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In the end it’s all relative what I say a 9 or a 10 is might be different in your scale, sometimes when you sleep with an even hotter girl than the one before, the one that used to be a 9 becomes a 7 .

For what?

I once had a neighbor that was physically attractive but had a very deep & manly voice so you would look at her and be drown but once she spoke she turned into my brother

Funny how one would assume all people living in Switzerland are happy, when I had rage and anger I worked it out through sex, weed, meditation, work and generally being active to the point of not having enough energy for anger or rage.

Another one and this is a big one is :- if you have slept with a 10 or a 9 it’s gonna be very difficult for you ( at least for me ) to settle and be attracted to anything less next time around , it’s gonna feel as if you downgraded and I bet it’s the same for girls. it’s like you just had an insane awakening and an insane feeling of love and happiness but then you have to go back to ordinary life, it’s very difficult to find anything that great in ordinary life, so you keep wanting to go deeper and deeper

Another point is that some men are able to bring out more femininity out of the girl and vice versa for men, so it’s not that the girl isn’t feminine enough or he isn’t man enough, they’re just pairing with the wrong person.

We really have different ideas of what hot is as humans, for me if she has any traits of a man it’s an immediate turn off everything is gotta be girly and cute to call her hot. and it better be genuine, a lot of girls and guys fake being manly or girly and cute, which is cringe as fuck.

I never heard of anyone finding masculine girls attractive, everyone embodies both energies, the problem we currently have is people even have different definitions of what masculinity vs femininity is. but you’re right, physical attractiveness is a good balance between the masculine and the feminine, if she has too much estrogen with very little testosterone chances are she’s fat and she’s all over the place physically and mentally.

By feminine I mean more girly and yes they’re the hot ones most of the time, same concept for the masculine we can bring spirituality into this and say it’s all relative ( hotness, masculine, feminine) but we’re talking about relative physical attraction.

Do you not have social media? Have you seen couples outside? for a girl or a guy that’s a 10 if they even hang out with people that are let’s say a 7, other people will give them looks and even their friends and families will not approve of it, I’m not saying that it doesn’t happen but it’s rare, because that imbalance in beauty, money, fame, status, generally will make the other person unhappy.

No idea what you just said

This is generally more true for a long term relationship, you can still have sex with a 10 even if you’re 4 it’s not outside the realm of possibility.

The way I see it, without any sort of manipulation or game or whatever, most girls that we call “hot” are usually extremely feminine and you often will see them with an extremely masculine man to balance her out, so to me however much “ manliness “ you have, almost equally the feminine girl you get, so if you’re a 10 in manliness you’ll easily be getting a 10 in femininity ( which are the hot ones )

A Balancing act between being realistic vs being delusional, yeah it’s nice to say you can set your mind to achieve anything in the world, but at the same time being 5’3 will not make me a great NBA player, to me it’s not a matter of being motivated vs depressed, it’s about being realistic about one’s abilities. it’s important to know your weaknesses and acknowledging them so you don’t invest in the wrong things which will make you even more depressed because you wasted years in the wrong areas of life for you.

I tell a lot of people, especially the people around me that I do not judge, but most people will think what I mean by that is that I don’t make a judgment in the sense that I wouldn’t judge hot water and say it’s hot or see a short person and wouldn’t call them short, which is stupid I do make distinctions/ “judgements “ on things and people, But when I say I don’t judge I mean I don’t care about the things you have done, I won’t give you a label, like if you’ve slept with 10,000 men I will not call you a whore or a slut which what I lot of people will call you, to me it’s sexual freedom ( unless you’re a real prostitute, then a whore is just a different job title you have, not a moral judgment ) I lot of people make the mistake of interpreting what a guru or spiritual guru means when they say give up judgement, they don’t mean don’t make a distinction between a good citizen/ criminal, and when I say criminal this is not a moral judgement, this is what you call people that don’t abide by society’s rules, and if you were spiritual and understand where they’re coming from, you would still put them in prison, but you wouldn’t demonize them because they’re literally a different aspect of god’s perfect design, only you’re unaware of that, if you judge or demonize anyone. another example would be if I call someone a fool or an idiot, mentally unstable, or ugly, I’m not being a bully here, I’m just describing certain qualities that a person may have, now there are real bullies that will tell you those things just to hurt your feelings, but for me if I ever say any of these things to someone, my intention is not to hurt them in any shape or form, my intention is for truth despite what it will do to your fragile ego and feelings.

This is the exact point I was trying to make when I made this post.

I got off topic there, but I said they were doing it to live longer which I don’t think the gym will necessarily do that for you.

Lol, I myself am a gym rat ( lift weights about 2 hours for 5 days a week )and I get around 10k steps a day, do I feel great physically mentally,emotionally, yes, but I don’t really buy the idea that it it will make me live longer, for one I require way more sleep than the average person to recover, also the insane appetite you’ll have if you’re this active which means more calories will be consumed and I’ve seen documentaries and research saying how consuming less calories in one’s life will allow you to live longer, which is why I say that being active and healthy doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll live longer. https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2023/02/10/health/restricting-calories-longevity-wellness/index.html I don’t really know if those studies are true, but intuitively I know that calories and being extremely active will not make you live longer, although I don’t have any empirical/ scientific method sorta proof to show you.

You’re mistaken living longer with being healthy. My points above weren’t about whether or not exercise will make you stronger or healthier, it was whether or not it’s the best strategy to make you live as long as possible you can be too healthy and lively for your own good, which may results in you actually living less.

The topic was about whether or not being active/ athletic is the best strategy for living as long as possible, I’ve said it many times here that I don’t doubt that exercising makes you stronger, but stronger doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll live longer.

I’m not saying sleep isn’t good or won’t make you feel good but if you’re sleeping and exercising just to live longer, what would be the point of prolonging life? Is it just to sleep and exercise? a lot of people don’t enjoy exercising and being healthy, but they do it to live longer, what’s the point of prolonging a life you don’t enjoy?

- What’s the point of living to 70 yrs of age if you’re gonna sleep 1/4 of it - your heart not going above 100 depends on what kinds of things you’re doing and your weight, a lot of us do physical work that already is a workout although for longer hours of the weak so it makes you lose and not gaining muscle. - as I said above, once you’re athletic, it becomes an endorphin/ androgen addiction, so you’re more likely to do more and more - a lot of us get more than 2 mins of sex, especially if you’re in a good shape you gotta remember this talk is not about whether exercise will make you feel better or healthier or not, its about the question of is it really the best strategy to live longer ? On the side it was also about a philosophical question of, how can overusing a thing make it last longer? And I don’t care how low your resting heart rate goes, just how a fat person builds the habit of being lazy and inactive and can’t seem to break out of it, the same goes for a fit/ athletic person, they also got themselves into this being active habit and it’s very hard for them to just sit down and rest, which means their heart will be working more than average as well. If you were fit enough, you’ll know what I’m talking about. which is why I said somewhere in between is probably our best bet to live longer, if you already get enough moving around from your job, and daily life, while eating a healthy diet, you would probably live longer than athletic folks.

my whole argument was that being athletic may not get you to 70 yr of age, being extremely fit and athletic is one extreme being lazy and eating junk is another extreme if you truly wanted to maximize longevity you would go with something in between. But that’s not what most people would tell you, most people think that the more fit and active you are, the longer you will live, and that I disagree with

Yes, your heart beat rate does drop when you become more athletic, which means less work for the heart, but that sort of linear thinking is what I have a problem with, There are other factors you’re not considering, like how athletes tend to want to be more and more active which means that they’ll be using their heart way more than a person that isn’t athletic , - yes my resting heart rate is 50 bpm, but I’m athletic, I’m never resting, it becomes a sort of androgens / endorphins addiction. - You have the factor of a higher sex drive, more cardio work - you have the factor of having an insane appetite that’s due to being active , and based on what the science says, the more calories you consume the less you live. - yes you become a well oiled, perfectly functioning machine, but the amount of high energy state you’re in can easily cause something to go wrong not just the heart, your kidneys, your joints, nerves, or just a simple athletic accident.

Microbes also include bacteria and viruses that could make you sick and throw up, some are deadly, according to science of course, the only raw things I consume is sushi, and raw eggs.