Lila9

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  1. Unfortunately it isn't written in this small and lame red pill pamphlet, you gotta investigate further.
  2. @Roy No. This place is very masculine and has a huge feminine shadow. You are mode and your posts are clearly anti women/femininity/feminism. And unfortunately you are not the only one. You have a huge problem of understanding how women operate which is not like men, and I won't get into the reasons for that, it can be biological or cultural, it doesn't matter. You expect women here to close their eyes to the women hatred, the constant judgement and misunderstanding, in your distorted and selfish view, only when we fawn to your hatred and disrespect towards us, we would be considered "good" and worthy, you expect us to act like nothing happens, as if non of you are a misogynist. Instead of taking responsibility and deeply contemplating about the reason that this place makes women run, you choose to blame women like a 5 years old boy. You intentions are not pure, you are driven by hatred and lot of unaddressed pain. If you talk about 50% of the population with such arrogance and contempt don't be surprised if it backfires at you. I will be here in the shadows to remind you that. Don't worry. Don't think that you can get rid of me by calling me bitter or angry lol.
  3. Lol you have no idea about female psychology and feminism. You are talking from ignorance.
  4. The polarity theory isn't accurate. It's actually a myth that the best relationships occur between people who are the complete opposite of each other. In reality, people tend to be attracted and have more successful relationships with similar people, with similar belief system and temperament and within this frame the natural femininity-masculinity balance takes a place but it may vary and change depends on the life situation.
  5. I think that they don't even experience this as a personal attack, they seem like they genuinely don't understand what's the big deal with their smoking, or maybe they pretend that they don't understand. I really don't know anymore. Imagine if most of humanity would act like this. wait.
  6. Unfortunately I understand your experience. I live in a shitty apartment in a shady area because this is what I can afford rn. And there are so many people smoking on their windows, sometimes in the same time and in the same hours, their smoke comes to my windows (especially mornings), and I can't even open windows at mornings which is frustrating. And I can't do nothing about it because many people don't understand that passive smoking is as dangerous as smoking. During my life I've tried to address it (since I gained brain and stopped smoking myself) to people but received stares implying that I'm the idiot who's overreacting. On one hand they can do whatever they want in their apartments and on the other hand what if whatever they want to do hurt others, and to be more precise, slowly killing their surroundings but they are too ignorant to even acknowledge it? What if someone actively killing people in their apartment? I'm sure that in that case no one would say "they can do whatever they want in their apartment".
  7. I apologize if this has already been shared here. I would like to share information about a 3 hour event of testimonies led by Dr. Steven Greer, a ufologist and retired physician who founded the Center for the Study of Extraterrestrial Intelligence (CSETI) and the Disclosure Project, which aims to disclose alleged classified UFO information (Wikipedia). According to these testimonies, the existence of aliens is considered factual, and there is no doubt about it. Moreover, the question of whether aliens are dangerous or not is not a concern. The testimonies suggest that despite using highly advanced technology, such as folding space-time for travel (manipulate the laws of physics), these aliens are likely non-threatening. The reason to worry and the problem arises with certain human secret operations that have the authority and the governmental sponsorship to collect crashed extraterrestrial vehicles, (including the bodies of extraterrestrial beings inside these vehicles). These operations not only gather advanced vehicles but also replicate their advanced technologies. The issue is that they operate without supervision, without public knowledge, and even the government might not be fully aware of their actions. This poses a significant risk, as these technologies could potentially be misused against both humans and the aliens themselves, as it has reportedly happened in the past. I have not finished watching all of the testimonies yet, but I felt compelled to share this valuable information here. If you don't believe in the existence of aliens, you are not obligated to trust these testimonies, but I encourage you to approach them with an open mind and listen to them.
  8. It seems that she had some eating disorder in addition to her raw vegan diet. Eating disorders are the illness of the phsyche. It could have been any diet, it doesn't matter, once there is an eating disorder like that, the results are very likely to be the same. I suspect she suffered from anorexia which unfortunately it's not a rare disease and is pretty difficult to heal from. It's common for people who suffer from eating disorders to prone to the vegan diets or the raw vegan diets as a way to keep their weight under control. But it doesn't necessarily mean that vegan diet is unhealthy or dangerous. I don't know much about the raw vegan diet but I suspect that this is not as healthy as the regular vegan diet.
  9. If you are green in your values it would be difficult to live as green in a blue country. It's difficult for green to live in an orange country so blue is a real nightmare. Even if you find a community of green people in a blue country, the laws of a blue county would make it harder for you to thrive, you would be hardly judged and demonized, you wouldn't be free to be who you are, to dress how you would like, to behave how you would like, to speak the way you would like without someone's trying to limit you or shame you, or even kill you in the worst case scenario. The best place for green people is among orange-green, green, yellow and turquoise, this is a better environment to actually thrive for green and not only survive.
  10. For me as a minimalist, feminist and vegan I would prefer to live life with an average income in a green county rather than being rich in a blue county that is more patriarchal and conservative. Having lots of money doesn't bring me happiness if I live not according to my values.
  11. 1. The reason that women may find benevolent sexism as attractive is because it implies about attractive traits of the divine masculine like kindness, protectiveness, safety, giving. The problem with benevolent sexism is that it's an undercover form of sexism that pretends to be good, pretends to be the divine masculine in order to deceive women and control them by the facade of fake goodness and the deceiving message that "my highest priority is your happiness" which isn't the case. Many women are attracted to the good aspect of it that benefits them without being necessarily aware to the cost they may pay for being with men with this type of benevolent sexism mindset. Since society is pretty sexist and there are not many feminists and non-sexists men in society, benevolent sexism seems the least bad option, compared to more obvious sexism and misogyny. 2. Republicans value marriage more and would do more to keep it, they more care about following gender roles, even at the cost of their authentic expression. Republicans are more likely to be in relationship for the sake of not being single, sense of security, "togetherness" and they will do almost everything to make it work, even with a non compatible partner, the sense of security is everything for them, it equals to happiness, their need for security can be easily met. Democrats value more authentic self expression. Democrats are more likely to prefer being alone rather than with a not compatible partner, they don't need a sense of security as much as republicans, they value more true connection and intimacy. Since true connection and intimacy are not a easy, common or lasting thing to find or built in the modern capitalistic world, obviously they are more likely to feel unhappy in relationships, because their needs aren't met. If they would value security at the expense of authentic connection, as much as republicans, they would be happy in relationships as well.
  12. North Korea deserves freedom from this monster and his familiy
  13. It makes more sense for conservatives to be the privileged ones because they have a motive not to change the system that favors them, they have no incentive to rebel. A wealthy white man has less motivation to change the system, even if it is flawed and rotten, he will close his eyes as long as it continues to benefit him. It is likely for him to lean towards the right wing. A woman who has grown up in a poor family without proper societal support and limited opportunities to improve her situation may find it easier to gravitate towards the left wing, as she has an incentive to change a system that does not favor her. Additionally, I believe that many privileged liberals who appear to be liberals are not truly liberal or, at the very least, are less liberal than they present themselves to be. They often live in a homogenous environment surrounded by people similar to themselves, which contradicts the progressive values they claim to embrace. This lifestyle can be seen as conservative rather than liberal. However, in some sense, we can say that it is easier for wealthy individuals to be liberals because they have the financial resources and influence that provide them with protection. Because being liberal can be more dangerous and risky for those who are poor and lack social status. Liberalism, by definition, is about advocating for change, progress, and challenging established systems, in contrast to conservatism. It is safer to engage in rebellion and challenge the system when you possess the power to do so, as rebellion inherently carries risks. In the past (and even in some places today), holding liberal views could result in a cruel death.
  14. I don't claim to be smart. I've done many stupid things in my life. And there is no reason to be mad at me as I tried to mirror you your own BS. Take it or leave it.
  15. Do you always do what's beautiful, what's good, what's important, what's valuable, what's courageous, what's smart? Do you think that this thread where you are basically talking about how smart you are in comparison to others, reflects a beautiful, good, important, valuable, courageous and smart behavior from your end?
  16. “Love me or hate me, both are in my favour. If you love me, I’ll always be in your heart... If you hate me, I’ll always be in your mind.”
  17. Sure, I have plenty of work to do. Still, I'm allowed to write my opinions too and I don't think that this particular respond came from masculine shadow but from geniune self love and self appreciation. It came from a place of strong believe in women abilities and contribution because I'm evident to that and I want this kind of people to see what I'm seeing too. But apparently their biased wall is too strong and too high to overcome. Additionally, I don't know why on this forum, everytime I write something in woman's favor some man has the need to write that I have a masculine shadow. Not every "uncute" response that comes from woman is a sign of masculine shadow. FYI. Maybe you should start seeing women as humans with opinions and not as some objects who need to go on eggshells beside you so they will be labeled as feminine. I know that many men have a distorted understanding of what femininity is. For me, femininity is to be authentic and speak my mind, speak my feelings and heart and here I am.
  18. It all sounds nice and idealistic from a narrow minded, selfish and egoic male perspective but unfortunately, you have a weak character and no woman can really rely on you. Because if you had a strong character, you would never talk so much shit about women. You have so many hate posts of women. No woman can ever feel safe around you because you have so much shit, hate and insecurities within yourself. I have never seen a good man with a strong character who is taking like that about women. No woman with self respect wants someone so primitive and old fashioned beside her. I understand that you are living in a 3rd world country but at least make some efforts to be a bit more progressive. You really live in a bubble and you have no idea how much women contribute to this society and how much they did through the history, and unfortunately many of them didn't receive the credit that they deserve because of people like you.
  19. @Danioover9000 I tried to be concise and deliver a general idea of what patriarchy is. Yes, It's a constructed system that place men above anything else. But only a specific type of men and a specific type of masculinity, while oppressing the rest, women, children, animals, nature, men who don't fall under its idea of 'man'. It's bunch of ideas with justifications of why those ideas are true and superior. It's a very closed paradigm. It's not something that should be relevent in 2023, in a healthy society. That's all I have to say.
  20. Patriarchy is a social system in which men hold primary power and privilege over women. It perpetuates gender inequality by reinforcing traditional gender roles and norms that often marginalize and oppress women.
  21. I'm not sure why he did that. I hope that he's not a pedophile because that would be quite upsetting because that means he has more victims that we don't know about. Children's safety, this is the only thing that I'm worried about. I really have no clue and no judgement, I want to believe that he was playful or that it was an innocent joke or a "Tibetan tradition", and even if it was the case, I wonder, couldn't he make another joke? A better joke? Why couldn't an intelligent and enlightened (?) person like the Dalai Lama himself, think about better ways to play with a child? And I try to put myself in the child's shoes, how would I have felt if I was a child and someone that I'm admiring and looking up to behaved in such a way with me? Would I have felt okay with that? Would I have felt comfortable? Personally, I wouldn't and I think that most children, and even adults, wouldn't.
  22. It really depends on the person. Personally, even though I'm far from being rich, I know that the more money I have, the more I want to give it to everyone in need because I don't see a logical reason to be rich while there is so much suffering in the world that can be solved with money. It seems so stupid to have more money than you actually need to cover your basic needs, and let it lie in your bank account, instead of doing something that will improve someone's life and make a positive impact on the world with this money. After reading this post I agree that generally speaking, most of the wealth in the world was made by manipulation, it makes me so angry to be honest, even though I know this my entire life. And I don't hate money, money is energy and it's neutral, money can be food, health, happiness, it's a resource and resources can be used and misused. But I don't see any value in being rich for the sake of being rich. It's stupid and I cringe when people admire rich people just because they're rich. Yes, money is power and everybody needs some healthy degree of it. I see value in an ethical human, being rich if it means that corrupted people with no ethics and shitty values will have less of it, and less power in society as a result. I see value in being rich if it means having enough power to do good things with the money one has. Actually, one doesn't have to be rich in order to make a good impact with one's own money, of course that the more money one has the more impact they can make, but everyone can have more conscious and ethical decisions, even if they are small, like making sure that the product one's buying is a fair-trade, or monthly donating 10$ to a reliable organization that makes a positive impact, or consuming less meat and plastic and such stuff.
  23. LOL Maybe they wouldn't be interested to talk about those things but about why we humans have belly buttons and then they would invent 1000 jokes about it. And you will be like and they will be like