Sugarcoat

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  1. I think it’s fine as long as you’re aware of it being in the dream. So it’s like right now I am aware that I’m in operating from the dual dream. So you’re not fooling yourself.
  2. Yea right. That’s why I’m open to different perspectives. There’s different ways of talking about the absolute
  3. Anything cool about those? Cool I didn’t find on website where it says how to use it. They just say “we don’t take responsibility over how you use this” 😂lmao it’s all sus. It says tho “is not allowed to be prepared, portioned and in oil or another way”. I don’t know what they include in “another way “ I don’t get at all what it’s aimed to be used for Here’s a link https://smoketower.com/dod-thc-a-potpurri-super-lemon-18-25 It was before when I ordered it and they found my stuff and threw it away
  4. I think a kind of natural niceness comes from your own wellbeing, but you don’t have to do extra beyond basic respect and manners, meaning going out of your way to be nice. That’s not necessary. So a natural niceness doesn’t have to pay off because it’s a reflection of your internal state, it’s how you carry yourself it doesn’t have to benefit you. Being nice in a natural well mannered respectable way (not the extra way) shouldn’t be an outstanding quality of yours, but rather just how you naturally are, the bare minimum.
  5. @Schizophonia Do you know anything about THC-A? There is a website called smoketower which is the biggest “headshop” in the nordics . All of their products are legal in Sweden it says and they sell many things including THC-A. It’s like a non psychoactive compound but it becomes thc upon heating. It makes zero sense lol how could that be legal if it’s so easily made into thc. I saw thc-a on their website but I don’t get how it’s supposed to be used. Couldn’t you just buy it legally then heat it up to make thc LMAO😂 Btw I have ordered from that website before (a dab rig) so I know it’s legit
  6. I’ve been wondering lately if there is some truth to this detoxing thing
  7. @Schizophonia understood
  8. And how do you know that 😏😏 🥖
  9. Yea I also resonate with some non dual talkers who emphasize that it’s hopeless, nothing to get etc because there’s no you to get it. That’s how it is in the absolute sense. But it seems that in the relative domain, in our normal life, it can happen that the self structure can soften or partially dissolve. That’s kinda what I feel happened to me. So it’s like the self seems to have many “layers” to it, it’s thick and dense, and layers can shed. But it’s still mileeees away from the total absence.
  10. It’s one thing to know the idea about this all being a narrative vs actually seeing through it. The latter seems the hard part
  11. Damn that’s tough❤️. I can overthink suffering in my mind too. And wonder to myself how others can seem so chill about it, but maybe it’s just how they seem on the outside, can’t know how they are on the inside unless you explicitly ask. I wonder to myself if resistance causes suffering or is suffering something inherent. So is a negative emotion or physical pain inherently suffering , or is it the resistance to it (something the mind does) that causes the suffering? Maybe I should make a post about it
  12. lol it’s just funny Lol I am pretty sure it’s not like that in Sweden that even sounds illegal. Maybe in pervert france
  13. Do you also have this problem of imagining yourself suffering in your mind when you are presented challenges and it’s like your imagination is worse than it actually is? Maybe just me
  14. I’m so chill I have used my far sightedness so little that I’ve become nearsighted. #modernproblems
  15. Hope is lowkey illusion of the mind. Either something happens or it doesn’t, either it gets resolved or it doesn’t, what you believe in your mind and which gives you strength to continue is all in your mind. Not saying it’s a bad thing tho, illusion doesn’t mean bad
  16. Maybe I’m biased but the profile pic kinda makes you look insane
  17. Questioning if you’d go insane is first step to avoid insanity. Something else would be openness (to being wrong for example), total self honesty (this can be hard, because sometimes it can be hard to distinguish between what is your own ideas and what is reality, if there even is such a distinction). Don’t resist insanity too much. Because it means you’re holding on too much to what you perceive as your “sanity”, which is usually a state partly biological partly conditioning. It’s not ~necessarily~ better than insanity in all cases. Embracing insanity might allow you to explore a non conventional state of mind, which could potentially give you value. Ask yourself, are you willing to explore altered states of mind or do you value your current normal state too much and don’t wanna risk getting stuck somewhere else?
  18. Nice. So yea us humans ultimately want to suffer less and be more happy, and some say we long for our non dual nature. So it’s two ways to go about it, you can improve yourself and your life on human level and create as much happiness you can that way, or you can open yourself and that can as you say make human structure less sharp, maybe it “deactivates” it a bit, and lessen suffering and increase happiness that way, and simultaneously fulfill that “longing” for our nature. Both seem somewhat difficult tho.
  19. Very good and short answer
  20. So there’s a clear difference in being caught up in the form and only seeing the limited form vs seeing the totality. Like two completely different realities
  21. I’m no longer keeping track of the number of random thoughts I have shared I don’t wanna have to scroll back and look for it. Nevermind I wanted to share this masterpiece. It’s a parody about this house for gay men to do “stuff” in it hehe watch at your own risk . It’s extra funny when you understand a little German https://youtu.be/u5yUKIfxEbw?si=3_bU9foJo_Qk7597
  22. I looked at it. I’m no better than a man. Better than p***y t**ture at least 🤣
  23. Sounds like seeing through the mind to me. Which is like seeing through the self, it’s all one structure