Devin

Political advisor Lobbyist

@Beeflamb Just a phase, you can tell this because you're aware of it, you're uncomfortable, in a good way. You may have something underlying that you're feeling that you're processing, to me it sounds like you went deep, when you come up you'll be different and it will take getting use to but you'll feel better and ultimately do something(s) much more meaningful than you would have otherwise.

Find a sport you're interested in, preferably coed in your area, join a coed sport group, just start with hi how are you to a cashier/server and build up your relational skills from there. You'll get there, I swear to you anyone can, you'll laugh looking back at this with joy for what you're gaining through this struggle

? I still think we're still right on topic

That's fine, I won't bother you, didn't mean to

I'm talking about the physical world, nothing spiritual, how you experience the physical world, sex

They're not strictly entangled with mental imagery or abstraction, is my point, you can just feel Part of your mind you can't access with language(understanding)

I don't mean emotions(anger, happiness, sadness) At all

Yes but "thinking" is limited by language and imagery/sounds/tastes and further limited by your proficiency in language and what you have seen/heard, feeling has no limits

Who gave us the name "wise thinking man"?, there may have been some bias Feeling is far richer

I'd say you can take it even further and say I'm not even a hairless monkey. I don't mean to not interact with the world, I would say I mean the opposite, fantasy is not interacting with the world it's the opposite, you're not actually experiencing it

But we recognize the clothes aren't us, well most of us do anyway I don't mean in a natural way, I mean a conscious way, your monkey example I think makes my point

Because I love the peace But no, it's not like that, we don't say English language is who I am like we do with sexuality, we see it's something apart from us

That fantasies and fetishes are not ours in the original sense, they're from deceptions we believe. Sex is ours though, purely Some fetishes can be as well

It's more like saying dinner can be with a show

"basic" sex

Yeah, it's fair to say semantics but I think there is a more profound meaning here that's being hidden by fetishes and fantasies Well hopefully if we come full circle it won't seem like I'm attacking her, I think I'm just attacking the idea not the person but I'm tired, just woke up in middle of the night and checked my phone

I'm not saying what you do is wrong, I just don't think you know your sexuality

Experiencing and expressing yourself sexually. Fantasies and fetishes are just during sex, but they're purely superficial, they're not sex

No you wouldn't say ours either. Fantasies and fetishes aren't sexuality

Because you wouldn't have fetishes and fantasies without the outside world Just look at how you wrote the previous post, you said "my" sexuality, "my" fetishes and fantasies It's from fear, otherwise they wouldn't be "yours"

I don't think that's sexuality at all, that's all ego

Your sexuality

@Tyler Robinson I can masturbate easily and I haven't looked at porn in years, and it's a much better and fulfilling experience now. Also, there are girls that orgasm quicker than me (male). I thought most girls can cum in a few minutes

I don't see where anyone is recommending semen retention here, porn and masturbation don't have to go hand in hand ?