Sugarcoat

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  1. If it was hard in college it’s gonna be even harder outside of it. Why was it hard in college? I am going to uni this autumn and I believe I will struggle too because I’m quite quiet and can be a little awkward although I’ve overcame my shyness. I’m open to the possibility of making new friends but it’s not a need I have, I’m fine if I end up alone too. But I understand you aren’t because the average person is wired for relationships.
  2. Thats why I wrote a post a few years ago “spirituality fell away spontaneously “ because I saw how it was my own mental construct and it dissolved. Although now I could hypnotically practice spirituality without it being a mental construct but it took a lot of unraveling of mental constructs to get to that point
  3. That could probably bring about a change
  4. My intuition says the best way to stay protected is to stay incredibly grounded in yourself
  5. Average mindset produces average life. Nothing wrong with that. It’s easy to say “the sky is the limit” “don’t limit yourself” but one requires radical shift in mindset and work ethic to make that shift into someone who could do better. From the framework you have now, yes it’s the best you could do. Self acceptance can be very healing,far from everyone is destined for greatness and that is okay. If you’re pleased with your situation then nothing wrong with staying there, if not, a fundamental change needs to happen
  6. Ok
  7. i don’t remember but it’s fine let me know if you wanna play Minecraft sometime
  8. It’s only for sophisticated taste 😉 Was it in Sweden? I don’t remember
  9. Thanks they were a little less moist now so better and more brown I’d give them an 7.5 out of 10
  10. They were not done inside yet so I put them back in the oven so I’ll update how it goes
  11. They put almonds like that in the recipe so I did it too it adds a crunch
  12. @Schizophonia Saffron buns done 66:
  13. I might
  14. You mean you think I talk decent amount from your experience? I can talk more but sometimes
  15. they are now waiting to grow, then ill put them in oven, I hope they turn out good
  16. I don’t understand what you mean or what it has to do with my response
  17. 65: Ive been using the forum less. It’s mostly because I struggle with having a pretty empty mind so I don’t feel like I have anything to add and then reading feels kinda pointless too. I’m very quiet in real life too. Ive been playing a lot of Minecraft recently it’s kinda fun. I’m in survival mode and found diamonds in some villagers house so that was pretty cool. Tonight I will bake saffron buns and play some more Just some random facts.
  18. Yea becuase your brain is literally wired for socialization. You get dopamine from good interactions with people you like. It might sound obvious what you and I say but sometimes seemingly obvious things can be deep new insights. Whats crazy about socialization is that sometimes even the mere presence of another human being is enough to make you feel fulfilled of that need for socialization. Like how it is to live with family for me, we don’t even have to talk.
  19. Ok understood
  20. So what are feelings then if not emotions?
  21. Feel as in physical sensation or emotion? So cellular organisms have emotions? What?
  22. That’s why I wrote the two most precious things is good mental and physical health (although mental health is for most people dependent on certain circumstances so it can’t be singled out like that)