Ramanujan

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  1. you should go for a 9-5 job and do self improvment on the side. having your livelihood dependent entirely on self improvment mean , you have a lot to lose and you twist and turn some things so as not to lose money . you twist some things because you would lose money , which hurt some people. i got hurt very badly by some of your content. pretty sure there are others who got hurt because of this. if you have a 9-5 job , you can say anything you want and you are free to pursue whatever you want to your fullest level on the side
  2. Nop. Dont delete. Control your urges. Its possible
  3. i go for a 9-5 job and do my life purpose on the side. best strategy for me
  4. his area of expertise is "social skills" realm. he has no business being in "success " category. he is not qualified to give advise on success. his advice on success are shit.
  5. if all the experienced memebers leave , then we are left with only retards
  6. yeah . its full of NFs. spiritual paths are dominated by NFs . i got emotionally addicted. and once i got addicted , they start asking for my self improvment knoweldge. took 7 months to recover. need to read you book on cult and your videos. fucking hell spiritual paths are dominated by NFs. they are smooth talkers
  7. i got scammed pretty badly by a discord cult. i got emotionally abused pretty badly . it took 7 months to recover didnt watch leos material on cult
  8. look into stephen covey or david allen or bryan tracy. their teachings are practical
  9. yup. we are weak. i only care about defending myself from others. i will learn martial art. other than that , i dont care much about Se
  10. dont shitpost. also dont get addicted.
  11. Leo is good on theoretical side of self improvment. for practical side of self improvment , other teachers are good
  12. maybe because you are too noobie and people who give you advice are real pros
  13. well said. i dont care much about Se. i only care about defending myself from others. i get exploited by higher Se types. i need to defend myself physically. i plan to do a martial art for 30 min a day . i dont care much beyond that. currently i do Se only once per week yup. well said i wanna defend myself. thats all i care about in Se. fuck Se.
  14. @Joseph Maynor does life getter with age as an INFJ. are you now able to deal with poor Se
  15. i live in a 3rd world. its a taboo to do dating. i tried to use friendship with other men to solve my loneliness. it worked for some time. but there are some problems. like some see me as a backup friend. some see me as a side friend , a side charecter in their life . it was managable. but once they got married , they started avoiding me. they choose a pussy they met one year ago over me so i am back to square 1. no friends. not enough social skills. the pain of loneliness is absolutely unbearable. i start crying some day will getting a girl friend cure my loneliness. i know game take a while to learn. i am a game noobie. although i am an arm chair pickup artist is getting a girlfriend different from having male friends for your loneliness. does it cure loneliness
  16. fuck victor frankl. his story is too good to be true. he probably fabricated his story. fuck his book success is complicated there is one school of self improvment called law of attraction . it has its pros and cons. its own practitioners . with its pros and flaws then there is another school of self improvment called deliberate practice . by anders ericsoon. it has it pros and cons. like no one got successful from that school. many burned out there is another school of self improvment by stephen covey . another by david allen another by jack canfield some say to follow your passion. which has its pros and cons. like india only have IT Industry to provide job. i fucking hate this school of self improvment. succes is a complicated topic. many legends came up with many ideas. no one has it fully figured it out. there are a lot of things waiting to be discovered. its a new field. i would say self improvment is not even in a decent level most self improvment book , if you follow it in a wrong field , you will perform worse than those who do not use any self improvment book
  17. @Rishabh R many things in the topic "how to be successful" has not been discovered yet Philosophy is different from "how to be successful" topic
  18. @Ajay0 bro Dont be so idealistic. It will fuck you up Self help is a new field. Its not there yet on many things. Enough things are not discovered yet. A lot of things are not discovered yet
  19. Andrew tate = ESTP but he has more social skills than an average ESFP Rollo tomassi = INTJ But he has more social skills than an average feeler Although its best to self actualize on your strengths, you can improve your weakness too to a decent degree
  20. i read the redpill 8 years ago. i hated female nature. i didnt do the required things to get woman. didnt do much game and gym. i moved to MGTOW. but realised that i hate loneliness. i dont wanna be alone. but on the other hand , handling woman take astronomical amount of work these days. like they try to take your money on divorce , shit test , cheating , hypergamy , manipulation , mind games , etc etc is redpill holding me back. i do think redpill = timeless truth . redpill is not wrong. but i didnt do much . because i also became a mgtow. wasted 8 years instead of developing game and muscles
  21. there is a book called "i am that" by nisargadatta maharaj
  22. woman want 6feet tall guy with 6 pack and 6 inch di and 6 figure salary