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Did it do anything?

@Schizophonia Have you tried or it’s just one of your theories, Freud/jung inspired, appendix complex?

I’m being honest I don’t know and haven’t met enough people in order to draw a conclusion about women like that. If Leo has approached 1000+ women then yes he has more say in the matter Im a lone wolf that’s why But it’s not about protecting my gender. I’m not offended at all. I was just a little suprised because it doesn’t fit the women I’ve met in my life, I thought this crazy hot woman was like a stereotype, a minority of like influencers in Miami or something

So you mean if you get enlightened you’ll be enlightened forever?

Maybe im boring you with my ridiculous torture questions sorry i just can’t help thinking about suffering

It seems as long as there is self there will be suffering But as long as we are here maybe we could practice mindfulness on the suffering, as you say “witness”

It’s hard for people to be open minded partly due to attachments

And one particular form cant be forever either or? For example could infinity create a reality where there is a conscious being that goes through torture for all of eternity Why am I even asking this, if you answer no that doesn’t make it much better because 500 million years of torture isn’t eternal so then that could happen 😂😂

Maybe you can end seeking but how about ending the avoidance of suffering? That’s where I feel I am. I feel my entire life revolves around me avoiding suffering. But I don’t really seek any pleasure

I mean it makes sense because let’s say you’re in a coma for years it’s like no time passed for you when you wake up

Thanks for the tip

What does awareness mean here?

That’s reasonable

It might be similar to those things yea. I was feeling stressed in the beginning but then stress lessened. It lessened by me changing my mindset about it I can feel connected to others it’s just very very subtle I could try to focus my attention on things outside myself (doing the opposite of what my mind naturally does) I don’t know what would happen if I did that consistently a lot. The partial loss of self feels like an emptiness, it’s mostly neutral but I lack joy so that’s negative

Thanks I feel I have always been inward all my life that’s how I function, activities don’t really pull my attention outward. I have to do it actively (like focusing on a sensory perception like some object in front of me). What would happen if I did that a lot I don’t know. My brain would need serious rewiring to stop being inward

@Breakingthewall Nicely put Do you feel contemplation has ever made a difference to you? Because for me I feel I can contemplate reality how much I want but nothing changes. It doesn’t change my brain. It’s like I need something like extreme meditation or psychedelics

Is limitation just apparent, there being no actual real limits/separation?

It’s like any judgment is one of the limited ego so it’s false

So it’s like both nothing and everything Lmao me and my little self sitting here pondering these things. The absolute glory I wanna see the absolute glory

I can kinda confirm this. Because I’ve been in almost selfless states and it’s truly like there’s almost no center I resonate with this but why isn’t reality nothingness when there’s no center. Isn’t limitlessness nothingness?

I can be awake while my body is asleep during sleep paralysis. Also the mind is kind of in a dreamy/half asleep state too while I’m conscious. I have had spiritual experiences during sleep paralysis. But I guess it’s not the same as what you mean. But if you are aware of deep sleep doesn’t that go against the very definition of what sleep is? Sometimes I cannot really tell what state of consciousness I am in. I have had profound , all altering permanent shifts in my life. But I can’t pin point what changed. It’s like I can’t tell if I’m just experiencing a human ego as emptiness, awareness, or if I’m stuck in the illusion. Some seem to make non duality and no self synonyms. Meanwhile others talk about how there can be a sense of self while one is enlightened simultaneously Maybe me having doubts is a sign I’m still in the illusion. Because I heard someone say something I like : “non duality is this moment, without the doubt about it” Do you mean when we are aware of a rock it’s like it is aware of itself? It doesn’t sound scary to me It seems I can for example stop thinking for a very brief moment if I focus my attention on a sensory experience intensely. I can also control a thought. Like right now I could make myself think of a pink elefant But when I do think usually, it feels like the thoughts just come by themselves, being generated by my brain. Also I feel my sense of self is just here. Not something I am doing

Is that some mystical state one can reach? Well I feel awake, as the person. I thought that was illusion? I’m having a hard time isolating a sense of awareness that is beyond the self How is it fundamental to rocks etc? They aren’t conscious You seem to implicitly say that all there is , is what occurs in our present experience, thus you say consciousness comes first. I have been thinking about that. I don’t know what’s true in that regard. I think I would need a deep insight into reality to know Well the sense of separation is not something I chose to create. It’s just how reality seems right now from this perspective. I can understand how it can act like a veil. I don’t really get this but it’s ok. Just a detail

“State of being awake” awake as in not sleeping or enlightened? I am aware of my surroundings. It’s fundamental to being human. But it’s dual to me. I am aware of my surroundings as separate from me. How is this truth?

Why call it consciousness?

Are you able to just shit?