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That is just the character (the false you) that feels this way. The real you loves everything. Watch this video. You are just suffering your thoughts. You only suffer your thoughts in life. How you interpret your experience in life determines how life feels. https://youtu.be/EokHiVt0KeU

Life is a constant improvisation. This is what it means when it is said that life is impermanent. You can't grasp it because with each passing moment it is shifting. Its like I give you a music script on how a song is going to be played so you can follow along in the audience when you are listening and as you are listening they keep adding this and taking that away over and over ever so slightly. Every time you think you finally caught on it shifts every so slightly again until one day you realize...its playing an entirely different song!!! This change is never predictable either, one day its slow, next day its fast, sometimes it picks up or slows down each moment, sometimes it keeps the same pace of change for week or months. This is why no matter what logic you use, it will always be a generalization. Don't cling to your logic, use it for a general outlook, but it will never be what it appears to be because it is impermanent. Life is so beautiful when you can finally understand this. There is no control, there never was. Just explore life, that is why you are here. Explore explore and explore some more.

A way to understand how this is beneficial is you realize that because everything is meaningless you DO NOT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING. So anything you do is because you WANT TOO. Don't get rid of your desires, just don't be attached to them. You severe attachment to them by realizing they don't matter and you are just freely living life on your terms without any judgment on how you are supposed to be. You choose what you want to be and just be that. Basically there is no script, you write your own!! Its so amazing to realize that!! And if you want to flow, have no script at all just improvise in the present moment. Like improvisational comedy or jazz, or freestyle in rap, you are presently just happening with no forethought or plan. That would be the ultimate form of a life lived in the present.

This was something I came to the realization one day through deep introspection sometime last year and I love the power of this video to explain this concept. Its so obvious but many intellectual types will have to realize this for themselves. All those thoughts and rationalizations are truly meaningless. All my thoughts and opinions are crap, just mere illusion to enjoy playing a character. My entire life is meaningless, and I'm the one creating meaning crafting interpretation after interpretation over and over. Every human is a creator, you create a life through interpretation. Your life is just a perspective with judgments, beliefs, and interpretations. This is how you create yourself, its funny because you are your greatest creation. Yourself as a concept is such a great creation you fool yourself into thinking it is true. You have a storyline of your childhood, teenage years, later adulthood. Opinion on this and that all wrapped up in your childhood trauma, and past everyday struggles all the way up to today. Its so convincing and wonderful, its awe inspiring. All enlightenment is, realizing the character you have been playing, the storyline, the setting, the themes in your story, and realizing that everything around you, you constructed it to have a life. LOL God wants to have a life so God constructed you. HAHHAHAHA its so freaking funny. Anyway watch the video and take from it what you will. Maybe one day you will see how hilarious it is!! The old me "I went through so much trials and tribulations!!" Current me" Lol you made that whole thing up through interpretation." I now realize the importance of pain also, my new task or goal is to make a deep connection with pain. I believe it is the last real attachment I have. So I will focus on that. I realize my desire to alleviate the pain and suffering of others is because I judge pain as bad. I need to work on that and I will. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EokHiVt0KeU&t=84s&ab_channel=Actualized.org

The answer is both. Its paradoxical but its the truth. The renouncement of all attachments allows you to truly cherish life and all that is. Aim for this and you will be truly free. I'm almost there not quite there but I'm getting there myself.

The word can't is character. All can't statements no matter what they are is character. How are you named God is here and you are saying can't? There is only one exception, God cannot be anything other than Love, Truth, and Wisdom. Outside of that all can't statements are character statements.

From now on I am going to stop using the word ego, I believe it is not a sufficient word to drive home the point I think people are missing. From now on I am just going to substitute the word character for ego. So what we suffer in life is the character, the lens from which we view reality. This is what they mean by karma, which means memory and also can be translated as action. You act out of memory, and the memory you act of is the character you constructed. Enlightenment is the trascendence of karma because you are aware that all interpretation is just the character. Its very simple.

Because its the only way to have a life! You can't have a life without this! Even your question itself is the answer!! Look at the pain you express so eloquently in those words!! It means you still feel its real!! That means you still have a life!! Enlightenment is the understanding that you were never alive!!! LOL!! You can only have a life if you believe all those thoughts and emotions!!

Yes and this is why I resist people pushing Tate onto people. Tate is like the hot girl that every guy falls for but is toxic and if you date her and fall under her spell she ruins your life. Tate dangles his popularity and riches and tells guys if you follow my example you too can have what I have....as he himself is searching just as much as the next guy. The secret that nobody tells you is that every single human is searching for themselves. Nobody is immune to this. You search until you find yourself. This is why Enlightenment and Spirituality is pushed. Because once you achieve it, you stop searching. But I have come to realize that it is a process, you cannot pressure of force people to do it. Even when you tell them what it is, they have to go burn their karma/chase the world until they realize that it won't fufill them. They don't realize that everything they chase is just an experience. Being physically fit, is just an experience. Being rich is just an experience. Being smart is just an experience. Sex is just an experience. Being angry, sad, frustrated, glad these are all experiences. Once you have achieved all this...you will still feel empty. You will wonder why...so at this point you will either choose to keep trying to distract yourself from this feeling, or you will choose to investigate this emptiness. The irony is....emptiness is WHAT you are. The nothing that people talk about what God is? That emptiness is you. Once you are able to find and realize that emptiness, then you become God in the flesh or enlightened as they say. Once you accomplish that, all your experiences dramatically change and now you can enjoy the present moment. Until you make this discovery everything will feel dead, but once you truly discover yourself as God everything feels alive. But its fine...I have to be okay with people going through the various stages. I wish you nothing but peace as you travel that path. Just look up the word dopamine hit to understand the nature of this beast. You reach a goal, you get a dopamine hit, then it resets and you go again.

Yeah pretty much sums up the positive aspects of the redpill/manosphere, what isn't told is they will say a lot of this with resentment undertones, and adversarial dispositions against society and modern women. I know why it is happening but doesn't mean I like it. I really don't want young men to connect with the bitterness of these older men. They should have the opportunity to live their life with a fresh slate.

It is the communicator's job to make themselves clear. If you think I have misunderstood you then clarify where I have misunderstood you. Again there is not a single person on this forum who understand the Manosphere better than me. I was a part of their community for over 2 years. Around 2018 was when I first joined their community (time flies I thought it was 2 years) I left them for a reason as after awhile I realized...they are just bitter. The manosphere exists for a reason and I understand why, but it is not a solution it is escapism. My main issue is even though I know for a lot of men the Manosphere might be a stepping stone they have to go through in their developmental journey I fear many will for that trap and stay there. Its definitely a big trap for young black men since there is not other outlet that can provide them for what they are looking for.

It depends on what level of awareness you are at. There are different levels of awakenings. What you say is correct but to awaken to it depends on where you are at. How a child views reality and how you view reality are different. The true nature of reality does not change, but how you perceive it, know it, observe it does.

Exactly

Andrew Tate is not a good example of Male Energy and this stuff is talked about, Leo talked about it, many people in the Manosphere talked about it, there are many books that discuss it as well. Again Tate is not a good example because a true masculine energy that is at its highest potential combines the feminine. You cannot be an effective leader without combining the feminine. Those that do create resentment in those that lead them. An example would be Michael Jordan. He got things done but a lot of his teammates resented him. Here are Videos Leo did. Here is a non spirituality source for masculinity as well.

Just want to put this here. A lot of people think becoming rich will make you happy.... https://www.businessinsider.com/20-people-who-battled-depression-and-still-became-rich-and-famous-2012-10#10-abraham-lincoln-10

Like I said no right or wrong answers but yes this is a nice definition of rich in my personal opinion. I especially like the part of living life on the edge. Very nice example of a rich life.

You still didn't answer my question. But I will propose a premise. This statement by you is profound it shows you have the ability to look at yourself and evaluate your shortcomings. It shows maturity, and honesty. How many people in your life have you come across who are able to make statements like these? After you give me your answer I ask again....what is rich? By the way there is no right or wrong answer...so don't feel pigeon-holed and speak freely.

You said you want your own identity...you have one right now. Spirituality is about transcending identity. Even if you deconstruct your mind you still have an identity if you didn't have one you would literally be God at this very moment. Identity IS FORM. So how can you be a form and have no identity? So you have one right now! The Spiritual Path is about transcendence, this means you are NOT bound by any identity and can ADAPT to any situation. This also means you are able to see from many perspectives and see clearly (insight) into what is most needed at any given moment while also seeing into the future (foresight) into how it all fits together. So you will always have identity, but you do not have to be bound to it.

And that is perfectly fine nobody needs to do Spirituality just drop it all together and pursue what you desire. The secret to life is everything is Spiritual anyway, so even when you think you aren't doing Spirituality...you are!!! Spirituality is more about changing your perspective, that's more of a perceptual change a paradigm shift. So go forth and live your life how you best see fit.

If this is a question in your head then please abandon Spirituality. Go pursue those things you desire. Why should you do Spirituality? You are not ready to do Spirituality if you are thinking and asking these questions and there is nothing wrong with that. So go forth and enjoy the road!!! When you are ready to do Spirituality you will do it.

The Devil= Finitude. God =Infinity. The only way to give up all devilry is to be Infinite. The moment God created Separation the devil was born. So the only reason the Devil exists is because of limits, limits create fear, and as a result Devilish behavior emerges. Because God is infinite finitude must exist as well as infinity means everything. So one of the core examples you learn is that life is both good and evil. But the reason that evil doesn't ultimately exist is because there is only one self which is God. Evil is to bring harm against others intentionally but if there are no others....then there is no evil. But let's get away from this and speak from the world perspective. Recognize that both evil and good are the same thing. Recognize that everything is one and everything is a mirror. So if this is a case this means life is just a perspective and whatever you believe is true will be true for you. So the correct answer is, whatever is true for you. You have to find what brings you happiness and that will differ from person to person. Some want a chaotic life, some want a simple life. Some love music, some love math. Everyone both in the past and present are just examples of different lifestyles and perspectives that you could ultimately become. So pick a person whose perspective most resonates with your own, and use them as a foundation to how you build your life and as you come into your own you will change, grow, and figure out what is valuable to you. If I could give an answer is the key is to find balance. Whenever we are in excess in either area we suffer the kick back. Think of life like a rubberband. When both sides have equal force then it is centered. But if you pull too hard in either direction it give you a kick back. All of life teaches you two things. Face fears/limits, and stay balanced. If you don't grow you suffer being limited and all that comes with that. If you become unbalanced you suffer the consequences with that. So be balanced, and seek to expand all limits/fears as best you can. The End....or is it?

Wow that is simply amazing!! Nice share!!! It also fits perfectly with this thread.

Reality is however you hold it, however you view it. You see what you believe. Look up Mode One Alan Roger Currie and come back to me. Google Search Mode One. Life is not as simple as you think it is, nor as complex as you think it is. Its an adventure of paradox.

Oh really? Then here is the next question for you. What is rich? What does that mean. I'm interested to see your answer.

1. Did you really just mention reality shows?....Seriously man....that is a low bar, reality T.V......if you only knew how reality shows are actually constructed. sighhhhh 2. Tate has won MMA championships. Tate has understood the dangers of losing his life. This is easy, there are actually many guys like that and guess what? Many of them would be scared shitless to even contend with a psychedelic. I literally posted Mike Tyson videos for a reason on this forum, all must bow before the glory of the divine. I don't give a damn if you survived an explosion, a mystic would be far braver than some MMA fighter. I've been in fights for my life personally and I know guys who fight MMA. I have deep respect for them, but guess what? Many of them would run from a psychedelic experience and chicken out. Tate is so consumed by fear he cannot even relate emotionally with any women!!! He cannot form a deep connection because he is afraid of heartbreak and betrayal!! So why should I care if a guy is not afraid to face death, he is afraid to face LIFE!!! That is why he finds facing death so fun! 3. Intense? Which is more intense? Dissolving into infinity? Or fighting a guy in a ring? Yall all making me laugh!! I have been in more fights than any of you would believe. Winning fights is just an experience. Everything is just an experience. I used to be in the military. Its just an experience. Everything is just an experience. But I'll give you two guys who are self-help that fit your bill. David Goggins, and Jocko. They are healthy versions of Masculine Empowerment. If you want to talk about toughness Tate has never done anything as tough or dangerous as them. And guess what? A psychedelic would still scare the shit outta them. Life is just a mind game. The greatest strength is mastery of mind. Could you face annihilation, realizing you are nothing ultimately, and yet still be able to function? A guy like Tate if he discovered God and the ultimate nature of reality right now, would probably become nihilistic. I don't seek fake strength in guys like Tate. Seek to become the man that nothing can bother him, nothing disturbs his peace. The strongest man is the one with no fear. Fear is the only thing you are fighting in life, and fear is you.