Sugarcoat

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  1. I meant that the picture in OPs post is more accurate to the reddit forum
  2. The non duality forum on Reddit is more accurate
  3. It’s a form of socialization although not up to par with real life socialization I am more detached from socialization than most
  4. It’s so brutal right.
  5. But when you are here you have attachments and aversions and don’t feel like you’re god..
  6. Most people who think like that probably do in a dualistic way, like religious people Effortlessness can be paradoxical because I find thinking can be effortless but thinking tends to be tied to ego
  7. It’s funny I have bought his book “can’t hurt me” but haven’t read it .
  8. Takes more than a mere saying to turn the ego off. Maybe one could turn that saying into a mantra and it might be more effective. Beautiful post nevertheless. I think the hardest ownership is carrying an identity, existing as limited form, maybe because it’s ultimately untrue so it almost never can be fully relaxed and effortless
  9. I feel this is the accurate interpretation of Christianity
  10. I had a nightmare this week. I am a little weird in the way that I can kinda enjoy nightmares: because I find it interesting what my mind is able to imagine. I’m impressed sometimes by the complexity of my dreams. How my mind is able to imagine so vividly and structured without my conscious effort. I also tend to be somewhat aware while I dream that I’m dreaming: contributing to me not being very fearful of nightmares (although I can still be a little freaked out) I don’t remember that much but what stood out about the nightmare was that I imagined that I was about to get “stuck” in a kind of nothingness. Basically I dreamt that I was going to enter a state where my ego was still there, but all my senses were off, so no sight, no smell, no touch, no hearing etc. And I dreamt that I was being stuck in that nothingness and couldn’t escape, couldn’t move or nothing. I wonder how that would be. Would one go absolutely insane from that? Like imagine if all your senses would “turn off” but you still had your ego and was aware of that “nothingness”. Creepy right.
  11. I’m open to that as I don’t know enough
  12. Cool you did that! I’ve been trying too, to push my limits lately, i notice I stop way before my body gives out
  13. But dying I think includes end of self too Its not me pretending I’m here..reality is
  14. I find in my own journey that this has undid layers to the ego but I never got the entire thing
  15. I think it’s best to contemplate that while in discomfort
  16. I’m not fully getting you but I think you’re pointing to something deep and might be coming from a different place than I am. I find you can do psychological/spiritual work to undo significant amount of societal conditioning. Some things will be left like for example the use of language in your brain. But undoing those things don’t guarantee awakening. Maybe one could awaken but still have societal conditioning
  17. I don’t even know if awareness is possible in a state of no perception . But honestly I don’t really care. Sounds hypocritical since I wrote this thread. But sometimes there’s not much thought put into it
  18. I know, it just sounded like you misunderstood my joke Nevermind 😂