Spiritual Warrior

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It's important to integrate stage orange before doing serious spiritual work. If you pursue tier two without first becoming wealthy and developing a good work ethic, you're spiritual practices will be half baked. Understand that becoming wealthy is a natural part to a human beings evolution. Pursue money and sex, experience the limitations of both, then transcend into more selfless endeavors.

This is very untrue. Try to extract this limiting belief out of your system. Women are much more attracted to a mans masculine nature, his sense of humor, and his drive. The issue is that you cannot display these traits through a dating app, so a woman has nothing else to go on other than looks, so she picks the most attractive men to match with.

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Talking to multiple girls is an emotionally taxing endeavor

That's fair. And you're right, I do not have children.

Interact with as many 9s and 10s that you possibly can. Eventually, you will become numb to their beauty and not be intimidated anymore.

I hate the terminology that you used, but I think I understand the distinction that you're trying to make The "pussy" is like a piece of string, always willing to be swayed and redirected in order to please his girl. The girl is able to play with him like a cat. The "dick" is like a broomstick, solid and stable. He has boundaries, respects his own self worth and his own needs. He cares about his woman deeply but he will not sacrifice these things for her. In conclusion, be a broomstick, not a piece of string.

The best path to take is to get mass experience with lots of girls first. At some point during this journey, you will fall in love with one girl and you'll want to make her your girlfriend. DO NOT game your girlfriend, that is terrible advice. Just love her.

With that attitude, you're right.. you will never find her.

I've been thinking the same thing for years. The best way to deal with pedophiles is with compassion and acceptance and a genuine intention to help. They are human beings just like you and me. As a matter of fact, they are you. And you are them.

Stage yellow The simple act of looking to integrate the lower stages of the spiral is a stage yellow behavior. You are zooming out and then setting your life up accordingly.

This song is a masterpiece It's about a young man growing up in Compton, California, a stage red environment. It's very dangerous. Everyone is struggling just to survive. At the end of the song, there is a skit in which the young man is angry and holding a gun. The wise mother talks him down and points him to the direction of God. The young man calms down and starts to pray. This is the transcendence of red to blue. Skit Son: Fuck, I'm tired of fuckin running... Mother: Young man, come talk to me... Is that what I think that is (looking at the gun in her son's hand)... I know that's not what I think that is. Why are you so angry? See you young men are dying of thirst. Do you know what that means? That means, you need water, holy water. You need to be baptized with the spirit of the lord. Do you want to receive God as your personal savior? Okay repeat after me... Everyone: Lord god, I come to you a sinner. And I humbly repent for my sins. I Believe that Jesus is lord. I believe you raised him from the dead. I will ask that Jesus come into my life to be my lord and savior. I receive Jesus to take control of my life. And that I may live for him from this day forward. Thank you lord Jesus for saving me with your precious blood. In Jesus' name, Amen. Mother: Alright now, remember this day. The start of a new life. Your real life. Think about this from the young mans perspective The young man sees death all around him, his friends and family have died from gang violence, all he knows is survival, survival at all cost. He is capable of love, but his own survival comes first, he has to be selfish in order to survive, very selfish. Now his mother comes to him and offers a different path, the path of God. The young man decides to put his faith into God, he intuits that there is something to this religion thing. It makes him feel good about his situation.

Just because you see the limitations of stage red does not mean that you are ready to transcend it. Again, you can't move around the stages, you must move through them, embrace it, surrender to it.

What the fuck happened to this idea. This was back in March. Im no where close to being ready for the quantum leap, it's funny you thought you were. I still have so much to learn and do and have. I want to master my finances. I want to master my dance. I want to master my teachings. I want to master my relationships. I want to master my sexuality. I will be grinding on these things for the next 10 years. Then I'll be ready to transcend. Don't rush your way to the top. Take in every stage as if you're sipping red wine. Savior it, let it marinate in your mouth.

What is spiral dynamics on a sexual level? Red is overcome with sexual desire. Sex is everything to red. Orange enjoys sex and has broadened its horizons enough to not be overcome by it like red. Green is able to be very feminine but does still enjoy the more animalistic sex. Green starts using sex for its own general wellbeing. Yellow uses sex to improve its health. Turquoise doesn't need sex.

This is total bullshit. I was very selfish in my relationship I had selfish desires I wanted to have more sex I wanted to have sex with other people I wanted my freedom back I want to focus my full attention on my dancing and I saw her as a distraction I had selfless intentions as well I always wanted her to feel protected and safe I wanted her to feel good I wanted her to enjoy herself I wanted her to accomplish anything that she wanted in life I respected her as an individual I cared about her emotions

There is this girl at my work that is the most beautiful creature I have ever met in my life. I cannot act normally around her and I'm constantly thinking about where she is in the room, if she's looking at me, etc... I'm honestly not interested in this girl as a romantic partner, all I want to do is act normally around her so that I feel more comfortable at work. If I am constantly thinking about her looking at me, then I must really care about what she thinks about me. That must be the root issue, but I'm just not sure how to deal with it. Any advice?

I could also frame this as I am integrating my full masculinity as well. Masculinity embodies domination and conquering, being assertive, to be willing to sacrifice, to be willing to face fear in the faith and say bring it the fuck on.

Integrating Stage Red This is not stage orange, I'm not calm. Im mad. Im very passionate. I'm very motivated. I feel like an animal. And I want to feel like an animal. What people don't understand is that this is a normal feeling for a human being to go through. This is what spiral dynamics teaches us. I want to dominate. I want to conquer. And that is natural. I love it right now. I do not care what others think of me. I do not care what others think of me. Engrain this into your brain. My ultimate goal is to fully transcend into tier two, stage yellow. This will happen when I own my own dance studio, then I will have to look at the dance studio as a system. But first, in order to be able to transcend into stage yellow, I have to first exhaust all of my material desires at the lower stages, mainly sex and money for now. Then I will have to check out stage blue again and stage green again to see if I missed anything there. It's about being a fully integrated human being at this point for me.

I'm not lost, this is how a stage red character thinks and at this stage of my life, I want to integrate this stage fully. I've been deprived of sex for 29 years of my life. Now I want to dominate and conquer this issue. A healthy stage red is able to tackles his goals while still abiding by morals and ethics that do not intend on hurting others. Eventually, of course I will transcend this but as of right now, this is the path that I must take.

The feminine wants to have beautiful things, it wants to be happy, it wants beauty, it wants love. The feminine desires to surrender to the masculine. The masculine wants to have things, it wants to hunt, it wants to gather, it wants to fight, it wants to dominate, it wants to conquer. The masculine desires to surrender to the feminine.

The masculine vs the feminine A man wants to please his woman. If he doesn't feel like he is pleasing her, he will leave. A woman wants to feel desired. If she doesn't feel desired by her man, she will leave.

I broke up with my girlfriend because I wasn't getting enough sex. It's really that simple. I want more sex in my life and I will find it elsewhere.