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Tbh I am insecure about texting a girl fast back I have been texting back faster but I think I might come across as well more invested I suppose . It's early on , I don't know if it's a turn off for most girls .. or if it varies or if it comes across as needy or soemting

@Recursoinominado everyone around you is engaging in genocide and denying it my friend . No need to pick on Ed Sheeran

@AION can you describe a time when you have been shit tested by a guy

@Olaf also you didn't reply to my comment in another fread . Do you feel worth very attractive women and also in terms of being worth them in dating market value ?

@Olaf that sounds like a really good idea . Fucking do it

@Joseph Maynor nop but also I like it

I feel like if I lined up 5000 women of the hottest women to have sex with me then I feel I would be worth that . The worth doesn't feel egotistical and boastful . I think also every woman is worth the 5000 hottest men as well . Its just self worth , looking at low self worth within ourselves and becoming aware of it and naturally changing to be like actually yes I am worth this and these people . Actually no I am not going to feel that way about myself , and I think the more self development work you do and higher integrity and kindness to yourself , the more you will feel with spirit that I am worth things and I have worth but not over or more than anyone else . This is the place to get to . This is took me socially to a whole other degree . This is confidence . My eye contact naturally just became amazing and also yeah interacting with women I find very attractive , the confidence there . It's amazing , more to say and get clear on

I think letting go on a regular basis resolves resisting perceptions of what other people think of you so naturally you become more authentic and also masculine . So get on that

@Olaf I don't think you have to be unkind . Simply stop caring and resisting being perceived in bad ways by lots of people , and naturally that confidence will be expressed to people in your actions and demeanor . You will be a bad boy in that way because sometimes you won't care if people see you as bad , and your authentic actions could really make you look that way . Also confidence is self worth . If you don't feel worth these girls or very attractive girls then confidence is not a thing . Have you done inner work to where you truly feel worth these girls as a dating partner ( including extremely hot ones ) on principle that you just are worth them because you just are . I think I had low self worth in this aspect in terms of these women . And changing this was fucking huge . That's where the confidence is . To me it hasn't seemed like you have that self worth where you feel you are truly worth them as a dating partner . I would focus all my energy at looking at that first and foremost if that's the case because that's where the confidence is . But I also think you might have to change other parts of your life to have that self worth potentially . And also getting that self worth means looking at the fact that you could actually not be worth them ( which there is fear for me or was ) . Also letting go on a regular basis I think is a legendary pull of a technique . Firstly it meant that I would cold approach with such confidence because I wasn't resisting fear of being perceived in certain ways , I think it's made me more bold , and brave and like I said a bad boy in a way . And it was what made it that I don't care what people think of me . The practise diminishes fear . I would so so recommend that you implement letting go of small things on a regular basis . Because it sounds like you resist perceptions of what people think of you . And letting go on a regular basis implemented I think resolved that and turns you into a man That's coming from me and what I would say , so best of luck sir

Less masturbation = more horny / more sexual energy / drive = more motivation to approaching and more drive to do so . = It being easier in a way and happens more Does anyone else think this , or has anyone seen this ?

When you implement letting go then you go from Walter White in season one to Walter White in season 5 lolll . Where he gives less and less of a fuhh each season .

My foundation for epistemology and truth seeking is not very high at all . I am 23 , I don't want to be screwed in life . I would rather develop and give time to actually desiring truth and developing my epistemology day by day as is said . So , honestly how much time do I need to invest starting from now , 4 hours a day ? Is 1 one hour a day okay . I'm guessing the more the better .. and that I have a fuck ton of catching up to do to since I am at the point of foundation years for my life , as has been described .

Well tbh . In my own experience I have seen that , if you don't masturbate I go to look to have sex with women . At least if I think there are open opportunities and opportunities to create some . Where is if I am not then ... There is not a strong emphasis to go and do that , or maybe I would do that anyway now that world should be open to me , but gotta see for myself . But I don't know if me mastuabting less = a stronger drive to approach / making it easier to approach it those are the same thing

@niko123 hmm thank you for your response . I hear you of course . What's your personal relationship to it ?

@Leo Gura what do you think ? And thank you

Lol , I am your Uber driver is funny though

I want to say that getting clarity changed everything for me . This is how I have sorted things out in my life , and In dating it's been THE FUCKING SAME . I think if you are out doing pickup but you are not clear on core things or doing the process to get it , red fucking flag . I feel this is the core , the core of the process . GET CLEAR . I wasted lots of time ' doing pickup ' without getting clear on things . Big mistake , except for that fact that it taught me the importance of getting clear which is : questioning , processing , contemplating I spent time getting clear and now my dating life is fucking fixed and pretty .

I know I got you . I think my social calibration is perfectly fine . I am more concerned about all the letting go I am doing and being unaware of new territories but just confidently walking in lolll , but no joke

So I have had it where I have approached women I have found very attractive with 100 confidence and it is an amazing feeling . I didn't realise that , that could be a permanent implementation . My dating life HAS FUCKING TRANSFORMED . ITS BEEN INSANE . Well everything else in my life has so this was the last dragon to slay . What happened was I implemented letting go / going outside my comfort zone to a certain standard every week . IT IS Fucking CRUCIAL FOR THAT LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE - in terms of me naturally just approaching a girl at the cafe I work at because of the amount of letting go I do in my life . Like I just fucking knew I would do , I could just tell , I felt the emotions and that's when you know . The thing is when you do this system of letting go , you naturally face your OLD fears . You just naturally do and effortlessly . It's incredible . it's powerful . It's wonderful . To me it's fucking magical . I love it . Thank you , thank you . Thank you so much Leo for all the influence you have had on me . But anyway yes the feeling I have had about myself has been amazing . So part of the letting go was that it helped me reach a level of high integrity that myself has really wanting to get to . And man with this level of integrity for me , I have really gotten more self worth from it . So yes with a catalog of positive traits to choose from to build my self esteem and self worth , that was the starting position for me to try to slay this final dragon . And also , from the fucking confidence I already had from letting go . I was already confident but there are levels , which I think is to say more so that there are things you aren't confident about . For example with all the letting go , I stopped resisting the things I wasn't confident about hence more confidence reached . But yes also my approach came from just contemplation / telling myself the truth of the situation and trying to figure out the truth of what I can do and actually change . And eventually I was processing my own perspectives and my relationship of low self worth to women , and then my intuition said you can have her , you can have all of them , which was a statement of self worth it . And also it wasn't just for women , my inner voice said you are worth all of them including just people ( not as in am worth more than others ) . So this self worth I have now , this this this this this this this this . This.. this self worth in relation to people is what has given me that extra level of confidence in socialising . And it really is extra , it's incredible . As someone who has always been perceived as very confident socialising , I really had no idea this new level of confidence + socialising even existed . It's also fucking amazing and I cannot believe it . So my dating advice yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes and my advice life in general yes . Is - be high integrity - look at your self worth in relationship to people and in everything and what it hinges upon - doing letting go to a certain standard every week

Lol , maybe it would have been good to feel my emotions instead of posting this out of insecurity bahahh

@Inliytened1 hmm indeed and not just women . Do you think the women with men who's self esteem isn't high but not necessarily low , don't feel secure ?

@LordFall too far down the route of showing sexual expression ? As in being uncalibrated ?

@Olaf Thank you Mr Olaf

Approaching women now comes from authenticity and naturalness . I see her and I naturally want to approach and think something could happen and then because of the letting go I fucken do . So natural . Whereas before going around in pickup A) sometimes that desire to approach wasn't there , but the expectation was B) I wasn't doing enough letting go C) I didn't actually think something could happen weirdly enough because of how unconscious my process was , and my lack of processing and contemplating anything . Before it was coming up with my own ideas of what to do , getting excited , having expectations , trying them . Succeeding and failing , but being completely unaware of what I was actually doing and why . I didn't realise that what I wanted all along was this . A healed relationship in terms of this self worth yes yes yes yes .. and that's it , well and the ability to escalate , which is the same as letting my sexual expression out . My sexual expression wanted to come out to be seen .

I learnt that for some reason ( fear , it was fear ) I have been hiding my sexual expression towards women FOR FUCKING YEARS . That is fucking unbelievable . So the first thing I mentally changed was always putting it on the table for everyone to see .