Sugarcoat

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  1. Use your sacred intuition ”heart chakra” to figure this mess out …..
  2. Lol Princess Arabia clearly seems like an individual person to me
  3. Average I guess I think I used the word trump correctly but maybe I didn’t. There was no pun intended I don’t know of any French meaning to it It means what it says. That being horny can make you energized (especially for the action of relieving it) It has been like this for a while I saw what you wrote before the edit lol Maybe he is saving himself
  4. Insomnia is no excuse you just don’t have raging libido , if you had it would trump the insomnia. When you’re really horny it lowkey gives you energy I remember before I became asexual (lol it’s lowkey my new identity)
  5. Why we asking Leo about the most basic human things. It’s not like you have to be an ultra actualized person to form a family. If that was the case 99% of people would be single and childless. LOL
  6. I think caring about the enviroment comes naturally the more high conscious you become. Also in the process of becoming more conscious you detach from many ways of seeking happiness through impermanent objects so it’s natural you’re no longer attached to objects you buy as you no longer rely on such things for happiness. As the world evolves I think more and more people are becoming environmentally conscious even if it’s slow progress. It can even become trendy, which it is in some ways already, for example shopping second hand is a trend amongst young women in the west mainly because of the aesthetics of the clothing but there’s also an environmentally conscious aspect to it. Hopefully such trends spread over the globe. I think in some poorer places there might be an insecurity around money that causes this need to flaunt and look like you have money. So in those cases it might be harder to spread an environmentally conscious message as the eco friendly lifestyle can be associated with poor wealth in their minds which they don’t wanna associate themselves with. When people have comfortable amounts of money it might make them need to flaunt it less and are more open to eco friendly ways I kinda think you aren’t truly a spiritual person if you don’t care about the planet in some way. If you recognize we’re all one then a natural grace towards others includes one towards animals and the planet
  7. Thanks for clarifying in the title that crying means tears coming from your eyes I clearly didn’t know that 😎👍🏻💀
  8. It’s the end of your normal life
  9. What does self dissolution mean to you? For me you end up feeling like you barely exist. But I think there are different kinds of self dissolution
  10. In my experience, with enough self dissolution comes an end to sexual desire, but it’s very hard to achieve. I have no libido , I wish I had it. Why would you not wanna enjoy sex in a moderate amount?
  11. I don’t have a problem with those thoughts i have bought stuff that i could use to kill myself and done research but nothing further than that
  12. So you actively held your attention in your chest? Maybe that just helped you to stop overthinking because it silences the mind when one puts attention on some sense perception.
  13. In summary: you just look good
  14. It’s like the mind is those very things we mentioned (self image etc) and also the place where they occur as you say. Not super important difference In my experience paying attention to your mind is a crucial step if your goal is to see through it and dissolve it
  15. It def plays a huge role. And also the mind is more than our internal thoughts, it’s our self image, and perhaps even image of others we have formed views about, about things too It def goes hand in hand
  16. No. My dad tends to buy pork and he made for himself. Just drizzled in a little oil and some spices.
  17. I ate a little pork belly today for dinner but it was made in oven
  18. Everyone reading this I gotta clarify I did NOT like that 😂
  19. Because it makes you more horny because it’s “forbidden” . I had the same tendency
  20. It kinda depends on the reason why you have difficulty continuing the convo. If it’s fear then getting yourself completely relaxed is a game changer. Like if any insecurity is holding you back. But then you can still not know what to say even if you’re relaxed, it happens to me. Then it could be other factors such as lack of genuine interest in the other but I guess it’s not the case because you said you’re looking for genuine connection so that genuine interest is probably there, it could be lack of interests in your life in general so not having richness in your own life to talk about. It could be too stuck in head so it’s like you’re closed in on yourself, so you’re not able to react as spontaneously to the other person or connect to environment/the other person. You might have ideas in your head about how convos should go, what’s relevant to say or not, what’s appropriate so it’s kinda limiting your flow. Imagine that when you talk, your responses are impulses and they are traveling like on a stream in your head, traveling in your brain to your mouth when you speak. It should be quite a flowing stream, things shouldn’t be blocking it. It’s like you have a connection to yourself, that is your connection to your own stream. Anything that’s blocking the stream is a block in that connection to yourself. So the more your go into yourself, and clean up your psyche, clean it from trauma, insecurity, unwanted societal conditioning that doesn’t align with you. You are cleansing the stream so it can flow better
  21. It’s hard to know where our mind ends and reality begins … they go so hand in hand
  22. Sex can reflect other parts of a person yea