Sugarcoat

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  1. I can’t with your silliness 😭😭😂😂
  2. How do you define solipsism? Because if it means “I’m the only self conscious experience “ then I don’t see how that requires higher consciousness
  3. Hahahahahhaaha asking the important questions
  4. It seems people define solipsism differently. I think of it like when people believe they are the only self conscious being and others lack self consciousness. It doesn’t seem to apply to what you said. Because I’m not talking about realizing “you are everything that exists”. But I guess your point is that this human form, the body and brain, creates such a complex self structure, and it just makes sense to us that we exist, everything seems to suggest it, so makes it harder to break the illusion
  5. Hahaha like a universe with triangles and squares bouncing around or what you mean? I don’t see how that connects to solipsism
  6. At the end of the day, most people feel real. And they feel like others are real. And for most it stays like this throughout their whole life. And that’s what matters. Whether you are actually real or not, illusion or not, whether you believe in solipsism or not. Those things don’t really matter because they’re just ideas for you. It doesn’t change the fact that you feel real and you feel others are real. Now if you could actually change that sense of realness, maybe get a glimpse of non duality, then we are talking, then those things are no longer just concepts. See. Direct experience is what matters. Not what ideas you hold. So take it with a light heart when you’re playing around with these ideas, and be honest with yourself when it’s just ideas vs when your actual experience is starting to change. Sometimes maybe questioning things can alter your experience, then that’s what matters, how your experience changed. If it’s just on mind level it makes no real difference. Why freak out over a concept in your mind like solipsism when you still feel like others are real? See, it most likely didn’t change anything. Your reality remained the same.
  7. You mean reality is infinite so includes the forms “objective reality, self and other”?
  8. I swear. Like you really think you’re the only self illusion in all of reality
  9. Nobody walked into a bar…. - Taoist saying
  10. Ok I see you’re getting more self aware that’s a step in right direction
  11. I was joking. But it could technically help in some case if someone really believes in it
  12. I don’t know how you guys define solipsism. But to me that is if you believe you’re the only conscious experience. So that’s what I meant. I don’t know if you could “awaken” to that, then it means it must be true . But I don’t believe it’s true so I don’t believe you can awaken to it. That’s why I wrote “believe”. I get your point. I have developed a kind of opposite mindset of, “oh I’ll just do it in my next reincarnation, I have infinite reincarnation’s so I have a lot of time to do things”😂😂😂😂😂jk i don’t hold that mindset
  13. That’s a different state than the idea of solipsism but I get your point
  14. Solipsism is lowkey a cure to social anxiety and fear of rejection etc Like if you care what someone thinks, if you’re a guy afraid to approach women, if you just believe they’re actually brain dead and you’re the only conscious experience then what is it to fear
  15. You just exposed a very fundamental part of human nature.
  16. It’s like how people say “you only live once.” So they really think, in all of ETERNITY. Only one life will appear. And then before and after that will be eternal nothing forever. LOL. As if new form won’t appear sooner or later and “you” are born into it.
  17. Why the fuck would reality limit itself to only create one self conscious being and the rest are not conscious? If reality is infinite it can create infinite self conscious beings, infinite illusions, why would there only be one (you) illusion of self.
  18. I resonate with your writings in general. But it’s kind of like it’s more a resonance with you as a person, so with your self, your vibe. Your experiences of the limitless probably has affected you as a person, your self structure, perhaps softened it, so that contributes to your “vibe” that you give off. It seems to me you have directly “experienced” (not the best word but you get it) the limitless, and then when the self reappears and the mind comes back to normal, there is an interpretation of it, a mental framework about this “limitlessness” has been developed, and that’s where this writing comes from. Or do you also write when you are directly in the moment of being open to the limitless? Because then it’s like a writing directly from the “source”. Some very small YouTubers, and very few, who claim to have lost their self, the non dualists, they can sometimes seem to me they are directly speaking from this “limitless” place. And so I can resonate with that too. I find you write clearly. Some parts I struggle to understand such as the synchronization, “a reflection of itself”, “coherence” etc, when you talk about how reality works. It doesn’t matter though, I’m not the type that really seeks understanding so I’m content even if I don’t understand. I thought though, how do glimpses of the limitless lead to this kind of understanding of the “structure of reality”? If I have a glimpse, maybe it’s obvious, “oh this is infinite”, but all the other stuff, I don’t get how that understanding came about. Some other speakers don’t seem to have that understanding, they just say oh the self doesn’t exist. But they don’t talk about the structure of reality much, synchronized this and that
  19. It abso fucking lutely does NOT what r u on
  20. Yea maybe it sounded obvious. But basically this mapping of the opposite gender is unnecessary. Study yourself and you’ll know the other enough …