that I must not really understand people, because that’s not what someone “on the spectrum” would do. And I’m tired of being put in a category that doesn’t reflect who I am just to make it easier for someone else to make sense of me. Here’s what I believe: I’m intensely perceptive, emotionally and intellectually. I think deeply and get lost in my thoughts sometimes, but that’s a trait, not a disorder. I’m socially attuned perhaps even hyper-attuned to other people’s inner states. I’m neurodivergent, yes, but not autistic in the way they describe it. Most therapists are simply not equipped to deal with people who don’t fit their models. I’m writing this because I know I can’t be the only one who feels this way. Maybe you’ve also been handed a diagnosis that didn’t sit right with you. Maybe you’ve also felt like you were being squeezed into a category that flattens the complexity of who you really are. Maybe you’ve also seen the limitations of the mental health system and how it deals with people who are outside the norm but not disordered. People treat you different if you say you have the diagnosis so I don’t tell people. I’m open to hearing other people’s perspectives, even from those who do identify with their autism diagnosis. I don’t think one experience invalidates another. But I want to create space here for people who feel mislabeled, misunderstood, or misdiagnosed especially those of us who live somewhere off the map.