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Look at how people talk about dating. This is awful, strange, unrealistic. They are completely clueless about what makes a woman attracted to yourself. This is why guys struggle a lot with attraction and dating.

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I can guarantee you: No matter how insane, problematic, normal your problems are, you actually don't want to solve them. You have solutions to your problems. All of them. Right now, all of your problems are solvable problems. A human being already did it. The solution is on a video, book, blog, AI, friend, expert or it is right here into Consciousness waiting for you. You love drama, conflict, feeling like a victim, being weak. That is why your life sucks. You are holding reality too tightly. Contemplate: Why I don't want to solve them? Why do I love my problems? Why do I think it is a problem? Why do I love being hurt? What will happen if I solve this problem? What will happen if I never solve this problem?

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Why don't you date PwD women? Search for women who are not pickier or high status. There are tons of woman out there wanting a PwD man to make life easier. You are above a lot of guys on your honesty and conscientiousness. You can be a PwD high status male. Can you joke about your situation? That's your #1 priority. Humor, healing, laughter, changing state. What can you do to improve your looks? How do you rate yourself?

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We have a tendency to measure our progress related to what we do, how productive we are, habits, practices, books. Do you see? We have an approach to focus on WHAT WE DO. I want you to focus on WHAT YOU DON'T DO but it is beneficial to your life. Make a list of things you don't do daily that increase your quality of life. I don't drink alcohol. I don't smoke crack. I don't kill people. I don't watch TV. I don't think about suicide. There are so many EMPOWERING things YOU DON'T DO because of your Level of Consciousness & Cognitive Development.

The worst part of AI is that it increases your impostor syndrome on 10000x. Before AI you feel like cheating. After AI, you think you are just receiving money for not working - it almost feels like you're a thief.

At this point you should work on refining your prompts, learn new tech stacks, experiment creating novel software/original UIs, aesthetics, building unique things, digital experiences. You can automate your work with AI + develop projects for yourself to code on hard mode (No-AI).

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Dude, you're 34. You have a lot of room for improvement. There are a lot of guys working on themselves in their 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s. Leo started on his pickup journey almost 30. If you want to be more specific, what is your birth injury? Can you walk? talk? move? are you on a wheelchair? I also got bullied in school, no worries, we all have been. Do you remember how many people bullied you? Is it fair that one girl had the power to determine your sexual life? Why this specific girl was able to determine who you were/are as a man? Sorry to hear that. What can you do today to forgive your father to move on with your life? That is bad man, I'm sorry for your loss. I got you. We pretend that we are on 2nd Tier Spiral Dynamics. I know your experience of life was/is tough to deal with. If I was you, I would seek this steps to deal with your issues. What I would do: Therapy: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) (If you don't have money, use ChatGPT or Gemini - better than nothing). Meditation, Contemplation, Breathwork, Kriya Yoga - 30m/day Sun (You need SUN in your SKIN) Clean Diet + Fasting (12h-16h) + Water (3L/day) Long Walks (3km-5km), Running, Lifting (#1 priority is mental/physical health) Content Consumption (AVOID: Incel, Red Pill, Black Pill, Nihilistic, MGTOW) I can relate how tough your life is. You have to process a lot of things inside yourself. I would do an experiment to live like a Monk, Sage, Mystic for 1 year. Actually, your issues are not related to woman at all. You just need to clean your lenses, deal with your past experiences, forgive those who hurt you, forgive yourself.

Dan Koe's ultimate goal is to help people reach a state of agency: the ability to act without seeking permission, where their work is simply an extension of their personal growth and contribution to society. You can download his book for free where he explains in depth his own philosophy. Purpose-Profit.pdf

100% The majority of people on the forum are anti-science or spiritual to discuss scientific matters. They don't enjoy it or see it as sloppy falsehood.

Which are your unsolvable problems? Be honest, open, direct - we can help.

Suicide is not an option. NEVER! You should open up with us. We don't know who you are, be free and express yourself. Why do you think is late to turn your life on a new trajectory? How can you start forgiving woman for what they did to you?

Imagine a original career for yourself. Create something that only you can be in this world. WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE? TO DO? TO HAVE? Imagine you are a sci-fi writer living on 2100s. Write about your past as if you were in the future.

There are great wisdom on Goddard's lectures. His philosophy of abundance and inner-richness is something powerful to cultivate.

Thanks @Tenebroso If you were my son, I would say this to you: You are stuck between hating woman and wanting to be a lover. The most paradoxical thing is that you love woman more than a lot of guys that you see with a GF. Your hate for woman can turn into a love so deep that it reflects onto yourself. You have to decide between: You leave the dating game - you become a Monk, Sage, Mystic. You will NEVER talk about women again in your life. Make this promise to you. Leave them, let them be, whatever they are, you are free. You stay on your path, talking about woman, hating on them, shaming them, talking shit about them. Admit to yourself you love woman and you want them in your life. You learn how to become a intelligent social hacker. You understand how the game really works. You gamify your goals. You study them. You make progress. You are a masterful social hacker. You are seeking mastery. You learn how to be a lover, friend, supporter of woman. You turn your hate on pure love. Decide. You have to let it go, no matter your choice.

Sure. Don't waste your time hating on women or being resentful towards them. Improve your avatar inside the dating game or leave it altogether. Don't half ass. 0 or 1.

No one search for Truth 24/7. Chill, eat your pizza.

@Tenebroso Become a Chad, because your future is up to you. Do not hate the game, love the possibility that you can WIN. Improve everything.

Humans are pickier on people they think has less value (sexual, physical, financial, intellectual, emotional, material, spiritual) than themselves. Attraction is a game. If you are tall, handsome and intelligent as I am, your life is pretty easy. I think it is healthy for a woman to be pickier. If I was a woman, i would screen guys like an agent.