Sugarcoat
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Sugarcoat replied to shubhamsharma's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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Sorry dude you have two many warning points😂
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Lmao 😂 imagine having mod on actualized as your career, I wonder if they get paid.
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I haven’t experienced it either😂 don’t limit yourself by thinking you can’t be “good” at socializing because you have some core personality hindering you. I’m also massive “introvert”. You can find your own authentic style, authentic is key here, you don’t have to be “energetic” or “extroverted” to socialize, you can be more of a listener, if that feels more authentic, you can be calm and soft spoken, it’s a certain style that one can have. If you have insecurities blocking you then work on those.
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Because he is a man
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What’s your core personality?
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You’ve been saying this for a while. They better respond 😂
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My general impression, not to be too repetitive, is simply that the reason you hate it is because you’re not doing it in an authentic way. And the reason it’s not authentic is because you have insecurities preventing you from accessing your confident authentic self, and you haven’t worked on yourself enough to be authentic in your “game” so it’s like you’re putting on a facade that you’ve picked up from somewhere about how to do game, and you’re just feeling generally insecure in yourself. Ofc it feels awful then. The work lies in working on yourself, for yourself, then that will shine through in your interactions with women as your game becomes more authentic
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Do you feel insecure about initiating contact? ”and the amount of work that needs to be put into this thing” if you’re working on yourself for yourself, to become a better version of yourself it should feel like something you want to do, not a burden. “I’m not a masculine guy” do you want to be more masculine ? That is possible.
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hehe
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Yet you talk on here like you’ve patented the term game 😂😂hehe
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Women + you 😉
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Sugarcoat replied to Reciprocality's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
What is constant in experience? There is you, and there is something other than you. The something other than you changes all the time, but you remain constant. There only seems to be something because you’re there to experience it. Might wanna investigate what that you is -
Imagine living your life and your nephew is writing on forum how he can’t stop thinking sexually about you
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Imagine sitting in court for a crime and saying it’s all love! Can’t dispute that!😂
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you hate having to initiate convo in general or there’s something about game in particular you don’t like? Depends on what game is to you. If it feels fake because you’re following some advice on how to be that you’ve heard than if you’d find a more natural and authentic expression it shouldn’t be feel as awful. Own your desire and express it. It’s for yourself you’re doing this at the end of the day. Or maybe are you afraid of rejection? Overcoming that could help too.
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It’s giving the same energy as when Jim Newman the non dual speaker said once something like “killing babies doesn’t matter” 😂 So brutal . But in absolute sense it’s true
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Nothing incestuous is cool what are u on
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Congrats!
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Why aunt in particular ?
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I’ll have to reread that a few times. Thanks
