Sugarcoat

“You are here right now” just because it seems like it doesn’t mean it’s the case

So if everything would suddenly freeze and be still then that would be nothing? I thought something is just something limited with a border, separate

Does that prove there is something?

How do you know there is something?

I agree

I don’t know it’s just my theorizing. But it’s like it’s all appearance, but the appearances work in certain ways. So if you drop a glass on the floor it will break. So the appearance of the floor and the glass interact and affect each other. So I see the brain. The brain produces the sense of self, the appearance of the brain creates the appearance of a self. I don’t know this though , it’s just my theorizing

Just listen to non dual speakers like Jim Newman then

Stress is internal. It’s putting a lot of importance into things. If you could lessen the importance of things. If it’s survival things that you can’t lessen the importance of then it’s just a matter of getting those handled then you can relax afterwards

Something that helped me is developing a tougher mindset so reframing the negative into a challenge, something more positive. Having your mind be active about this new mindset you have formed like an ongoing mantra kind of. It works for me like it calms me down and prepares me for the challenges of life. Also not being too engaged with the outside world learn to bring your attention back to yourself and disengaging a little from the outside world, also getting to a point where you can do your tasks on autopilot so you don’t have to think so much . Simplify your life.

“Then you are imagining it” I like to say the brain is imagining itself kind of

Cool

Everything being in my experience concludes a self that is having that experience

That’s non duality

It’s all god…

All I have is direct experience yes. And within (not the best experience) that experience is an experience of myself. I am myself but I’m also experiencing myself as an object . Maybe I’m misinterpreting but it’s like this twisted thing. I am both aware of myself but I can’t locate myself exactly because I am myself directly

How could nothing reincarnate

What do you mean the source doesn’t exist

Never thought about it that way

i feel i am separate from my body but located in the skull

I believe in some form of reincarnation too. And the people remembering past lives support that. I am also open to the idea of there being other forms of life, in other places or maybe even pararell realms What you’re trying to understand might be one of the hardest tasks because you’re dealing with reality on fundamental level. But it might be possible to find out still. Relative truths are worth exploring! It’s very fascinating!

I believe this to have truth to it, what you wrote. I have myself became aware of the astral body, and the energy in the body, and the mind! I think all of this exists because it can, there’s no reason behind creation, it can be anything, it can be really complex. Plus existence is duality , it means to stick out. We can only experience existence if we have self,

I think in general if you socialize a good amount and expose yourself to a number of people that will create a situation where it’s much more likely you’ll find a partner plus you get better at socializing at the same time. Might be hard if you’re really introverted though but it seems the most common route to take. Many people meet through social circle.

Those are good🤤

That shows you’re doing it well if you manage to get juicy ideas

Hahahah you’re contemplating if the Swedish blondes are worth it