Razard86

This statement reeks of superiority. Also Jordan Peterson is stage Blue so I guess he is a child.

There was a woman who died who ate soul food everyday and smoked a pack of cigarettes a week. She lived to be over 100 years old. Something to think about..... Example: This isn't the same woman but here is an example. https://medium.com/lessons-from-history/this-122-year-old-smoked-until-117-and-ate-2-pounds-of-chocolate-a-week-befe21e696f0 Another Example: https://allthatsinteresting.com/jeanne-calment The truth is your beliefs determine your health...not what you eat.

You haven't done your homework. Ancient African Tribes engaged in polyamory. Also 2 of them were Matriarchal in that the females were the leaders of the tribe. Go do some research, it is the oldest form of union between men and women. Most of your knowledge of about marriage is Eurocentric.

Reciprocality.....you wouldn't need to write thousand word responses to make it simple that would just make it more complicated. I get it, you enjoy complexity. Complexity can be fun, but complexity is not something that is easily extractable because it can be interpreted multiple ways. I am more attracted to complexity on certain levels as well but I understand it is not something that is rather useful and is just a mind game. Its not that am seeing word play, anything complex is word play. Simplicity is word play as well...its just less complex. And yes I know simplicity and complex are really the same thing because much can be extracted from both.

That is your perspective, all I see is word play. https://blackmtncycles.com/make-everything-as-simple-as-possible-but-not-simpler-albert-einstein/#:~:text=simpler.” Albert Einstein-,“Make everything as simple as possible,but not simpler.” Albert Einstein

1. Polyamory is the oldest form of union so its actually not new age its old age. 2. You are picking monogamy because you have a bias for that. Spirituality is about union, its about dispelling all barriers and recognizing everyone as one. The highest form of consciousness would be polyamory with the whole world in truth.

All action comes from care. Things are really black and white when it comes to this. Every action we take happens because we care. Reality itself is built off this. You are literally arguing against existence itself as this is an existential truth. Notice I knew you would deny what I said. You denied what I said because you cared. If not you would have ignored it. Everything you pay attention to, you do so because you care. Every successful business that lasts for decades knows this its why marketing is so important. I am literally giving you one of the secrets to life and you don't even realize it. But the GREAT THING is YOU WILL ONE DAY!!! You could replace care with the word love if you want as well.

Being full of shit just means that everything is just illusion and the only thing that is true is the oneness of god. We cannot have reality without these illusions, so reality is merely illusion, a lie. But the building block of that lie....is ultimate truth and love. This is why no matter how much you study reality it is infinite, and infinity is a pardox. So even trying to make sense out of NO SENSE, and trying to ascertain a thing from NO THING is fruitless. Just enjoy the fact that reality is infinite, it is paradoxical, it is mysterious, it is no thing, it is no sense, and it is magical.

Also here are the limitations of the study. They cannot account for the impact of genetics and how testosterone is metabolized in the body and efficient there body is at utilizing it. Everyone's metabolism is different so even bringing in groups and repeating the experiment over and over all you are going to produce is a range of results. Science is never EXACT, it is always approximate in nature. All you are looking for are patterns. I already knew I could find a study that contradicted what you sent me because I understand how testosterone works. The study doesn't even talk about long-term use, and how long term uses can destroy the natural testosterone you produce if you come off it and then will have to deal with the consequences. Anyway we can say that in certain circumstances your scenario is true.....but it has a lot of different factors that are left out when it is stated.

And here is an article that has a study that shows opposite results. https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/nejm199607043350101 Scroll down and look at Figure 1.

You do not gain more muscle by taking steroids and sitting on the couch than going to the gym without steroids. Steroids like any type of drug are FACILITATORS. They basically enhance or supercharge a natural function. Gaining muscle is an ADAPTIVE response to STRESS. Its a survival mechanism. If you DO NOT stress the body then it has no need to REPAIR the OVERSTRESSED muscle tissue and REPAIR AND MAKE IT STRONGER to withstand the STRESS. Psychedelics are the same. If you do not do the inner work to you Psychedelics are just some bizarre hallucination and then you go back to your life. Also side note: I capitilize to emphasize specific words...don't take it as me yelling. Maybe I should underline them or bold them? Its a habit I have done for years in texts. Let me know if it comes across hostile. This is an example of a guy who did DMT but did not do any of the inner work. https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/johnsemley/5-meo-dmt-psychedelics-retreat

I don't mean to be the bearer of bad news....but you do have feelings for him. This entire thread is proof of that. You will of course deny this and even get angry at me for pointing this out. Its ok....eventually you will see. One fundamental lesson to understand....whatever we give attention to we care about. Attention is energy, it is literally life giving energy. Its why attention is the most expensive commodity among humans even more valuable than money. Men want sexual attention, women want emotional attention, and business wants customer attention, etc. etc. You made an entire thread to discuss somebody reaching out to you that you do not care about.....this entire thread is you and us giving this person attention.

This is true, its the only way you can be creative. This is an ABSOLUTE, as you will limit yourself to whatever perspective you cling onto too strongly. Its a good thing God allows drama, and trauma, to shake us out of our rigid nature and WAKE us UP.

The key to understanding, expansion of knowledge, creativity, and growth is questions. The key to limited knowledge, stagnation, , bias, and decline is to draw conclusions. Every conclusion you will ever draw will be a limitation. Because the moment you draw a conclusion you have drawn a delineation. The moment you have drawn that delineation you have created good and evil and thus have become a Devil. A biased, self-righteous, egotistical, "enlightened" devil. Now I am not saying you cannot draw conclusions. We need conclusions to make sense of the world. But NEVER draw HARD conclusions, and recognize each conclusion for what it is....a LIMITED PERSPECTIVE. Outside of ABSOLUTE TRUTH, all conclusions are limited finite, and ANY HARD attachments stop your growth, can even cause a decline, turn you into a devil, and thus you create evil. By my nature I am a VERY logical person, very opiniated, a little preachy, and self-righteous at times. Its amazing because on this journey I come across people who speak and communicate very similarly to how I use to be and it brings a smile on my face. It is truly marvelous how Leo's video on everyone operates from good intentions is TRUE!!! People are really doing the best they can with what they BELIEVE to be true. WE ALL ARE. Its so funny how we fight amongst ourselves collectively when our heart is in the right place....just the mind is corrupted. If you corrupt the mind....you corrupt the whole being. But if you can reach the heart....you can purify the mind.

The reason you feel this way is because you are biased against polygamy. As a result you have hindered your ability to learn and experience life. I once had a hard stance in favor of monogamy like you, then I learned that the key to knowledge is exploring all possibilities. So I did research and learned quite a few things. 1. Polygamy is the oldest form of marriage. Monogamy has not existed that long. 2. Most of the information surrounding polygamy has been controlled and to get to the TRUTH you have to search for it. Most of the negative narrative surrounding polygamy claims that only men were polygamous and they used women like sex objects. What they don't realize is this was not true in Ancient Africa where some communities were matriarchal where the women were in charge and BOTH men and women were polygamous and it worked and functioned in an orderly fashion. 3. Monogamy is more of a European cultural institution which means you have a Euro-centric bias and are ignoring other possibilities. Do you know the whole history of marriage? Do you know the pros and cons of each marriage style from arranged marriages to polygamy? Do you know what conditions birthed these systems? Because these systems don't come from no where, they are brought about by conditions on the ground. Notice you have a hard stance on something that you have MORE QUESTIONS than answers for. Here is an African perspective written by a FEMALE African about modern polygamy. https://msafropolitan.com/2013/09/polygamy-in-africa-sex.html The highest truth is found in God. God is our example. "God is not a respector of persons." So God does not show favoritism. True awakening is finding out that everyone is YOU, so if everyone is YOU, how is a monogamous relationship the highest expression of love? That's like me saying I'm in a one on one relationship with my hands and I should not CHEAT on them with my FEET. If you cannot understand what I just said? You have not truly awakened. I don't know what more someone has to say when they say that EVERYONE IS YOU, AND YOU ARE ME!! Right now I am just ARGUING WITH MYSELF!!! At this very moment!!! Its like me arguing with myself in my head over a belief I have. Until you awaken to this fact, you will continue to have HARD STANCES on things. Now I myself am susceptible to this, because I was very much like you in the past. Very logical, and opinionated, and moral. The greatest trap in life is MORALITY. If you study its use, and how it has been applied you will see the very nature of morality is CORRUPT. Because it is built entirely on selfishness. To understand the CORRUPTION in morality watch Leo's video on devilry. : You don't need morality to be loving. All you need is to recognize every living thing as a part of you!! No different than your hands, your feet, your head. Then take the next step and recognize them as not just a part BUT YOU!!! Understand that everyone is you but just different in degree. So if you love yourself you will NOT hurt yourself. Until you can truly understand that ALL OF REALITY is just YOU PUSHED OUT. All problems that exist in your reality YOU CREATE, and thus you can change by changing your beliefs....you will continue to reject God. Anyway I'm done. Really nothing more I can say on this topic.

Wow....just....wow.

You are right on the willingness to accept that your life might just turn upside part. What happened with me is I lived life logically for 2 decades. I did all the "right" things and did not get the results I wanted. I decided too 2 years ago experiment and just do things illogically. I still kept researching but I started to keep an open mind, and luckily found what I needed after years of research I have a good B.S. detector too. Anyway it was only because logic failed me, I ran up against the limits of logic. I had multiple times of sitting ruminating logically OVER AND OVER AND OVER. I learned that there was an infinite number of variables in EACH situation. It taught me that there were limits to logic, and that there must be something else that someone needs to cultivate. That was Intuition, which is associated with the feminine.

I disagree with Teal Swan, because the "containment" she speaks of (which I still do not like the word because it violates the feminine desire to be free) is something the woman MUST cultivate in herself. The only reason a woman desires this in a man is a result of her not developing this in her self. For a relationship to work, both man and woman need to be balanced (or close at least) in both masculine and feminine. Whatever energy that is out of balance will manifest in projection onto their partner. I used the word guide, because if a man tries to contain a woman who has properly integrated her masculine she will resist him as she will see his attempts to contain her as his attempt control her. A woman who has properly integrated her masculine does not NEED a man, she WANTS a man. She can properly handle her day to day activities and only desires a man because of what the relationship can provide in regards to companionship. This isn't to say that a woman does not want a man to provide security (which I believe is a better word, I can keep you secure without having to contain you) or for the man to ground her (give her a strong foundation) in which to full express herself. Teal Swan is a pretty good teacher but she isn't as accurate on some things. I came across a video where she said people make you feel things, NOBODY makes us feel anything. All feelings are our own creation. Until we come to this realization our feelings will run amok.

I agree completely great post!!

As a man I came across a woman who had a strong masculine side but was able to also switch to her feminine side. I loved the way she expressed her masculine side in certain areas it was enlightening just to experience it first hand. Yes it is a wonderful freedom we all have denied ourselves because of social conditioning. It is certainly something that Western Society is going to wrestle with for a while. I will say humanities capacity to change will vary I swear I went up like 2 colors in 6 months in Spiral Dynamics.

I use to confuse judging and logic. To judge something is to rate it as either good or bad, Desirable or undesirable. For example you could have a choice between a longer harder more dangerous route to a destination, or a shorter, easier and safer path. The logical choice is the shorter path but it doesn't mean you demonize it as bad. You can easily NOT demonize it by understanding if you wanted to workout and challenge yourself the longer path is the better option. So it depends on the objective whether something is advantageous or disadvantageous to you. Its neither good nor bad just relative to your goals. So you can use logic to determine a decision without demonizing it. To judge something is basically to conclude it as bad/guilty/unworthy to exist/ v.s. good, innocent/great part of existence. As long as you do not deem something as bad, you have not judged it. So everybody doesn't judge they just have goals and as long as they can respect the existence of things outside their preferences then no judgment is there. How you know judgment has taken place is when disrespect, discrimination, subjugation, exploitation, etc. is pursued against the "lesser" thing.

You missed one. Getting shamed for having many sexual partners. It isn't as bad in the past but the social stigma still exists in various places.

I like your thinking, but I wouldn't call the masculine a container, though you could certainly say that has been the role it has played throughout most of human history. But the Masculine cannot contain the Feminine, and if it tries to the Feminine will rebel. The feminine seeks expansion, all it wants from the Masculine is guidance not containment. To Contain means to house, to control, to surround, besides the Masculine couldn't contain the Feminine if it tried because the Feminine is Infinite. All the Masculine can do is guide, to teach, to separate, and translate. The Feminine is the Creative, Chaotic, and Impermanent Force of reality, the Masculine is the order which seeks to guide it. We like to compare Men and Women to the Masculine and Feminine since we are the physical expressions of each energy. But we have each within us and they are never separate. It is because of the Union of each that we are even able to experience reality. Cell Division and dna change is the expression of the feminine, how the process is structured and actually executed is the masculine. All change and expression is feminine, but the order, the process, is masculine. Form which is the expression of creation is the feminine, the cohesiveness of the form, and it how it functions is the masculine.

Morality is a creation of man. God never created a moral code. All evil is a result of projection of selfishness. You see evil because you are selfish and need everyone to see reality the exact way you do. If they do not then they are evil. If you cannot see this then anything I say is of no consequence and you need more shadow work to do. Again, God is not separate from its creation. So to call anything in existence is evil is to blaspheme God. I only give you this message because I assumed you were aware enough to realize this. But maybe I was mistaken.....