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HHAAHAHAHAA. I did kinda think to myself that yea this usually lasts for a little while

I remember you mentioned this before. Did it make you suffer less because that’s ultimately what this was about? Some people say they dissociate while in severe enough pain. It seems to be a protective/coping mechanism of the brain. I don’t know if it helps because I haven’t experienced that. But maybe it can block the experience a little I don’t know. But what he in the video is talking about if I remember correctly; is more so going into the pain with your attention so it’s the opposite of dissociation. I remember in my far past when I would run on threadmill, if I kinda placed my attention in my chest where I felt the fatigue it seemed like it kinda helped. I haven’t done that since then so I don’t know if it works. Might try it out sometime. Because I don’t get pain luckily (yet, you never know, we all could get injured or develop disease) so there’s not many ways for me to test this out. But I could try when I workout very intensely

Lazy man tips: ask chat gpt to do the entire contemplation for you 🤣 Jokes aside. There’s different ways to test a statement out. If it’s something about yourself you could test it against what you know about yourself (which is the information you gain from having internal awareness that nobody else has access to). You could test a statement scientifically (not all statements can be tested this way but just an example). You could test a statement against what general opinion says (sometimes what people think in general can hold value because each one has unique life experience and knowledge they are drawing from). You could test a statement by comparing it to various philosophies, if you value the thoughts of big thinkers. So basically if something is “true” can depend on who you ask, what you measure against.

Depends, don’t wanna do like David Goggins run 100 miles untrained, so hard you get rhabdomyolysis, kidney failure, broken feet, shin splints, stress fractures, peeing blood, shitting yourself,etc all in one race. Thats not so healthy

Well the wellbeing part isn’t working out so great for me so that’s right!

Definitely

The way you described him😭 Its funny to think you thought we meant those in the vid

Then we are on a similar page 🫡

Oh that’s why I was confused when you talked about the joystick. Yea obv we’re talking about Ryan and Eva

I’m the wrong person to ask. I socialize too little and have been quite alone most of my life. But I can think of at least something. There is a group of men that can come off as very lustful which might put off some women. I’ve experienced it irl and online. And there’s a group of men struggling to get women, a lonely epidemic am i right? Maybe very basic examples but it’s just what came to mind. I don’t have much of a wish for men to be different except maybe don’t commit most of the crime ahaha

Average is hard to clearly define. One could say there exist trends, shared similarities among groups.

Ok

It’s ok it’s just opinions. We’re exploring ops deeper question

I didn’t notice it. Yea I notice she has a kinda angular bit masculine jaw but I don’t think it’s unattractive But it’s ok it’s just a matter of opinion at this point

Ok I take it back I’d say they are about equal in attractiveness I thought u disagreed with me because you thought SHE was unattractive

You’d have to make sure you’re asking an average woman to get a sense of average woman psychology, if it’s an average woman you’re going for😏

I think she looks great in her age https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLnm6TYRiws/?igsh=MTRnZmc5aDdyZHV2cg==

Maybe I could say that he is more attractive than her . But I don’t think it’s a huge difference that’s my opinion

No?

I was gonna edit my post and say how the thing I said kinda goes against this idea about pursuing truth for truths sake. But I’m a bit different there. I don’t really care much about truth, I just care about wellbeing!

Maybe, I didn’t watch it

I looked her up and think she looks good for her age. I don’t think they’re so far apart looks wise. So yea in that case I think he likes her personality and she is hot ENOUGH for him.

Valid point she could have like formed a bit of an ego around having unconditional love, being able to love “despite” those disabilities. Like it makes her see herself as a good person. She likes his personality and that’s enough for her to be with him. She genuinely thinks you shouldn’t discriminate based on looks/disabilities, that’s a belief she holds that’s very strong. And beliefs can influence attraction. Just some guesses.

Valid question but my guess is that she is a rare exception. So she might have unique psychology that doesn’t represent the average woman. I think Eva Mendes is pretty btw maybe I saw her younger pics

Good