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Maybe he means he isn’t into latinas 👀 hahah i don’t know we will see what he answers

Direct attentive experience leads to a certain kind of understanding. I can see the value in indulging in something for a period in order to transcend it

I used to experiment with this in my past. I had came to a point where i would allow myself to masturbate if I wanted, but I naturally didn’t want to, I wanted to keep and feel that sexual energy inside me. It’s like I naturally intuited this sexual transmutation thing. It’s all in my past though.

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No , only sometimes when I’m half asleep or I’ll have a sexual dream. But not when awake

I do have difficulty in entering “flow” and “forgetting about myself” I had once an interesting experience. I used to have some sexual fantasies I deemed as taboo. And I wanted to not have them anymore. So what I would do is that I would abstain from masturbating to those fantasies, because I believed that with enough time, neuroplasticity would make it so my brain would rewire and I wouldn’t have those tabo fantasies anymore Then one day I just flipped it on its head. I had a little bit of urge left and I just allowed myself to go “fully into it” and indulge in that fantasy as much as I want. When I did that, it lost its allure and I stopped having them. Weird. But it kinda connects to your point about how understanding (through direct experience) helps you transcend it.

It’s mainly positive to have healthy libido right?

Typical actualizer to turn daily events to deep philosophical questioning

It has many uses yea… it can be combined with other things

It was over a year since I last had orgasm so I don’t remember clearly. But I do remember when I was younger, I would kinda try to focus my attention on the sensation of the orgasm to maximize the pleasure. But what I felt was that there seemed to kinda be a barrier between me and the sensation, which wasn’t allowing me to be fully present and enjoy it fully to its maximum. I guess that “distance/separatedness” I experienced is caused by the sense of self/the mind. So no I don’t think I experienced that ego less ness you talk about

I’m very predictable nowadays since I transitioned into zombie mode

How is post nut clarity an ego less state? What kind of post nut clarity yall be having? It’s just you without the horniness, since when did “you” get wiped away in the process.

HHAAHAHAHAA. I did kinda think to myself that yea this usually lasts for a little while

I remember you mentioned this before. Did it make you suffer less because that’s ultimately what this was about? Some people say they dissociate while in severe enough pain. It seems to be a protective/coping mechanism of the brain. I don’t know if it helps because I haven’t experienced that. But maybe it can block the experience a little I don’t know. But what he in the video is talking about if I remember correctly; is more so going into the pain with your attention so it’s the opposite of dissociation. I remember in my far past when I would run on threadmill, if I kinda placed my attention in my chest where I felt the fatigue it seemed like it kinda helped. I haven’t done that since then so I don’t know if it works. Might try it out sometime. Because I don’t get pain luckily (yet, you never know, we all could get injured or develop disease) so there’s not many ways for me to test this out. But I could try when I workout very intensely

Lazy man tips: ask chat gpt to do the entire contemplation for you 🤣 Jokes aside. There’s different ways to test a statement out. If it’s something about yourself you could test it against what you know about yourself (which is the information you gain from having internal awareness that nobody else has access to). You could test a statement scientifically (not all statements can be tested this way but just an example). You could test a statement against what general opinion says (sometimes what people think in general can hold value because each one has unique life experience and knowledge they are drawing from). You could test a statement by comparing it to various philosophies, if you value the thoughts of big thinkers. So basically if something is “true” can depend on who you ask, what you measure against.

Depends, don’t wanna do like David Goggins run 100 miles untrained, so hard you get rhabdomyolysis, kidney failure, broken feet, shin splints, stress fractures, peeing blood, shitting yourself,etc all in one race. Thats not so healthy

Well the wellbeing part isn’t working out so great for me so that’s right!

Definitely

The way you described him😭 Its funny to think you thought we meant those in the vid

Then we are on a similar page 🫡

Oh that’s why I was confused when you talked about the joystick. Yea obv we’re talking about Ryan and Eva

I’m the wrong person to ask. I socialize too little and have been quite alone most of my life. But I can think of at least something. There is a group of men that can come off as very lustful which might put off some women. I’ve experienced it irl and online. And there’s a group of men struggling to get women, a lonely epidemic am i right? Maybe very basic examples but it’s just what came to mind. I don’t have much of a wish for men to be different except maybe don’t commit most of the crime ahaha

Average is hard to clearly define. One could say there exist trends, shared similarities among groups.

Ok

It’s ok it’s just opinions. We’re exploring ops deeper question