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You mean that is only the first step, finding someone, then the game begins between the two ?

I think there’s different components to this What you attract: I believe we attract people on somewhat our own “level” . So for example I like to use the example of a woman with low self esteem to illustrate this. We all have heard of some woman that keeps attracting “bad” men over and over. This is no coincidence. She attracts them in many cases because she herself has low self esteem etc, so they compliment her. So if you want to attract high quality partners you have to be high quality. And that you become by working on yourself, becoming secure in yourself, healing yourself etc what you are attracted to: it’s like a double edge sword. If you are like the woman in the example, not only will you ~attract~ “bad” men, but you will also ~be attracted to~ them. I belive we are attracted to people on somewhat or own level, or women might be attracted to men “above” them too. So if you become secure in yourself. If you evolve yourself and heal yourself, who you are attracted to will evolve too. The more high quality you become the more high quality who you’re attracted to become. You will not as easily recognize a high quality partner if you aren’t one yourself finding people: Ofc if you are home alone all the time no matter how high quality you are it’s gonna be harder to find someone so one has to go on a little search in most cases. I myself have tried dating app in the past but didn’t like it because it’s very looks based and it’s hard to know someone’s personality through swiping. And I didn’t find anyone I considered high quality the short time I was there. But it could work in some cases. You could find someone through social circle. In the club and bar at night (here I don’t find what I consider high quality either but in some cases it could work but I think it’s rare) you could also find people on this forum, or other Internet forums for people close to you with your interests. Or in irl activities etc. this is just my little take on this, but hey why would you listen to me when I have no irl experience hehe 😁😁just my own theories and observations

😂😂ok I see now 👍🏻

@Schizophonia do you have a frog or am i misinterpreting something 😂😂😂

Read her cues?

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It’s kinda weird to me that someone would be coached in social skills unless you have some condition that makes you lack in social skills like autism or something. What would you gain from the coaching? Learning a model of how to be and act then mimicking that model? Aka being fake and not letting it come naturally? You shouldn’t need to learn social skills unless you have some condition, it should come naturally imo. There can be things blocking it from coming naturally for example fear then you need to work through that fear by pushing yourself and /or with someone to support you in pushing yourself. Shouldn’t have to cost that much. Other things could be blocking the natural flow too and figuring that out helps but that you can do yourself and maybe someone can help you but it’s not the same as someone helping you in your social skills that’s the part that comes naturally after the other stuff gets resolved. And with exposure to social situations ofc. Basically my point is your brain knows how to socialize naturally it’s just there can be blockages and lack of experience in various social situations . Or you could say it learns to socialize naturally when there’s no blockages and you expose yourself to various social situations

Ok that sounds fun. I hope you have a good time

Ok

Why you being all non dual here lmao

This applies to ~some~ women. Just get good at discerning who when you meet a woman. Improve yourself so you attract good women

Where u going

Thats good 👍🏻

Ok interesting

Ok. So D2 is a type of dopamine receptor?

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Ok interesting. So it’s dopamine antagonist like anti psychotics are from what i read. I thought it was the opposite because it decreased prolactin instead of increasing it like olanzipine does for example Yes you can describe if you want.

I googled . Is it like the opposite of anti psychotics? That’s what it seems like from what I read

😂😂😂😂😂made me laugh out loud.

In English: psychedelics make me horny

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Maybe you wanna have friends to have the option to socialize. So you still have a lot of your alone time which you like. But still have genuine friendships to turn to, to fill the need for socialization. Why you would still feel isolated while being around an old friend I can only guess it can be if you’re not expressing yourself authentically enough then it’s like the person never gets to connect to the real you which maybe could contribute to that sense of isolation

I learn so many new words from you

I’m not sure but it seems women want someone on their level or above

Yea