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Nah, I know couples with for example one atheist and one christian in it and they have the best relationships with a lot of love and respect for each other. While others are approaching relationships like it is a freaking game of Uno matching values like a computer lmao 😂 Prioritizing value matching as the sole thing is wrong in my opinion. It is a paradigm lock of a certain spiral dynamic stage which I won't share here because I don't want to ruffle the feathers in this topic. Just because some of my views match with red pill doesn't mean I'm red pill. And just because I think some buddhist views are right doesn't make me a buddhist. This is a very weird way to look at humans because it is reducing a person to a value like what a computer would.

I'm not red pill though. So that is an assumption from your side. And that is ok. We all make assumptions. I was just basing my perspective on the vibe I got from you on this forum because that is the only thing the users here can work with. I agree. But people use the word love and mean different things with it. Some people value match and they call it love. And another person might have a emotional-chemical response and call that love. In my opinion relationships are about growing together, and not about value matching like it is a card game.

That is a very high standard and that is why people are lonely because they price themselves out of the market. I mean people are entitled to price themselves out of the market. But I'm in the stage of my life to be open to people with different values because those people reveal something. People who don't align with you are just your shadow part. Just having a short friendship of couple of weeks is not the end of the world or "wasting time". I'm learning a lot and I grown because of it. After those few weeks I can decide to end it or put a distance. With friendships I have the same credo. I have enough friends and if my current friends don't treat me right, they know, there are other friends who will replace their spot in my life. Reducing human relationships to only value matching is reducing it to a card game. That is not the game that is being played by humans lol. @Natasha Tori Maruso what do you suggest to him? Keep to his guns? He likes young girls like me and if he keeps to his guns, he will be celibate 😂

If the relationship aka time spend together feels like a win-win, the remainder is not important. I do business with people who have a total different value set than me and that is what love is. Accepting the other as they are and they accept you as you are. It is impossible to find somebody with an one on one value match to begin with. People want relationship to be a romantic, philosopher, business partner and everything else in 1. It is not realistic. What I - value - in a gf is very different than what I value in a friend.

Idd, the best is to just enjoy the presence of consciousness like Tolle explains. I always use the HRV stimulator in conjunction with certain frame works. It is an accelerator to get into deep alpha-delta brain wave states.

I uploaded a bunch of transcripts of videos of Owen Cook and crunched it in AI to synthesize it and what it basically told me it is all about the dopamine system. If you don’t engage her dopamine system which basically means if you don’t engage her emotions, it doesn’t matter how good you look, how much money you have or any other metric. When you know where the - emotional - buttons are it stops being a numbers game. Emotions are king to the extent that it doesn’t even matter if you are a good guy or not. It is not about being a good guy or not. It is understanding the rules of dating women. If you are not in touch with the emotional realm, you are blind to it. So that is what game is teaching you. You need to learn to play and have the capacity to reflect correctly to become better in playing in general in life.

Natural sugar intake from regular Whole Foods is ok. Refined sugar is for brothers.

Personally I'm glad there are so many conformist people. It is the backbone of a country. They are doing the jobs I don't want to do. It is a necessary - lesser - evil to keep the mat-rix (matriarchy) running. Taking people prematurely out if it is cruel and will create widespread chaos and evil. The equivalent would to take a baby too early out of the womb because why stay in the womb for 9 months? That is so conformist. Or destroying your own spine to not be conformist. So in a sense it is a lesser evil sometimes. Conformity versus non-conformity is not a boolean value. It is not, you either conformist or you are not, it is more a knob. For example we all speak the same language. Imagine the chaos if everybody spoke different languages here. I speak multiple languages but I decide to speak English to con-form but within that language I can be non-conformist and have my own style of using the language. People don't realize how much they conform to a certain way of thinking and speaking by the language. Speaking multiple languages makes you easier to detach from the ingrained and embedded myths and archetypes aka the collective unconscious (soul) of that particular language. For example even if you are not Christian, those Christian myths can be ingrained in your mind/brain just by you speaking that European language. It is insane.

That is true. But I think we should still be careful who we pick. Discernment is as important as the mirror principle. Because if you have a dirty mirror in front of you, it won’t even reflect you correctly.

Men screen too because we want to be sure the kids are ours. Massive amount of energy goes into an upbringing of a being so we wanted to be sure she isn’t one of those. Back in the day we didn’t have dna tests so that is why it is ingrained in our biology. If you are too emotional to talk about basic evolutionary biology don’t tag me. I’m done with playing nice from now on.

@TheSelf I never read that in a book. I just know it from intuition. Thanks for sharing. Another thing is overthinking. That is also a huge drain. I think Peterson got in health trouble because of this. No doctor will tell him this. It is too late for him anyway. I think psychedelics burns a lot of prana too. One can just feel it. It is still a necessary evil though. So sometimes I do take it. Good prana starts with good food, sleep and exercise which is the cultivation. And then there is the drainage like overthinking, being over-sexual and various survival state of being are draining too.

I won’t give my opinion yet but I think some are overrated. For example with ChatGPT you will get a lot of value without paying but with Claude you have to pay to get the real deal. It is insane.

If you don’t have high libido anyway wasting your life energy won’t make a big difference. The effects of masturbation highly depends on your biology. For some like myself, retention has huge benefits. The whole point of pranayama is to push up libido from the crotch toward the heart and pineal gland. So you need some libido to have something to work with. Personally I think sexual health and health in general is closely related.

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@Natasha Tori Maru we men usually don’t use that word. It is a subconscious process.

@Princess Arabia it is in the biology of men to screen for it. Nothing personal.

According to this forum it is not needed. I asked it before.

I try to read to Kriya Yoga books on the book list but they are just too long winded and esoteric. I was on page 20 or something and the author was already teaching me how to stick my tongue up my own nostrils. I wish there was a no nonsense guide/book for it.

Men test too but these are codependent men. They screen for security and are afraid to be abandoned. Secure attached or avoidant attached (narcissistic) guys don’t screen women. Their frame is sealed off. If they just want to get laid they will screen for slut test and if they want something serious they test for slut test too. These men can smell a slut from a mile. This is their sixth sense. Masculine containment is just a part of what is really needed for a guy to pass the test. There are far more important stuff which I won’t share here.

I don't want to see my dark side

If angels are not coming out my ass to clean it I’m not doing it.

I don't like the idea of plugging because there is the danger of shitting over my house

There is no systems thinking in Julien's work. In the past his teaching was very masculine, to the point and result based. Nowadays it is very feminine, he just rambles for half a hour without saying anything. I would say he is giving SD orange-green vibes.. I have been to his free event couple of years ago and women were projecting their daddy issues onto him. It was kind of creepy. It gave me Osho vibes.

I'm trying to be less critical to be honest. Ad-hoc criticism is just wasted energy although done with good intentions. It is better to just play along like you and spend my energy on something productive which I'm doing but sometimes I can't help myself lol.