Ben2204

Hi guys, What’s the most important between inner game & outer game ? And why ? Because i think my outer game is more good than the average guy but my inner game is really bad, i don’t know if that can explain my bad results in this moment. What do you think ?

Hi guys, I've hit a rough patch with no results, and now I'm really stuck in this identity of a guy who can't get dates anymore, this identity of a guy who never seems to have anything good happen to him. I'm currently in a seduction mentoring program, and I spend all my time complaining and deliberately messing things up. For example, sometimes I go out and deliberately make bad open to get rejected, or I deliberately leave a conversation that's going well, or when I send the first message and have to suggest a date, I deliberately send a bad message to get ghosted or rejected. And sometimes I even deliberately wait 4-5 days before replying to a woman who seemed interested. So, I'm making more and more approaches, and obviously, nothing changes. Actually, I realize I have a lot of bitterness towards women. I feel like they have a problem with me, like they just want me to suffer. And on the other hand, I'm very attached to this victim mentality, this frustration mentality, and this mentality of proving to others that the game doesn't work for me. How can I break free from this whole thought pattern? Why is this happening to me? How can I stop feeling bitterness towards women?

I don’t know what i should do. I did daygame since 2 years. Few results : 4 fuck close, 60 dates, few kiss close, sometimes i was in their house and i did nothing etc My average is : 3-4 dates every 100 approach In March i got 6 dates in 50 approach but since june, i did 110 approach and nothing. 0 date. 100% ghosting with their phone number. I want result, i want a date but it doesn’t happen. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if i should looksmaxx. I was on a site yesterday for a jawline surgery. I don’t know if it’s my face the problem. Help me please.

In fact, i’m a personal trainer so i’m inshape (12-13% body fat)

Hi everyone, i started daygame 3 weeks ago. Not bad results so far : - 70 cold approaches - 15 closes (instagram closes) - 1 instant date - 2 dates but i’m only performant when i game with a wingman. When i go to game alone i’m literally afraid. Last time i gamed i did 3 approaches in 4 hours… However, the blockages are also there when I am with my wing but I manage not to be paralyzed when he games with me. what can i do to game alone and still performant well ?

It's a weird situation because I have a better level than him and in his presence I feel obliged to show him the example. I think it makes me unconsciously feel good to have someone less good in daygame because if I see him fail I won't ruminate on my own rejections and failures.

Hello everybody, Just wondering how you would do this. I have only had negative experiences with women. Rejections, ghosting etc. Afterwards I don't know if it's huge but from rejections and ghosting I must have had maybe 25 in total. I don't know if that's an insignificant number or if you think it's a lot. So, every time I have the impression that things are going well with a woman I am wary, in my head I say to myself “no, don’t let yourself be fooled, she will reject/ghost you again” I am defensive with every woman I meet and sometimes I even want to take revenge on women who have done nothing to me for the behavior of previous women. For example, there seemed to be a woman interested in me, I took revenge on her by ghosting her for no reason, just to take out all my accumulated frustrations because of women. I would like to start everything from the beginning, have healthy foundations and avoid seeing women as enemies who only seek to harm me by ghosting/rejecting me. And I also have the impression that I only interest women who don’t interest me. How would you do it?

all the women tell me I'm fat and ugly I don't know what to do anymore because most women told me I was a fat and disgusting guy. They said they wanted to vomit as soon as they saw me. this is what i look like : https://ibb.co/Fx8DYgf I no longer want to make an effort to attract them, I even want to become even fat so that they hate me and find me even more disgusting

women have been saying I'm ugly since I was born No women are just mean to me and they like to say that I'm fat and ugly. Hurting me is like a drug for them, they love it

A trap ?

ok you believe what you want, I'm just saying that living with my body and my head is completely horrible and that women are monstrous with me because they don't find me attractive

no I'm not making this up, why would I do all that? why would I make all this up? what is the point ?

yes but it's not even just prostitutes, it's all women on this Earth, they all hate me. they have completely unrealistic criteria, the proof is that all women find me fat and ugly. they only like chad 9/10 bodybuilder

the other day I was at the gym doing my workout, I passed 2 girls and then I heard them laughing saying "did you see how fat the guy who just passed by was" Last week I wanted to try my luck with a colleague. she told me that I was filthy, that no woman would ever want me, that my face made her want to vomit another day I fucked a prostitute, I asked her how she found me, she replied "not very handsome and a little fat" another day I approached a woman in the street, she yelled at me saying that there was no point in approaching her because I was too fat and ugly

I don't understand what you're saying when I click on the link there is just the photo that I put but if you see something else it's not my fault, I didn't know that the site in question also advertised

But I swear I'm not lying the guy in the photo is me (you can compare it with my other topic) I understand that you take me for a troll but what I say is true, lots of women find me fat and ugly

Yes this guy is me but i don’t understand why women tell me i ´m fat

Why do you say that ? Do you question what women do to me?

no no I assure you the women in my town are not nice, especially to me. I constantly get comments about how ugly I am. I've also received a few comments from women who think I'm fat. it's a cry for help because I absolutely don't understand why they are taking it out on me, I don't want to troll at all

Hi everyone I'm new here. I would like to have your advice. I'm a 23 year old guy and I've always been rejected by women. Only rejections, ghosting so far. I've had women who were interested in me before but I did exactly the same thing to them that other women did to me. So I punished innocent women for the behavior of other women. I feel like most women are horrible and unfair to me. I am in a state of hatred towards them. I want to have sexual and romantic relationships with them but I also want revenge for everything they did to me. How to stop feeling resentful towards women? How can we appreciate them despite their behavior?

@lostingenosmazeit is reality all women on Earth find me ugly, fat, disgusting They despise me, they like to reject me nastily

Thank you all for the answers 98% of women have hated me since I was born just because of my appearance. Can you be honest and tell me if my appearance is the problem? https://ibb.co/bFKrWrs https://ibb.co/DfQ9sLt