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Maybe it’s only a conceptual realization and you’ve made it into identity and lack of social skills to some degree

What is the godhead?

@Yimpa 👍🏻

@Yimpa I was being slightly sarcastic maybe not so obvious just so you know

Serious answers only..

How did you realize this?

How would we know how you perform in bed?😂

People are like this in general. Hive mind. Not independent judgement. How others perceive someone will affect how they perceive them and thus themselves in relation to them or something idk

I can be audience for fights if you need

I have had this kind of habit naturally since early childhood. It’s a type of brain that does this I feel. There are people no matter how they feel they won’t daydream to cope. I’d say if you are inward and very introverted you’re most prone to it. I do it today sometimes for other reasons but I feel this above is most common. Then if you have trauma too, any insecurities in your sense of self. So it’s not an issue ~in itself~ it’s more a symptom of something else that needs fixing. In some cases that are very extreme yes sometimes actively removing the music can help. But usually the urge will keep coming back and your brain will be doing it as long as those underlying issues aren’t addressed.

Mm my intuition must have been true then

@Schizophonia I have asked this question once if men are naturally more horny and also if it’s more intense for them the desire for it so maybe it’s true although isn’t it an over exaggeration what you said tho

Can you say what the point is I don’t have mental energy to focus and look into the video I saw a little she got all sexual right? I understand your point I think

Ok I understand

I literally thought you were talking about a woman assuming that any man who approaches her is just looking for sex , that it’s wrong she is making such assumptions because it’s unfair toward guys who might not have that intention who loose their chance ok now I understand I think…

Dancing is one thing you can dance with someone without having any intention with anything further, I meant more rejection in terms of like they interested in taking it further dating etc , then sooner or later they gonna have to find out you can’t fake such thing forever that’s what I meant, wasn’t so clear from the get go that I meant that . So better to just be honest “uhm” I know my brain isn’t working properly atm, I mean it seriously . The last sentence is what got me a bit confused but I was thinking it was from female pov . And I do agree with it in some way

I don’t understand. You mean this would happen from the female pov ? So you wrote from female pov now

What’s worse, the possible momentary sting from rejecting someone or having to spend a bunch of time being fake

Yea i can agree sometimes if we push too hard it will backlash. Also try to catch yourself if you’re being fake that can sometimes make one feel even more cringe. Also maybe , I haven’t done this before really but if you say something that feels off maybe you could express it to someone like “I feel like what I just said didn’t come off right “ or something, maybe it could ease it to get some feedback . I had social anxiety in my past so just grabbing ideas from there

Force yourself over and over . Saying things you feel spontaneously in the moment if you feel that block in u. It’s gonna feel cringe many times afterwards looking back at it and you’ll have regrets but that’s ok . And maybe sometimes you’re genuinely gonna be a bit awkward but that’s ok too in this process can’t get better socially with trying so hard not to be awkward, that can counterintuitively make u more awkward even than just being more loose

I don’t worry about future lives no. One can be aware control is illusion maybe conceptually but how that would end worry I don’t see ok if you are so fully sure about it ..

you’re set on that.. I’ve thought about that exact thing how I feel like you can’t escape like sooner or later every “soul” or whatever is gonna go through the worst hell imaginable and nobody can escape it doesn’t help to think that tho since all we know is the present life so when you suffer that’s all there is to you doesn’t matter what comes in further lives if that’s a thing

@Schizophonia k ..

Nothing works on my fucked brain

She is lucky with that choice. Let her. I’m jealous . I think it should be more easily accessible considering how the world is today and how it can be , being human