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It's not a woman thing? Women Wanting Women https://womenwantingwomen.com › ... Why The Lesbian Divorce Rate Is So High Nov 21, 2022 — Did you know that the lesbian divorce rate is twice as high as it is for gay guys? Why are lesbians getting divorced at twice the rate of .

I just said I notice patterns, didn't say I was good at it.

Because I unlike postmodernists notice patterns.

I found a video that explains this perfectly.

Cue Postmodernist head spinning, strawmanning, ad hominem, and shesplaining.

https://womenwantingwomen.com/2022/11/why-the-lesbian-divorce-rate-is-so-high/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=why-the-lesbian-divorce-rate-is-so-high "What I learned about lesbian divorces… What I learned when I started digging around is that this isn’t actually a lesbian thing at all. This is a woman thing. Multiple studies going back to the 1940’s have shown that it’s women who initiate approximately two thirds of all divorces in the US and Great Britain. (Not just LGBT divorces – I’m talking about all divorces). It turns out that women are twice as likely to initiate a divorce, compared to men."

Women Wanting Women https://womenwantingwomen.com › ... Why The Lesbian Divorce Rate Is So High Nov 21, 2022 — Did you know that the lesbian divorce rate is twice as high as it is for gay guys? Why are lesbians getting divorced at twice the rate of .

Mediate.com https://mediate.com › lgbtq-couples... LGBTQ Couples And Divorce Trends Jul 5, 2022 — Lesbian Marriages are More Likely to End in Divorce · Studies Indicate Gay Male Marriages are More Resilient · Causes behind LGBTQ Divorces

https://www.thepinknews.com/2020/11/18/married-lesbian-couples-divorce-gay-men-office-national-statistrics-data/ Lesbian couples are still significantly more likely than gay men to get divorced, new data suggests. Data from the Office for National Statistics published on Tuesday (17 November) shows that while female couples make up just over half of same-sex marriages in England and Wales, they account for nearly three-quarters of same-sex divorces. Five years on from the introduction of equal marriage in England and Wales, there were 822 divorces among same-sex couples in 2019, nearly twice as many as reported in the previous year. Of these, 589 were female couples and 233 were male couples.

Daily Mail https://www.dailymail.co.uk › news https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8960185/Lesbian-couples-TWICE-likely-divorce-married-gay-men-ONS-data-reveals.html Lesbian couples are TWICE as likely to divorce as married gay men, ONS data ... Nov 17, 2020 — Of those same-sex couples who divorced last year, 589 - 72 per cent - took place between women. There were 233 between men,

@Gesundheit2 This doesn't mean you can't have an honestly awesome relationship, you can.

This is not saying women easily divorce, just far easier then men, men usually don't change what they want from a woman throughout the relationship the way women do. True. This isn't simple addition and subtraction though it's a differential equation.

Where on your list is for the man, they are all selfish reasons.

Why did the women marry those terrible companions?

Sorry didn't mean it for you in particular. I think understanding the dynamic has further effect than just this immediate solution, relationships are nuanced, for instance many times women will not tell you there is a problem let a lone what the problem is, understanding this video let's you be proactive, especially in the case where the woman isn't great with relationships which is the vast majority.

Start the video at 3:30 watch to the end.

Your saying exactly what the video says. I think you all are hung up on the money aspect of the mans job, he's not talking about wealth or status, he's only talking about the relationship.

Hypergamy is moving up social class, he's talking about what women want out of relationships.

I actually think the target audience is unmarried long term relationships, say you've been dating since 20 and you're 27, what the woman wants from that relationship changes. And not just wanting marriage and children.

But that doesn't mean this can't improve your relationships, it's for more than just divorce, it's for a better relationship, understanding common differences of sexes, that aren't easily recognizable.

The video isn't really about divorce, I only posted those statistics because that's what we have statistics on. It's about the dynamic we just spoke about. Women won't leave because of this if there isn't a better option they see.

More meaningful job, a mechanical engineer going to some passion project type job.

This isn't saying most breakups are because of this, the video is pointed toward a healthy audience to IMPROVE relationships. People with kids won't divorce because of this, maybe after kids are grown...

Deeper emotional connection, deeper relationship.