Lila9

Come on. You are policing men by calling them gay for not being part of your patriarchal toxic masculinity cult. This is so pathetic and outdated, dude. Grow up.

This is not true. Men are even more toxic toward other men. Yes, they have the bro code, but it is shallow and very hierarchical, and the only purpose of this bro club is to exclude women and other marginalized groups to keep the control and the power in their hands, rather than actually connecting to their humanness and forming genuine connection. Otherwise, men wouldn’t complain about the loneliness epidemic. Women usually develop better relationships with each other, deeper ones, because women are usually more emotionally intelligent. Men are not that emotionally intelligent because of male privilege, which allows them to survive in society and receive all their human rights while being immature idiots. Haha, and dude, women can always learn to do male jobs. Stop sharing the same cherry picked video I have seen you incels share over and over again as if it means something. Men's job is a matter of skill. Yes, it may be more difficult due to a different physique, but women are quick learners and good leaders. Even science says so. https://www.forbes.com/sites/kevinkruse/2023/03/31/new-research-women-more-effective-than-men-in-all-leadership-measures/ Most of male dominated professions like science and tech deliberately exclude women (by hostile behavior towards them) due to mysogeny and fear because they know that once women will feel free to enter those fields, these insecure males are doomed. You and your friends actually need to start learning real leadership skills from women rather than looking up to immature idiots you worship, who teach you nothing but exploit you shamelessly, and you accept it like the submissive idiots you are. That’s why many men have unconscious resentment of women. Women have lots of power given by nature, and insecure, weak men like yourself always try (with stupid passion) to destroy women, to take their rights, because this is the only way you can deal with women: by taking their rights. You FEAR equality. Women are so powerful that you need to take their human rights in order to feel good in yourself. You, the “non-emotional” men, are actually very emotional, it turns out. Insecurity, hatred of women, entitlement, anger, grandiosity are emotions, fyi. Society is controlled by lunatic men, and it hurts everyone, including you, and if you don’t understand it, I’m sorry, I don’t know how to help you.

Men are those who do dick measuring, competing with other men because of ego. And women are forced to compete with other women in order to survival In the patriarchy, but competition is not a feminine thing. If we are a matriarchal society, why the most powerful people in society are men? Where are our powerful matriarchs?

Where did the assumption that the feminine cares less about truth than the masculine come from? Who did you hear that from, and why do you view this as truth? Who does this belief serve? How is this weaponized? I suspect that there is an underlying dark motivation behind this assumption (an ego stroke) rather than actually seeking the truth. Is this your sneaky ego trying to feel superior to women? Maybe deep down you also fear your feminine side. If you truly cared about truth, this assumption alone wouldn't satisfy you. You would need to question everything, always. If people don't automatically accept your assumptions as truth, it is actually a good sign and not something to be intimidated by. Did you fantasize that you could just approach people who have different life experiences than yours, who may be in a survival mindset, with a random radical assumption, and that they would accept you as their messiah or something? Just because some guru says that reality is a hallucination says nothing to me, even if what he says is true. I should think for myself. Unless I experience something that convinces me that this is the case, I should remain suspicious but open. If I am provided with math solutions, I am not satisfied. I want to solve them on my own. I want to be immersed in the process. This is more interesting. Someone may provide me with a general guide on how to solve math problems, but I want to arrive at the solution myself. This would be more reliable for me. Anyone can hand me a solution to a difficult math problem, but they could lie about it, solve it incorrectly, or be grandiose, so why should I trust their solution? Let me solve it on my own, and then we will see.

Probably ETs or with their help. There is some evidence that science rejects because it is "irrational".

How feminism can be authority if the world is still controlled by patriarchal values? By competition? By heraechy? By men being mostly in power?

OK Lila, enough Actualized.org for today or for the next year/s. This place is not for me.

Ideally, there aren’t supposed to be people who are rich to this extent, especially when there are people whose basic needs aren’t met or are barely met. That’s sick. It reminds me of a tale… About Lao Tzu, who was the chief of justice of the supreme court in China. This decision was made by the emperor of China, even though Lao Tzu denied it at first because he knew that he was not suitable for the court. His first case was of a poor man who was accused of stealing money from the richest man in China (richer than the emperor of China). Lao Tzu gave the verdict of six months in jail for both the poor man and the rich man. Everyone was shocked, haha, especially the rich man. He was the one who was robbed, so why did he have to go to jail? Lao Tzu explained to him that he sees deeper. The poor man stole from the rich man because the rich man hoarded all the wealth of the land, taking from many and depriving the community. The rich man’s greed forced people into theft. So he, the rich man, is the primary criminal, while the poor man is secondary. The tale ended with the emperor concluding that Lao Tzu was too deep and too wise for the court and releasing him from his duty.

It is difficult. It is better to avoid as much as possible and protect your peace. Most of humanity is not at the level of loving horrible people, and that’s OK. Even normal people who did nothing to them may be disliked for silly and selfish reasons, like hair color, accent, social status, gender, ideology, etc. Most people’s hearts are not that big because most of the time humans operate from a low vibrational state (beta waves), which is good for analyzing things, logic, and survival in the modern world, but is not enough for acceptance, love, and connection. When we are really open to love and accept others, our consciousness operates on alpha waves. We can get there through relaxation and meditation. Then we are more open to others, our hearts are more open, we are more able to accept, we are less likely to judge, we are more prone to listen and truly curious about others, we truly want to understand them, and we love them. However, there are cons to this, because when it is misused, we are more vulnerable to suggestion and manipulation. I have heard that the marketing industry is very aware of this and uses various techniques in its commercials to make our brains enter an alpha state so we are more likely to listen to and observe their ads. We are also very vulnerable when our brain in the theta brain waves state, which is a deep mediative state. This is also the state we enter when we are hypnotized. Anyway, I realized that regardless of the state of my brain, loving is a conscious choice. While it is not human to love everyone always, we can always strive to be more loving and make loving choices. And we can also control our brain waves once we are conscious of it: Sometimes we experience mystical experiences that make us feel like we love everything, but they are temporary. If we ever love everyone, this should come naturally, not by force, and there is no need to feel guilty about it if we are not as loving as we believe the ideal spiritual person should be. I have a ritual of love meditation to wind down. It is very simple but very effective at both entering alpha/theta brain waves and connecting to God. I imagine a big divine LOVE light inside me, growing from my heart chakra, expanding to my body, my home, my town, the country, the continent, the entire planet Earth, the entire galaxy, and the entire universe(s). Every place it expands to, it nurtures with love, unconditional love for everything that exists, for existence itself. The feeling at the end of it is amazing.

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Female genitalia is a womb, a void, a dark space. Dark space is nothingness, it is the soil on which everything can grow and be created. INFINITE potential. This is literally the most powerful thing. Without it, there is no life. If the womb creates life, then the breasts feed it. There is so much power in the feminine, given by nature. You can build the most technologically advanced city, but without mothers giving birth, it is pointless. It is a ghost city. Just because men are taller and more muscular does not mean that they are entitled to control women. The natural purpose of the male physique is to be an aid to the life created, not those who destroy it. Patriarchy is not the basic social organization, it is unnatural. It opposes nature. It fights against it. It creates artificial hierarchy and suffering. It is fueled by insecurity and fragile egos rather than truth, love, and wisdom. Natural social organization does not oppose nature the way patriarchy does. It does not destroy it. It lives in alignment with nature. It does not create poverty, it does not rape women and children, and it does not protect male superiority at the expense of anything valuable. Men who like submissive women are usually insecure and have fragile egos. They hate femininity, because they have indoctrinated under patriarchy to hate it. They can only accept femininity when it's castrated, non intimidating to their ego. NPC type patriarchy constricted femininity. Which is actually masculinity in disguise. Men gladly obey other men, even if those men are morally corrupt and delusional. Men obey patriarchy and never deconstruct it, even if it kills them. This is the highest level of obedience. It is foolishness.

JD Vance is such a creep

Women are socially pressured to obey because this is what patriarchy perceives as being feminine, but this is not femininity per se. Men obey more powerful men because this is how they learned to build trust and relationships with them.

I wish I loved and respected myself enough. I regret not being more selfish. I was parentified by my parents, as the eldest daughter, I was like a tiny mom not only to my parents and siblings but also to the children in the neighborhood I grew up in. My pain was invisible to the adults around me. I always appeared stronger than I felt inside, and I wasn’t aware of that until people told me. I wasted so much time taking care of others while neglecting myself.

Obedience is a masculine energy. Soldiers are obedient. Obedience requires self-repression, sacrifice, and discipline. This is the complete opposite of feminine energy, which is creative, expressive, and free-spirited. You simply want a masculine soldier with female genitalia.

Maybe you should start with a platonic relationship with women, just to hang out and play, unless you see this as too degrading to your ego and something that may exclude you from the patriarchal cult, after which you will be called a simp, of course. What is it in the gender dynamics that created the incels and red-pillers? What are the gender dynamics that actually worked in the past? Do you mind elaborating? Yes, but men like you enable toxic men in power. You actively support them, you admire them, you bootlick and stroke their ego, and they shit on you, send you to wars for stupid reasons, play with your life, make you poor and weaker and you still look up to them and blame all your problems on women or feminists, because this is what they want you to do. Y’all never ask questions. You just accept the pressure. Just a perspective.

I see. How deep do you believe your understanding of Alien Consciousness is? I understand that it may be difficult to explain, but I would love you to expand on it as much as realistically possible in your blog posts.

What this information is based on? Source?

Remote viewing? What if this information is now outdated? Astrologers don’t do remote viewing or astral projection or something paranormal to obtain the knowledge. They just study what they have been taught. This is a second hand knowledge, I suspect.

Ok, I think I know the answer but I won’t share hahaha.

Ok, so the planets are living and conscious, and their energy is affecting us. How do we know how each planet affects us? How do we know that they are predictable? How do we know that one planet affects a specific aspect of our lives and not another planet? Astrology maps are very detailed, where does this information come from?

It’s a mystery to me. How can physical planets affect human affairs and personalities? Why would they care? On the other hand, what if they are not just physical planets, what if they are more than that?

I like it. A good scientist is a mystic. When I think about it, being a mystic is a superpower in any field, art, politics, psychology, literature, mathematics, etc. @Leo Gura I am happy to see posts about aliens. I would love it if you shared more about the societies of the advanced ones, what their relationship is to spirituality, truth, beauty, love, intelligence, life, death, war, survival and suffering, and how you think these integrate into their societies. Every insight you may have about the way they perceive reality and think would be appreciated. Being at the human-mystic, Jesus-like spiritual level may be something that the children/adolescents of advanced ETs already master. While we are stuck worshiping the Jesus’s in the world and literally misinterpreting what they taught by creating a religion, instead of becoming mystics ourselves. Just a thought.

I see. I agree.

I don’t know, it may vary, but I guess it is okay to have high standards if the person is willing to offer the same value to others.