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Everything posted by Basman
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Don't be so down bad to meet a former acquaintance of 28 years. Its weird and a little unhinged. If you randomly get a chance, then sure, but don't try to push for a particular outcome. You school teacher has probably has had a semi-intimate contact with hundreds of children. Its just her job. Its not important that you meet her again.
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I think the reason why rape feels more heinous than murder to people is that it is especially upsetting to have ones sexual boundaries crossed for one, in addition to the sense of helplessness and injustice that accompanies rape. Finding justice for a murder is much more straightforward because of the objective evidence of a death compared to a rape, which is essentially he-said-she-said in most cases. A sense of injustice creates strong negative emotions. Killing can be just and justice is more straightforward to find. Therefor murder doesn't have the same emotional charge as rape. I can't think of any times where rape is just. The only way for us to mend injustice is by being better people. We realized that rape is a crime for a start.
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In "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover, a Nice Guy is defined as someone who doesn't feel safe or acceptable to be who they are. Its a paradigm of hiding ones flaws and becoming what you think others want you to be. Being approval seeking of woman will tend to create resentment because they inevitably fail to respond how you want them to. I think the growing resentment guys have towards women online is at least partially due to inexperience and a sense of inadequacy.
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What are some examples of high paying teaching jobs? And, what is your current position, if you don't mind me asking?
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Is teaching as bad as they say? In terms of pay, work-life balance, etc? I have a teacher's bone in me but I've largely wrote it off as a career because I heard so much bad about it.
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Once you discover the ART that is hentai, there is no going back to seeing porn as merely an outlet. Porn can be artistic and even beautiful. A regular porno is decrepit compared to a hentai master's stroke (decrepitness has a quality of its own however). A master artist like Hirame makes the Mona Lisa blush (out of shame).
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Broscience. In my experience, you just end up stressing over not touching yourself. The basic three; sleep, diet and exercise effect your focus and state way more whether or not you touch yourself. I'm so glad that I woke up from the nofap dream. Nofap is a cottage industry and an ideological cult built on pseudoscience that appeals to religiosity, conservative views on sexuality and men's shame of their own sexuality. It feeds people with magical thinking about sex and fapping. As if masturbating or not will have any serious effect on your life besides the time spent doing it. Also, I'm glad to report that masturbating regularly has no effect on my general horniness. If anything, I've only gotten hornier as I gradually turn into a balding piggy old man with every year that passes.
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Don't be in such a rush. Its normal to go through complicated emotions following a traumatic incident like this.
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Your probably just not over this incident quiet yet. There are a bunch of things you could try but I think it'll primarily get better with time.
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Generally, rape is not worse than death. You can't heal from being dead. And people respond differently to sexual trauma. Some break while others just kind of get over it more or less. There even exist rare freaks out there who are into getting raped. Degenerates on both sides of the aisle. But there are different degrees of rape. Being raped to death is probably worse than just dying in a battle. When women kill themselves and their children in lieu of an impending loss they aren't afraid of being raped once by a single guy but getting raped repeatedly, enslaved and abused till they keel over dead. Have their tendons cut so they can't escape, etc. There's value in severe exploitation like rape and slavery for the exploiter in ways that can't be exercised on members of the in-group because it wouldn't be possible to have a functioning society otherwise. Ethnic conflict is the height of self-justification to exploit and abuse people not part of your tribe.
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Its not really about holding people accountable as much as it is about the catharsis of tearing someone down. There are plenty of rich people who have done much worse but they never get singled out because they are more or less anonymous. Drama slop and smear campaigns is just a business. This doesn't even really affect the career of someone like MrBeast anyway at the end of the day. He'll keep making his money. Soon enough, people will move on like nothing even happened. Its like when an bull elephant starts to grow weak and little vultures starts to pick at it with ever increasing voracity and boldness until the bull finally falls and they just go to town with it. Too insignificant and weak to kill a bull so they prey on the moment it shows weakness.
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True. Its worth reading certain books multiple times.
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The current state of social media is so voraciously drama hungry. Like a flock of vultures, as soon as someone who is in the famous or interesting to talk about slips up, you immediately get put on blast. People didn't like MrBeast because he's rich in his early 20s and where just waiting for a reason. Any reason to feel superior. It is no wonder people like to put this pious and morally high-strung appearance on the internet. Such a nasty atmosphere.
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I think the worst thing you can criticizing MrBeast's behavior for is manipulating young children and neurodivergent people with gambling tactics. "Watch my stream and you might win a Lambo", etc. His chocolate only sells because of his Willy Wonka ticket scheme. Its essentially gambling for kids.
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Basman replied to CARDOZZO's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I think people find the word "alien" distracting and it makes them think of Paul. Wouldn't "non-human" consciousness be more accurate? -
Polarity is attractive. If you are plenty masculine already your life would probably be enriched by the beauty and softness of femininity.
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The best self-help book is the one you learn from and more importantly the one who's concepts and advice you integrate into your life. Mastery is a great book because its concept is relatively simple but impactful (long-term effort and reward > short-term effort and reward). In my experience, you only really integrate one or two concepts/advice from any given book read. Mastery is mostly all about just this one concept.
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Reddit is such a cesspool of group think and censorship. Yeah, a lot of users here think they are a lot smarter than they really are but at least they don't have the power to effectively silence others over simple disagreements.
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This topic kind of reads like a bisexual projecting their orientation unto the world.
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The crux of the matter is just overinflated expectations in my opinion. Tech bros spin up hype to garner investment and we are still learning how to exactly use this technology in practice. The possibilities are not actually endless but they can appear such with a little imagination. We might be starting to cross the peak of overinflated expectations right now.
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I find it fascinating how a lot of diseases or symptoms of diseases are essentially the body acting on itself. I love that analogy relating to these orgs.
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There are a lot of low hanging fruit that the American government could implement to raise the standard of their police. For instance, there is no federally mandated training minimum. Bad and corrupt policing is due to a lack of resources and investment into quality policing in my opinion. People tend to meet the bare minimum of the standard set for them.
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If voting didn't matter than the UK wouldn't have left the EU. Brexit was terrible for business and was the result of nationalistic and xenophobic fervor.
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Some people are attracted to animals. Does that mean that everyone who is not openly into bestiality is just lacking experience/being close minded?
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How do you tell if someone is worth marrying? Or vice-versa, when is marrying a trap?
