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Okay cool

I don’t mind at all. I like having you as a contact in general. I don’t really react to it much (I’m very neutral ) I’m very stone face lol

It’s okay here in your journal it won’t derail threads

That’s very creative of you

Are you gonna try something with a shaman?

It seems a lot of influencers live in Bali, it’s like a hot spot for them. Maybe you’ll become one of them 😹like an epidemic

I missed this reply i feel I used to be like that. I used to have a rich imagination that would give me a lot of pleasure thats good you don’t go into depressive episodes

What do you mean by this

Mindset change helped me too

As long as there is a demand for such content or sex in general from men there will always be supply. In the most severe cases men will even force women to fulfill this demand, for example what some pimps do. We live in hypersexual culture here in the west in general, in combination with how our modern world works in terms of easy access to pleasure and “dopamine” so I can’t fully blame men for falling for such things, because our society is built for it to easily happen. It can take a lot of work for someone to un wean themselves from this hypersexual culture and stop consuming such things. It’s possible though and I think it’s a good idea to strive for it as a man (and woman too if you happen to fall for it too). As with a lot of other forms of pleasure seeking. It’s on the individual themselves to work on this, but a societal level change would help too, like more equality for example

It’s cool to learn but hard

I remember in high school even if I studied hard I struggled with physics (I got a C so it’s not too bad) . Some other students would get As? What’s the difference? I’d say for the most part the number one thing is studying properly and hard. But what also plays a role is one’s natural logical intelligence. Some are just naturally more logically intelligent than others, and it’s those who become those crazy good scientists. It’s possible with mediocre intelligence too but two people with different intelligence working equally as hard the one with higher will do better. So you gotta outwork them if you have average intelligence. It’s a cold truth. Some just “get it” faster than others. Others need more work and having a fierce passion for it is crucial. I haven’t read that book but if it’s about mastery then sure it can apply to this

@Schizophonia Ok

Acceptance seems important to me yes, its. twisted how it works. Understood

how? True thats why I combine it with intuition and personal experience Thats cool Breathing exercises seem very powerful ive thought about doing it

that’s great. Maybe you write in your journal and I can’t remember but what helped you sleep would you say? and what do you mean by “well surrounded”

That’s cool you’ve been able to identify what diets work better or worse for you. I haven’t noticed much in myself, I seem to tolerate most food very well. Experimentation is so important to find out what works for you, rather than just going with the science, although the science is still very valuable. Joe dispenza seems cool, he seems to have done incredible work. I’m open to those things

I’m fine how are you? I’ll tell you how it goes

You’re strong

I will switch to this med in march I’ll see how it compares to olanzipine

I can see your points. For now Europe is good for me. But the intrigue for America is still there for me. They have it all, the good and the ugly, and if you’re good financially you can live well there , and chose safer areas, better food etc, that would be ideal

Our minds in this modern world with instant gratification and easily accessible pleasure and dopamine are not used to doing long focused tasks. Or meditating and “doing nothing”. So it’s natural for let’s say frustration to arise. Try to view it like a wave, it will come but it will eventually pass, you just have to get through it, surf that wave, tolerate it, let it be. Your brain is struggling to stay focused and present because it’s not used to it yet. But with consistent practice it probably will get used to it and the frustration will subside.

US feels for me like the center of the world. They have everything, and if you manage to get yourself into a decent position financially and build a security for yourself you can live a pretty good life there. Plus it seems more sociable.

Primosten a lot, krk (a lot when I was younger), I’ve been to Zagreb twice, I’ve been a little to split, been to kaštela once , been to Rijeka once or twice , been to otocac (when we visited plitvice) can’t remember more

Didn’t know as I pretty much only go to the Adriatic part. That’s cool you’ve traveled so much I’m not allowed to travel alone. Yea considering how expensive it can be you really wanna feel like it’s worth it. You could really sit down and make a list of the pros and cons or something . I know we can be a bit reluctant to leave the safety of Europe , it’s a big step. I’m personally drawn to America too so I’d say go for it , try it out. But have comprehensive planning. You’ve already traveled so much so you probably know how to deal with it