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I already do, and it’s chill. Where are my followers 😌

Don’t tell your doctor, they’ll prescribe anti psychotics (that won’t help)

Yes I’d agree, nothing wrong with your replies!

I am addicted to music and social media and sometimes food I know it’s super common, and some wouldn’t even consider it a problem but rather just the modern lifestyle. But for me it’s not that I wanna get to a point where I never do those things ever. It’s just I don’t wanna be addicted to them and feel the need to do them to excessive degree I realize that every moment I indulge in an addiction, I have the choice to step in, take control and stop What I think is important from my own experience is having strong enough desire to stop for it to overpower the urge And that I feel I lack sometimes. When I was younger, there was certain things that bothered me a ton. So I was driven by a strong desire to change them and I managed to do that. When you have strong desire to change something, and that desire is ever present and it doesn’t just pop up occasionally like “4 am motivation” . Then it’s much easier to change because it’s like a powerful driving force I have a vision in my mind of how my mental state would improve further from unhooking myself from these addictions. But I feel the vision is sometimes not compelling enough to motivate me. When you stop an addiction, what you meet is this “urge”. And it seems it takes time for the urge to go away, so you gotta hold on to receive the benefit, and sometimes when the desire isn’t strong enough I’m just like “fuck it” and give in and get pulled back into the same habit I’m not gonna limit myself tho and I think I need super strong desire to change something. Something like simple mindfulness could work too. It is in a way as simple as just not doing something. But when something feels like a force it might feel like you need a counter force to overpower it… Could someone share the genuine benefits they have received from ending addictions like this? Maybe it could inspire me

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Haahahahaahhahahahahhhhah y’all remember my posts 😂😂😂😂😂 yea it was before. I was wayyyy more obsessed with my looks back then. Nowadays if I had my natural nose I’d be pretty detached from it

Hahahaha I’ve gotten a few comments throughout my life But that isn’t what motivated me, I know there’s guys in this world that would like me regardless. But I personally didn’t like how it looked so now I feel more physically attractive

Yea he looks very masculine, these guys are funny

It sounds great for the brain but I personally don’t have interest in it

That sounds like great balance to me! I do apply that too sometimes. I love coffe shops too

I see Its not inherently racist it depends on what it’s based about.

Yea exactly you’re wired for those chemicals to be triggered by certain people of opposite sex if you’re straight

The difference is still significant enough to cause attraction even if there are similarities

It seems different women have different difficulty in orgasming from purely penetration so yea

I know the feeling. I used to have big nose but I underwent rhinoplasty so now I’m content with it. I feel nose is worse because it’s the middle of your face so it affects appearance so much. Especially as a woman it looks less good to have really big nose

How can you single out a single race like that it’s so much diversity lol

That to me sound like some subtle homophobia hahaha . It’s like saying “well both man and woman are Homo sapiens so fucking a woman is like fucking a guy ahah”

I kidded but yea I’ve heard too that penis and vagina have similar origin when they develop in pregnancy

Does it help you come to imagine her pussy as a penis?

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I shall be skinny 👹

We are aware of thoughts but simultaneously they kinda make up our self. It’s like how we are aware of reality but our mind can also affect how we perceive reality so it gets intertwined with our perception

I can also find myself in a loop

I’m not always sure where that urge comes from. It’s hard to identify sometimes if it’s real hunger or simply boredom and a desire for quick pleasure. In the latter case, I don’t expect those urges to dissapear completely, because nowadays food is tasty and the brain knows, so it’s maybe unrealistic to expect to not crave it even if you’re relatively full. I just wanna stick to eating my plan irregardless of them Yes I will try that. I don’t think it’s a problem to eat sweets occasionally either, it’s just sometimes I overeat on them. Sometimes I can be attracted to the idea of limiting it severely though I don’t feel guilty from pleasure, rather that it feels messy, kinda depleting when it’s excessive in the moment, and sometimes it takes my focus away from tasks Yes I’d agree. It occasionally interferes when I procrastinate sleep and study to listen instead. I sometimes daydream when I listen to music and it makes me more absorbed in my thoughts which I don’t find as an optimal state

I’ve had the exact same thought. Like if something exists there’s a logic to it no matter how twisted it might be, including supernatural and all that