Devin

Just so you know, that's betrayal in a woman's eyes, you lured her in with romance and then slowed it down over time, see his romance video.

If you want to call that a luxury I agree I just assumed you meant money. True, I'm not saying they do, just talking about their compulsion, staying with the husband is more compelling in most cases, but over here divorce rate is said to be like 50% now.

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Not for more luxurious, for that flame you said dies out, for deeper connection. No, this is why what he is saying is so important, you can't just be her emotional support animal, for a great relationship you have to do what she's attracted to, you have to date her the rest of your life.

@Gesundheit2 I will say this to temper what I've posted, a man can easily have a great relationship with a woman, I think he needs to understand these things about women and choose one he really wants though. Just telling men they need to work hard at a relationship or listen to the woman is nonsense, women never communicate or understand the problem properly. When you know what to do it isn't even hard, let alone work. And this isn't saying men are the problem, women are terrible with relationships too, I'm just speaking as to how a man can have a good relationship, this won't work for a woman.

For sure, I see these videos as looking at subtle general nuance rather than hard categorizations. Many women leave for abuse, I don't think that's the leaving he's addressing, many women leave without abuse. I don't consider the loyalty he attributes to women as self serving, I think it's loyalty to the man. He says something like they'll help hide the dead bodies, I find that true(in the general sense) women are more loyal in that way, say a man wants to move for whatever reason, the women gladly go along, men would be almost opposite. I think the leaving he's speaking about in all these videos is what he says in this video, paraphrasing "you have to continually do what attracts her to you". Women leave due to lack of emotional connection, whereas men will stay even if they're not getting anything from the relationship. This is a gross over generalization of course but still peaks into the pyches. This is important to understand for relationship quality as well, not just to avoid separation. It's why everyone says men don't put in the work for relationships, because those men don't know that women are different about things compared to men, and women don't know about men.

After 50 the single trend goes the opposite way and eventually quite drastically with more than double the amount of single women than men actually. When older men divorce they usually re-marry younger, this not only contributes to the relationship age gap but broadens the amount of men in the lower age group dating pool, you have older men returning to the dating pool while their ex wives stay single, resulting in a higher number of men pursuing the same younger women. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/

Do you think a man or woman is more likely to leave if their relationship desires aren't met?

@Hardkill I can fly to Denmark right now for $600, visa free travel, after 4 years I can get permanent residency. Why don't these suffering Americans live in a homeless shelter for a week making $15hr at walmart for the $600, eating at soup kitchens, and move to Denmark for heaven?

And what 99% of them or so get medicaid or medicare for free. If you have a serious medical bill you can just pay it off over time as well, even though it's unlikely in the first place, unless you don't take care of yourself, in which case you're getting a second chance at life due to these amazing providers. Yes I'm okay with drug companies charging whatever they want. Why don't you college educated people that despise the rich start a drug co-op and produce these medicines? The patents only last 20 years, anyone can make them. Drugs are a second chance at life if they're really needed, a miracle, not food. Those should get higher education of course, I said too many, many people with degrees wind up not using them. Poor people get grants in the u.s., free college, and community colleges are dirt cheap. Yes education needs to increase in time and the difference needs to be paid by tax payers, but that doesn't mean all out everything's free. My point was it's simple supply and demand on both fronts; college is more expensive because of it's current overuse, and employers seek more college education because more people have it. If you're poor get a grant, if not and parents won't pay work a few years and save money for a degree at community college, it's good for a real world break anyway. I disagree, they're miserable because they compare themselves with others, it's a recognized trait by outsiders, Americans are known as hyper competitive and judgmental, it's cultural. America is the land of rejects, they didn't make it in their home countries so they or their relatives came here. It's not a homogenous lovey dovey small scandinavian country. There's a lot of psychology at play in these dynamics.

Abuse would be a "fault". See youtube; "How to..... women..... for men", notice the view count on the videos, it's not natural.

How? What situation, describe one.

Have you or anyone you know needed serious medical care? I haven't and neither has anyone close to me, I don't know of my parents ever going to the hospital actually, so they are paying those higher taxes for what would be in the u.s. the recklessly unhealthy people, and ours would cost more. Do you value college education on a mass scale, as in everyone going? I don't, I think far too many people are going to college. I support education, but you can learn a lot at the free public libraries we have actually, that's the free education I support. Safety nets, anyone in the u.s. has all the safetynet they need to get back up on the horse, soup kitchens, food banks, homeless shelters, free clothing. I don't buy into all the hype around this issue.

I agree the rich are getting richer, that's what they're good at, that's why they're rich. I disagree the poor are getting poorer, their conditions have improved as well. I hate the Republican party by the way. But here's my problem with your kind; can most Americans sacrifice to a point where they would be able to invest a little money? I think the vast majority could, but they don't, they need to grow the hell up and take some personal agency, imagine generation after generation in a family doing that, any family in America can be what you're calling the rich that's getting richer. Quit your worker mindset, workers aren't kings and never will be. They'll always profit the rich, they choose to by staying in that lane. Invest.

Not when you factor in higher cost per living and taxes, 20% difference. Unions raise costs, inflating the number. And that's the top european state, there are u.s. states that individually earn higher than Denmark, like Massachusetts. The only data I've seen that shows that is highly biased, look at this, pew research says it hasn't budged. But look at that and then also consider the lifestyle improvements in those 50 years, they were breathing leaded gasoline fumes. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/08/07/for-most-us-workers-real-wages-have-barely-budged-for-decades/

I'm not a physical therapist but from my personal experience it seems to be. If you're not too familiar with yoga they do breath work as well which helps physiologically too, just so you know it isn't just stretching. This is all just perfectionism level stuff too by the way, like Michael said.

I get higher quality sleep with yoga too, so it may pay for itself.

Even just once a week makes a difference for me, I think if I had unlimited time with your regiment I would want 3 times a week 20 minute. I would still stretch after workouts, this is more for smaller muscles and tendons that don't get much attention and are hard to target.

I would also want something where you can exercise full body mobility, where you stretch your arms up, outwide, back, and also where you do wide stance sidewards and obscure angle lunges, like basketball, yoga could replace this as well. I don't find antagonist afterworkout stretching to fill this for mobility.

Depending on the type of HIIT, you may want some yoga or at least a full body movement activity like basketball or something if you don't get that from your HIIT. Eat some fermented food for gut health. Get occasional blood test to look for deficiencies and for tracking.

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My meaning of the phrase "work at it" was more about requiring will power, like if you're thirsty it doesn't require will power to go to the stream or in the warm months build a mud and stick shanty for the cold months. I don't see romance as a need like water, except for poor men in a society with polygamy. Which is now what we have reverted back to with no fault divorce, musk, bezos, gates, trumps of the world have multiple wives they support and procreate with.