
Sugarcoat
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Basically you’re maximally boosting his ego by making him feel like he is the shit It’s quite feminine indeed. Like being more stoic and detached would be more masculine, it’s a more “giving” position, meanwhile the more emotional expressive one is the receiving one. Theres different components to sex. If you can master them all you’ll be doing the best (potentially overwhelming him if he feels you’re much better than him). So if you know the physical techniques to physically pleasure him, that combined with the psychological factor of boosting his ego. You making him feel good in both body and ego. Sincerely, your fellow virgin. (Take all I say with grain of salt)
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Sugarcoat replied to OBEler's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
“Most” this is a reach 😂 -
One time in high school there was this conventionally attractive guy who joined our class in the middle of the year and a ton of girls flocked to him. So it can happen in the opposite direction. I bet it almost exclusively happens when the person is at least somewhat conventionally attractive.
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Sugarcoat replied to BlessedLion's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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Reproducing may make humanity live longer but what is that worth if quality of life is less
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Hahahahahha yea I know it’s not normal. Nothing normal about me. I already see doctor and they give me meds but it doesn’t help AT ALL
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I think what’s important in the world is reducing the suffering of all living sentient beings. Then what happens to humanity, if we eventually die of or decrease in amount doesn’t matter. It’s not like someone is sad for not being born lol , why is population increase important . Maybe some say it benefits the economy or something but there are other ways to sustain the current populace without the need of more humans, we just have to work smarter
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Sugarcoat replied to BlessedLion's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I been thinking this, everyone is living within their little bubble, their little perspective on the world, although a lot of bubbles can be similar to others because people can have similar conditioning. It’s extremely difficult to escape this bubble because it’s almost your entire reality -
When I lost my libido and most of my sense of self dating became a non issue because I no longer have any desire for it whatsoever, like how you gonna be in relationship if you barely feel you exist, LOL there’s almost no sense of interaction at that point #escape the matrix
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It just means ” listened to it again “ stop overthinking 😑
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I did also in the past but then I revisited the song
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Rigorous scientific study
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That’s the vibe
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What you felt here was the blood rushing towards the periphery of your body due to the elevated heart rate from running #materialistparadigmexplanation #partypooper
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That’s crazy I’ve been listening to this song recently
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Sugarcoat replied to Twentyfirst's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Yea I don’t know if I believe there’s something beyond that, that isn’t on the relative level. But what do I know. I don’t have the direct experience to prove/disprove it -
Sugarcoat replied to Twentyfirst's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
LOL did someone just say non duality is easy and non-threatening. There’s nothing casual about your existence being an illusion and there being only oneness/infinity/nothingness/everything. That is one of the most, if not the most, radical things to realize. -
Love can be in “low conscious “ manner too I believe. Like a murderer could love the act of killing. But I think I agree, the weaker the ego the easier love is. That’s why mystics/yogis can be so loving . A person could form an ego around being loving, but most egos tend to have a darker backside still, so it’s not the same as the ego less love. Yea I think I agree with you mostly
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It’s because it’s hard finding the right girl. So this will be the case for most girls. Or humans in general. It’s very rare but I believe it’s possible to find a woman who also seeks “truth” similarly to you who you’d resonate with You can also think about how you prioritize in your life. As long as you have an ego your interactions with others will be on the ego/dream level. This you have to be honest with yourself about. So most of the time you’re living in the dream like everybody else. But you prioritize truth, and maybe that’s your highest priority, but you could also if you find it important, to make space for egoic desires. Like sex and relationships. And allow those to be on dream level so you don’t expect your partner to align with your truth seeking. It’s a matter of how you prioritize it in your life, a relationship won’t give you permanent bliss, nothing on the worldly level will, but you can still value the short term and more long term (yet still not permanent) happiness it can give. And since it’s on the dream level for you , you accept that your partner is operating on dream level. Then if you one day find the truth and things like relationships are no longer on dream level for you, that is something that has to happen within you, and once it happens nobody outside yourself can pull you back into the dream, so maybe it won’t matter if partner is in the dream because it won’t affect you
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It’s worth it Maybe My favorite ice cream Youre welcome
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Who knows Same. I’m not here to prove myself
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Luckily I have no sleep issues. The only thing is that I can sleep for a long time on weekends and it can feel like I’m wasting time People don’t notice without looking closely on fingers It can be but I feel clearly that I don’t have anxiety believe it or not
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It’s the cafe called espresso house Yea i like it too
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lol I thought this would happen I also felt like letting go of beliefs/attachments was a gradual process I like rustic vibe LOL I just started biting my nails😂I didn’t in the past. And I bite the skin around them too that I’ve done for years. Damn it doesn’t look good Im not anxious for me it’s just habit of biting and picking. Maybe it’s partly genetic because my mom does it very vigorously too
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Illegal combo