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"The ultimate metaphysical secret, if we dare state it so simply, is that there are no boundaries in the universe. Boundaries are illusions, products not of reality but of the way we map and edit reality. And while it is fine to map out the territory, it is fatal to confuse the two." No Boundaries, Ken Wilber.

What is happening right now is different from what you think is happening.

Medieval Alchemist Vibes:

I'm getting aware that what I really fear is not women at all. It is other MAN. I fear man who are more violent, powerful, stronger, intelligent, skillful than I am. I have fear of losing something to them. I have fear of competition. I have fear of humiliation. I have fear of being ridiculed. I have fear of women perceiving myself as less than other men. It is really paradoxical to say that - what I really fear is not women but their perception. What is paradoxical as a MAN is that your fear of other MAN can really stop you from having a great life. It is like saying that men are controlling the world and if you not behave, they will come to kill you.

The whole point of relationships/dating/seduction is connection & energy exchange. Humans are dehumanizing themselves, missing opportunities in real life to look someone in the eye, talk, hug, connect, flirt, laugh - just being in the presence of a human being that they like/admire. Discomfort, fear, hesitation, shame, nervousness - this is the whole point of dealing with mistery. Mistery, seduction, game itself, laughing, flirting, attraction. Enjoy the human dance.

Personally, I think pickup is all about finding women that you care about and/or love to be around them to have different dates. I really like running, books, coffeshops, gastronomy, art, travelling, meditation, yoga, science, technology, philosophy, spirituality. It is not about approaches, phone numbers, how do I look like, measuring women on a beauty scale, X amount of laid, being a pickup artist, reputation, techniques or manipulation. It is about connection, real moments and life. Raw L-I-F-E. You get to a point of being completely hopeless because online dating is boring, painful and strange. I don't want to be on DMs/Dating Apps begging for attention. This is dehumanization. Now I get why people are hopeless in life. They are always choosing the easy boring path.

Synthesis: I have fear of conflict. (Physical/Emotional)

I'm doing daygame recently. I approached a woman last day. It was fun. She was a beauty, funny but married. No worries. You keep doing it to exercise your will to go for what you want in life. I have two major fears when I approach: Man's Repreension: Getting into a fight, having to deal with a boyfriend (imaginary or not), being arrested or kicked out of a place. Reaction: She will not know how to react, freaking out, screaming or freeze. This is something that I will work on. You shouldn't have fear to cause emotions on humans (positive/negative).

Sorry to hear that man. Develop yourself, it is never too late.

I really like this infographics. We can make sense of what are the possible explanations on UAPs. Great work made by Curt Jaimungal & Alex Gomez-Marin What do you think?

I don't know what to make out of it. We are scratching the surface of this whole story. We will need a complete recontextualization regarding science, religion and spirituality to understand it all.

Sure. What we call alien is clearly becoming something like spiritual software. Post-Biological Beings 👽

Sure

Thanks. I didn't knew people were reading

Today I approached a woman. Extremely feminine, beautiful but happily married She appreciated the initiation and proactivity. We had some laughs together! It was really fun

It is only a perspective. Not to be treated like a Truth with capital T.

This is eye-opening:

Sure. They are just who they are, no shame, no standards - I am a human therefore I deserve my needs met. They just relate to woman as walking to get a cup of water. Normal, easy, no effort, no emotional desperation. You can't get what you put on a pedestal. Reality is so fucking weird/paradoxical. They train people to become obsessed with intense force and effort like slaves. Change Paradigm, Change Results.

Men don't need to be masculine as we were in the past. You don't have to hunt. (Act of Killing) We have government, policy, laws, internet, distraction, porn, alcohol, sugar, process food. You just have to live on a comfort bubble. Masculinity is about strength, resilience and generative power. Society are not giving us situations to BE masculine. You have to create your own challenges. You have to become Sisyphus and laugh about the "weight of the rock" = life, challenges, situations, goals. This is strength. This can also be helpful: https://civilizationemerging.com/what-i-learned-about-being-a-man-from-my-dad/

One thing that helped me a lot with daygame is a concept called "excess potential" by Vadim Zeland. "Excess potentials are created in a variety of ways, but in this case we will be discussing one specific kind: the energy of elevated importance. This excess potential arises when you give an artificially inflated importance to one subject over everything else." Play with abandon, effortless power, power x force.

@bambi @Emerald Thanks for your opinions It helped me a lot.

Appreciate your view

I get what you are talking about. Women can select based on smell, walking style, tone of voice, gestures, composure and many other unconscious features that we even don't imagine but for them it seems "the right guy".

@Emerald If one day you could make a post, do it about how a woman show intent in a way that men can't understand/perceive. Sometimes, women are giving signals but we just don't get it. It is not explicit enough. Like this one: