Sugarcoat

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  1. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m not having the best time either so I can relate kinda
  2. I don’t get how it’s not obvious for someone that they have a sense of self still. Like for me it’s so obvious I still have a sense of self and haven’t realized non duality. Like how can you fool yourself this way Like it’s so obvious that you’re trapped in duality when you are
  3. We can’t think of something that isn’t some version of what we have perceived through our senses (including emotion) right
  4. Great idea you should be my manager
  5. It’s not real separation I think
  6. My question is simply: is reality limited to being limitless? But it’s kind of a paradox
  7. So it’s all imaginary , all the same substance
  8. I’ve thought too what real means. I think we experience ourselves as real then that creates sense of world and other people being real. But do we really see objects? Or do we just see an even field? Our mind can kind of “limit” our perception to other people and things
  9. Any thought is of something finite
  10. It will be a compilation of armchair philosophy going around in circles with language definitions and never actually getting any direct experience 😂my life
  11. Guys, I think I solved it. Limitless= no limit. Limitless literally means no limit. So reality has no limit Case closed 😂 Armchair philosophy 😆
  12. There might be some accuracy to it
  13. Lol it’s a valid question isn’t it?🤣
  14. Thats cool. Could you describe this state more?
  15. I don’t quite understand your question by the way it was written. Do you mean that the way feminism critiques men makes it more likely for women to dislike then?
  16. But has someone ever experienced how during that high state of consciousness they are able to “dream up” whatever, manifest whatever from their mind? (which is different to being conscious that you’re dreaming reality, because that’s not the same as actually changing reality)
  17. Sometimes maybe the cultural norms are so ingrained that it affects the persons liking. So someone who has been conditioned to believe that arranged marriage is what’s right, religiously, culturally might be more likely to like it and less likely to dare question it. I am theorizing a bit, but I do believe all the feminism in the west, has changed things on several levels, from the more basic things like right to vote that happened a long time ago, to more cultural things like glamourizing the career woman, all of that has made it easier for women to openly criticize and be selective with men.
  18. I don’t know the exact years when it changed for women, but I meant even before that. And other things could have changed, such as the societal pressure to get married, the ideals have changed, the cultural norms.
  19. But even if you lose your sense of self, and become one with everything, your reality will still function by the regular rules and be limited to your particular dream (maybe if you delevop some siddhis the rules can change but that is still limited in what you can develop ). At least that’s how it works on this planet, I’m open to the possibility of it being different somewhere else in reality
  20. It might seem like we’re going in a negative direction of women liking modern men less than before. But I think it only seems that way because women have the choice today to be single to a greater degree than before. Women are more free and have more rights in several areas so that reflects itself in how they’re able to be more selective and expressive with men. Women probably had dislikes for men in the past, maybe even more than now but it wasn’t as evident as they had less choice and freedom.
  21. “You” as in a person or as reality being able to imagine everything ?