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I think that’s enlightenment yea or awakening could call it both. Total wipeout of a sense of self. I was just thinking because the shift I had was permanent and massively profound but didn’t wipe my sense of self out, but did erase this attachment to the mind/mental self or something so it’s interesting where that falls. I don’t worry about conceptualizing because it doesn’t change anything

Feminism tends to go against those traditional roles in general so it naturally lessens those expectations on men too I think. Not sure tho

The “emoji “ lol

That’s beautiful

“But you never watched it” lol exposed not say anything why? Because it can’t be spoken or? Or you mean your smile explain it all

That sounds beautiful. Do you experience it where did you get it from?

I don’t know how much is intentional or not. Sometimes it can sound grandiose too

Maybe my title wasn’t the best since im open to any descriptions my world is kind of like that if I can say that I like to conceptualize tho but it’s quite fluid

I mean I still have a sense of I, so its not gone completely, that's why I can talk about it because the sense of I is still here, and I can describe a profound all encompassing shift in this I sense, in the same way I can describe another experience , its just description ofc, but if I can talk about the weather why can't I talk about this, if there is no separation with that non dual reasoning you can't even talk about anything because all talk is dual

im with you mostly, at first it sounds like you are describing what happened here for me, but then when you say how reality perceives itself, and to be "one with" the formless substance, it sounds to me like it would be a total absence of sense of self, which is not something ive "experienced", because I still have a sense of self, but I can kind of "see" or intuit everything youre saying at the same time. So in one way it sounds like we are talking about the same thing and in another not.

i was thinking where he gets all that from lol

neuroleptics increase breast size so its the opposite for women

jesus

i see what youre saying

LOL

You mean men have lower standards ?

Those are all good examples. Maybe what I wrote isn’t such a big factor but still to some degree maybe it could apply. In the west tho isn’t motherhood becoming less and less central , I was thinking about that , hence why I wrote specifically referring to the west because it’s extra hypersexualized here with looks and sex appeal in the focus. Some Other cultures have motherhood and marriage as more central . Not denying it’s existence here but it’s not as central in mainstream society anymore

I’m not disagreeing with you, I agree with it mostly , what you just wrote doesn’t really go against what I wrote. All I said is that in this hypersexualized society in the west, looks in a woman is the trait that is valued the most and pedestalized the most in comparison to the rest, by society and then since women are humans will internalize this so the average young woman is obsesssd with her appearance. In contrast with men it’s more spread out with different traits being valued. So my spontaneous thought was maybe this is one reason as to why we don’t hear as much “how to be real woman/high value woman” because that language isn’t as much needed as the focus is mainly on one trait: looks. yes I know of Anna Bey for example. All of what you wrote is good. But I can say there’s wayyyyyy more women watching a makeup tutorial that what you mentioned

You have a point there i didn’t think about that, maybe subconsciously . It makes more sense than what I wrote

No I havent Maybe it seems so in comparison yes but still overall society is male dominated globally

What kind of goals? I bet many women are unsatisfied in relationships maybe they have easier time to get into one but doesn’t mean they are satisfied

@Schizophonia I don’t really understand what you mean to be honest. I understood the muscle part only pretty much

I don’t think that view is as common as you think

It seems I’m this contracted “I’m here” sense. what do you mean by reaction, it does ring a bell

Don’t know can’t tell honestly