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Ok. I’d agree. It all starts with yourself

@Breakingthewall Do you think many guys desire deeper connection with girl they have sex with but they don’t have the patience to wait after dating for a while so they go for causal sex because the sexual desire is too strong?

So random

I can’t answer this unfortunately my guess would be that it could happen in the form of feeling dirty and perhaps humiliated

@Schizophonia id agree with that. If you like her you wouldn’t feel that way. It’s if you just sleep with her for the sex and physical attraction (or barely even that sometimes) and you don’t genuinely vibe, connect, like her personality. Then you wouldn’t feel drawn to move away from her

@Salvijus the post nut clarity hits

That’s ok

@Schizophonia So which one is true? (You don’t have to say if you don’t want it’s not important I was just curious) Good you don’t feel need to think like that anymore.

Ok…..🧐 You do what you want I just don’t get why someone would say they are virgin if they’re not (I don’t know which one is true now but it doesn’t matter). I’m not really exposing you btw because you’ve written before on forum here openly you had sex

Why you said before you had sex you liaa😂😂😂

Something I have reflected upon is that I think for the average person non duality is actually part of their daily life but it’s just not noticed. I don’t include myself in this group of “average people” because I’m different so I don’t share this experience, which I won’t go into here but anyways…. I talked a little on reddit about this and someone said : ”Your sense of self does go away, but unless you’re LOOKING for it, you probably wouldn’t notice it. It’s very hard to notice the ABSENCE of something”. Basically I believe that the self is not constantly in the awareness of the average person, but it reappears often enough and quickly enough for it to seem like it always exists. And as the person said, it’s hard to notice ABSENCE. Those moments of absence are for example FLOW STATES that a person can get into, for example if they’re playing a video game. It could be by being IMMERSED in something, like watching a movie, or listening deeply to a lecture in school. Basically states where we can get so immersed in something outside ourselves, that we forget ourselves, we are no longer aware of ourselves. But it’s like we don’t NOTICE this. We don’t notice how it’s a non dual state. Or is it? Am I wrong here? What you think? Do you think non duality is a part of life for the average person but it’s not noticed/recognized?

@Breakingthewall I needa quit talking and start realizing..

Oh to reach that place…

Yea people say different things..

Hard to not judge pain

Who knows what babies know…

I see

Women tend to have more options when it comes to sex that’s pretty much it

It’s ok

It’s in my lone wolf independent nature to not care what people think. Maybe what you say fits more younger people, I’m imagining stereotypically like college culture, because for example I work at kindergarten with middle aged women and they seem pretty genuine to me, with balanced egos . Maybe it lessens with age and the maturity that comes with that

Eyyy who let you just write out my problems like that😂 I don’t have derealization/depersonalization btw although it’s similar to it. The rest was right

Haha ok good.

I don’t know what that means

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What is this power you’re talking about? I’d say I’m an average looking young woman but I don’t experience this power. Oh what I power I have to be able to access sex easily, life is so good! It just cured all my misery!