Sugarcoat

Not that clear might have to read again but I can understand a little bit

Still there is a difference, all god talk would fly out the window from the pov of the one in the video

Easy when you’re the one watching the video and not in the video ..

I don’t understand once again I tried reading it twice but sure 😂

More hardcore just means what you probably are thinking, more violence, younger seeming women, basically anything “forbidden”, that direction

I mean just escalating by getting more hardcore . Wym no subject

I don’t reaally get how you mean it works here. I guess you mean that what porn someone watches reflects something inside them so something repressed for example. I think it can go both ways so yes that can be the case but also as I mentioned someone going from normal then escalating so I still think I have a point

@Schizophonia stop it😂

I feel porn watching has a tendency to escalate so it starts of with the soft stuff then progresses to more and more hardcore just by how it works on the human reward system. Kind of similar to how many teenagers nowadays have short attention span partly because social media use that starts of normal then escalates to only being able to watch 15 second tik toks where the most interesting and funny content is compressed into short time doesn’t mean everyone who consumes porn or social media for that matter will fall into these traps. Someone could watch it sparingly or watch long pod casts so having good attention span. But this above scenario has a risk of happening and it happens a lot. I think I’ve heard of men developing sexual attraction to teens because of porn who didn’t have it previously, it’s this escalating dynamic I think.

Lmao made me laugh for some reason, the second sentence was so unexpected

Something I’ve been thinking about, is why (here I’m referring to western culture) do we hear men talk about how to be a “real man” but we don’t hear women as much talking about how to be a “real woman”. We don’t really see discussions amongst women about this, speaking in that manner. Why is it so? I think it’s because for women in the west, being a high value woman is simple, it’s means looking good. A woman generally speaking doesn’t think how to be a “real woman” or “high value woman” she just goes to the mirror puts on makeup and makes herself prettier because that’s what gives her that value . So it’s pretty simple. Ofc other traits matter too in societies eyes but for women in the west nothing gets even close to how much good looks is valued (which has conditioned women so they feel so about themselves) so it’s the number one thing. For men tho, being a high value man, a real man, it’s more “broad” what it means. It doesn’t mean one thing like it does for women. There are several things that fall under that category , such as being confident, charming, leader, looks matter too to a degree like being tall but it’s not the main number one thing like it is for women. So this is not all ofc, but maybe one reason we don’t hear women talk about how to be a high value woman/“real woman” as much is because it’s not needed because it’s pretty simple what it means, it means looking good so no need for so much discussion. But for men the term is more broad in meaning and not so clear that’s why so much discussion and it being heard more. just a thought

What you did sounds reasonable I don’t think it needs changing

Because you still feel like it matters

I see

I don’t know how known she is around here but wanted to share as a recommendation. I like how she doesn’t only speak in this “non dual” neo advaita (or whatever it’s called) type of way, she speaks “normal” too about relative stuff. I’ve heard her speak about chakras for example

why I don’t get that impression at all she seems genuinely “non dual”

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@Davino like this

Stress is associated with the self yes our dopamine systems are not adapted for this world for sure

The self is cause for a lot of shieet

Who knows . You can update us how it goes if you try

I’ve wondered about it too. How the hell this self arises the why and everything

Isn’t it like the ultimate “gave up on yourself” thing to do

20 isn’t even that old. Will you feel better about yourself after doing that? I bet not

LOL schhhh🤫