Tenebroso

Men and Women are lonely for different reasons, why is it a competition.

Commit a crime and watch them flock. Sad but true. My criminal friends are always involved with a woman, the women come to them.

Red Pillers like most men talk a lot but will fold if a pretty woman gives them some attention, single woman or not. Most men don't have the options or clarity to have such specific requirements.

I can't post it. It's literally files of explicit clips of this one politician having sex with 400+ women being shared around the internet. It's made it's way to mainstream news, who knows maybe a documentary will be made. Google the name Baltasar Ebang Engonga.

Are we allowed to share that kind of content here?

Well the universe works in mysterious ways. My own personal sense of lack results in zero women and this politician's lack results in a wife, six children and 400 mistresses. If the 400 women and a wife are just props reflecting back to him what is going on inside, what is having zero women reflecting inside of me?

So he sleeps with that many women because of a sense of lack but why do so many women want to sleep with that one guy? He must have something that women want? If what you say is true, shouldn't women be less attracted to him, men are told that women can sense their desperation and insecurity. Imagine that you are probably right and he will say one day....."I did all these things because of lack and insecurity" or whatever. At least he is speaking from the perspective of experience not theory. It's like a billionaire telling everyone that money is not important, were they saying that when they were young and broke? The average person can't honestly believe that. How can you truly have a mature perspective on abundance and lack if you have never actually managed to experience your desire.

@Ajax Interesting post. However, judging by how women describe their experiences, it does not sound like being a 'giving man' is the x factor that attracts women. They seem to find players and bad boys, who never offer commitment or any kind of emotional closeness irresistible. So is 'giving' really the key?

Well I was thinking about that politician who's sex tapes with 400 women leaked all over social media. In one clip it's him and 4 other women. I can't fathom the confidence that comes from experiencing that level of abundance.

I want to sleep with hundreds of women and be a player. That would be success to me.

@Dauntment LOL accurate

Why do you assume stage green women would not be interested in one night stands and bad boys?

@hoodrow trillson What's the difference between kind and nice? Seems the nice/kind goalpost is always moving.

Sometimes it feels like everything we do is wrong or can be interpreted as malevolent My impression is that attraction is nothing to do with being good or bad, it's about looks, status and chemistry. If you are attractive, then everything you is interpreted positively, while people assume the worst about unattractive people.

@Princess Arabia Your right, maybe I am overthinking and confusing myself, I sense your impatience with me.

I was responding to Javfly33's video but I think you are right. "Or are you saying women that you don't know but desire should want you to desire them" I needed to read this to step out of my box and see it from the woman's point of view. However, if I find someone attractive am I meant to hide it??

So our desires as males are wrong and unwanted. It feels like women regard male desire as a burden.

I don't think men NEED to sleep with 20+ women but the men I know who get laid the most seem to be less neurotic and anxious. I think women feel that lack of anxiety and interpret it as a signal of safety, regardless of how safe the actual man is and I think this why bad boys can do so well. When you don't get laid and you are out there trying, it feels like the stakes increase with every encounter. That's why although positive thinking and attempting to feel confident are good things, without tangible results, it is difficult to cultivate that ease around women that players naturally exude.

So you have to believe you are worthy of an attractive woman and that self image gets reflected back to you in how she responds to you? What do you mean when you say average looking guys are the target? Why would they be the target?

Very relevant to the world today. When she spoke about Marilyn Monroe, she could have been speaking about the infinite number of IG Model's and their adoring followers. Both the follower and the adored feel empty, the latter because men only see the surface and the former because the feminine becomes this unattainable object. Also when she spoke about the balance of the masculine and feminine, the male reaction to the new female independence, she could have been speaking about the Red Pill/MGTOW movements.

I think in 2024, Chico the model is considered by far the most attractive He has almost become the standard for young men to aspire to. Women, including older women seem to be looking for more feminine, pretty looking men. I am the exact same age as Chico, born the same year and I observe guys with his look always doing well with women. One thing I have noticed however is that the prettiest most feminine women are the ones more attracted to the more masculine looking men, with hard features.

Reading the sentence, I had a feeling you was talking about Hegre because it's the best example of conscious, healthy porn and I can't think of anything similar. Their videos have a completely different energy to most well known porn companies. It seems judging by your story that if you pay attention to the right details, you increase the frequency of synchronicities that are aligned with your needs and wants. I am a bit of a day dreamer, it takes a lot of effort for me to pay close attention to something and when I do it is often things that don't serve me.

I will give you a tip in terms of high consciousness porn. Hegre Art, you will thank me later. Also hardcore stuff is not low consciousness as long as everyone is consenting. Humans are horny and physical, we shouldn't deny it. I feel no shame in watching Amateur Femdom spanking lol

I have what some may say is an unhealthy obsession with attraction. I have to say this is easily one of the best, if not the best video I have seen on the subject. There seems to be a tug of war between our lower and higher selves. Her explanation makes me more sympathetic towards women. So base level of consciousness is based more on sexual tension that is produced between opposites and survival but survival looks slightly different for everyone. Many people are stuck at this level of consciousness. I can see how more dominant men fulfill a need for women at this stage of consciousness. The more we grow, the more nuanced attraction becomes. The unconscious goal of humans overall is to reach wholeness so we seek sometimes healthy but sometimes destructive relationships with the goal getting what we need to reach this sense of oneness. It's almost mathematical, x is some ever elusive wholeness and we look to combine with another person to reach x. Our idea of the divine will be reflected in what we seek in others. Ironically the more developed and whole a person is the less they need another person to complete them. Attraction becomes more complicated because you are not responding to the body but to the needs of your souls and karmic journey, maybe this explains why we see some unusual couple pairings. Trauma also plays less of a role at later stages of development, I guess because you become less identified with the body and this particular lifetime. As you increase in consciousness you might still be attracted to people at lower levels of consciousness to remain grounded. Specific types represent a specific medicine. We are either attracted to our high self/divine image or we are attracted to our wounding. If we develop but are still attracted to the same types in our previous state then we might be stuck in a Karmic Loop. Maybe this is why so many women can't shake off the attraction to the bad boy. Women were oppressed from the beginning of the industrial age to basically the 1970s and they perhaps developed a collective spiritual and psychological stockholm syndrome where they want to throw the patriarchal shackles on the surface but are deeply drawn to the the shadow of masculinity. So smart, self aware women today are confused when they meet a nice, seemingly harmless, pleasant man and they feel nothing because he does nothing to trigger her wound which needs to be healed. Interesting that she says that the collective is dealing with age 15 type attraction. Matches what I see, all the discussions about modern dating dynamics are very base level. I have to include myself, I am still internally stuck trying to heal the rejected 15 year old wound, a girl school at predicted I would always struggle with women and she was right. I also find I am nearly always attracted to very dominant, strong women and the few positive experiences with women have always been older, smarter and dominant. I find more passive, introverted women tend not to like me at all. It probably doesn't take long for them to figure out that I cannot help them integrate, if they are at the lower levels of consciousness. I love the way she explains things. Our attraction is always aligned with our specific developmental curriculum. So it is important to look beneath the surface and figure out the symbolism of what you are attracted to and why, it will tell you a lot about yourself. So they key is the search for balancing and this balance can be reached through responding to our soul/higher self/divine image, karmic cycle or trauma. Also the balance of masculine and feminine. Next time I meet a woman I am attracted to, I am going to ask myself....What does she need? What is her level of consciousness? Am I her medicine? lol......Am I her next step in consciousness? The most evolved people often don't have partners because they have become so balanced. It's a bit of a catch 22 because at lower levels of consciousness you kind have to hope that your need to integrate matches with another persons needs but at higher levels it becomes so subtle and layered that two people who could be great for each other miss each other. Like attracts like as you raise in consciousness. When we are focused on soothing our wounds we seek it's opposite. What we find highly attracted in another is either a quality we have in ourselves or a potential. That explains my attraction to the most extroverted, uninhibited, confident alpha women who happen to usually be nicer to me than other women although I have yet to actually manage to get into a relationship with one but maybe I should pursue this type more confidently and they are looking for me, just maybe. She admits it's kind of complicated, that was a lot to take in for a 34 minute video had to listen very carefully the second time. This is a bit of a mess, sorry to anyone who has to read this.

Very interesting, I am going to listen a second time before I express my opinion. You seem to be a one stop encyclopedia for all things esoteric. Thanks for sharing.